Hello,

I've been having relations with a girl I met. I would like to take it to the next level (official girlfriend, commitment, all that), but the extend of our relation hasn't moved out of the bedroom and parties. We only see each other on the weekends.

She seems to have an interest to be with me more, but I can't tell for sure. I like that I can hope in bed with her almost whenever I want and get with other chicks too, but that makes me feel kinda sleezy.

What should I do? How should I handle the situation?

Personally it really bugs me when guys are all obsessed with becoming "official". It doesnt matter what your title is! If you are already seeing her, be it in bed or at parties you've got it made. Ask her if she'd like to go to dinner with you one night. You've already got a connection, you just need to migrate out of the bedroom. I'm positive she will say yes. Let me know how it goes.

quote:Originally posted by Stephanie:

Personally it really bugs me when guys are all obsessed with becoming "official". It doesnt matter what your title is! If you are already seeing her, be it in bed or at parties you've got it made. Ask her if she'd like to go to dinner with you one night. You've already got a connection, you just need to migrate out of the bedroom. I'm positive she will say yes. Let me know how it goes.

That's great advice. Thank you very much.