Alright I'll make this short and too the point. So I've been seeing someone for about a month and a half now, and we have had sex several times. But the last two times I came within like 10 min, wich was a bit of a dissapointment since the time before it lasted about 45 min. This hasn't been a problem for me with my past girlfriends. We were drunk the time it lasted longer so I know that has an effect on it, but what can I do to just plain last longer? what tricks do you guys use?

If she is cute or pretty, dont look at her face.

If she has a nice body or breasts, dont look there.

Find something unattractive, and focus on it.

Dont think about the pleasure you are feeling, and dont think about how good she feels.

Definately dont listen to her if she starts to moan.

Dont go too fast, or too slow.

Blow your load just before you guys are gonna fuck, if thats an option.

"Delay Spray". It's a life saver. Too bad I'm too embarrassed to use it.



Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I hate bipolar. One minute I can't come, the next it's in two minutes.

Oh...ummm....take benzos!

Kegals for men.

E

quote:Originally posted by streetjusticeforall:

If she is cute or pretty, dont look at her face.

If she has a nice body or breasts, dont look there.

Find something unattractive, and focus on it.

Dont think about the pleasure you are feeling, and dont think about how good she feels.

Definately dont listen to her if she starts to moan.

Dont go too fast, or too slow.

Blow your load just before you guys are gonna fuck, if thats an option.

Great, so I'll look at my wall the entire time running baceball scores through my head.

quote:Originally posted by Somewhat Damaged:

Alright I'll make this short and too the point.

lol

Jerk off before you meet up with her.

quote:Originally posted by Somewhat Damaged:

Great, so I'll look at my wall the entire time running baceball scores through my head.

Ive done worse. Pictured my buddy in a pink thong dancing around a la the Simpsons in order to make sure I didnt cum in her while she was having an orgasm.

Make your choice. You wanna be a good lover, or just get off?

quote:Originally posted by streetjusticeforall:

Ive done worse. Pictured my buddy in a pink thong dancing around a la the Simpsons in order to make sure I didnt cum in her while she was having an orgasm.

Make your choice. You wanna be a good lover, or just get off?

my god, i do that too...

Wear 2 condoms, I picked that one up from American Pie and it works pretty well.

It might delay - but they are more likely to split.

ive found myself thinking of tubgirl once or twice to maintain getthing her off while i was on the brink of blowing.

Damn you sexy flanders!

quote:Originally posted by EssJay:

Wear 2 condoms, I picked that one up from American Pie and it works pretty well.

You are joking, right?

-F☺rd

Sometimes I find myself giving in when I'm on top. Keep switching the positions up every five minutes or so and try not to hold your breath when your fucking. When you breathe it delays it.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:



Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I hate bipolar. One minute I can't come, the next it's in two minutes.



Does that really happen sometimes when a person is bipolar?

Your right about the Benzos.

4 me it aint no big deal, if I cum 2 quick i just tell her "damn i really wanted u baby" or some shit like that.

Then jsut wait a couple minutes and go at it again

It might be better also to have her cum first, either go down on her or use your finger if you know what ur doing (and its not just about going in and out)

usually if she already came i dont have a problem doing it quick..



That usually happens though when i havent banged in days and have been "building up" or some shit like that.

quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

lol

LOL i just got why you did that... anyway DONT USE RUBBER BANDS AS COCK RINGS.. i learned from experience there. >_> I'm gonna try 'china brush' tomorrow i hear it works awesome.

quote:Originally posted by goforthebo:

Does that really happen sometimes when a person is bipolar?

Your right about the Benzos.

Yes. It does.

It's fucks with every aspect of your life. It really depends on the person, since my sexual performance is heavily mood based, it means that bipolar effects my performance greatly.

Any way, I resolved this problem yesterday. Best, craziest sex I've had in ages. I came for like 10 seconds. Mmmm...

*edit*

Also, even though I don't use it (too embarrassed), delay spray kicks enormous amounts of ass. It completely numbs the penis. So the act of sex isn't as enjoyable, but you still climax like you normally would. Actually, the climaxes are better than I've ever had. It numbs my penis so much that I could poke the head with the point of a pen and feel NOTHING.

Seriously can't be good for your cock...

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 11-24-2006).]

I have slight bipolar myself and also can sometimes not blow a load durning sex. I never knew that was the reason for it.. freaky.

You aren't cumming too quickly; she is taking far too long to cum. Remember that, dude, because women have brainwashed you to think the other way.

If you really want to last longer, learn how to exercise your Pubococcygeus Muscle ( PC Muscle (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pubococcygeus_muscle)).

Another great tip is understanding that you have more than one shot of cum in you. After you blow it the first time, go back to foreplay, but don't stop playing.

After a bit, you should be hard again. You'll last longer the second time (especially if you blow it inside her the first time) and you should be able to last long enough to get her off.

Otherwise, you might just want to eat her out and get her off before hand. With some women, it's just easier to do it like that, instead of trying to waste time with getting them to cum around your cock.

But yeah... EDiT: Summary

<UL TYPE=SQUARE><LI>Exercise your PC Muscle

<LI>Don't be afraid to cum more than once, yourself

<LI>Don't be afraid to make her cum, first, using oral sex.

</UL>



[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 11-24-2006).]

first, always have atleast 2 condoms. then, if you cum too early just be like: "its because you're so sexy baby" eat her out, make out, do something for like 10min. then fuck her for like 45min on your second nut.

you have to whack off in advance ...

maybe even take a bathroom break to do it ...

speaking from experience ...

quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:

LOL i just got why you did that... anyway DONT USE RUBBER BANDS AS COCK RINGS.. i learned from experience there. &gt;_&gt; I'm gonna try 'china brush' tomorrow i hear it works awesome.

i tried china brush.... its a local numbing agent. cept i used too much and went completely soft and dead.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

You aren't cumming too quickly; she is taking far too long to cum. Remember that, dude, because women have brainwashed you to think the other way.

If you really want to last longer, learn how to exercise your Pubococcygeus Muscle ( PC Muscle (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pubococcygeus_muscle)).

Another great tip is understanding that you have more than one shot of cum in you. After you blow it the first time, go back to foreplay, but don't stop playing.

After a bit, you should be hard again. You'll last longer the second time (especially if you blow it inside her the first time) and you should be able to last long enough to get her off.

Otherwise, you might just want to eat her out and get her off before hand. With some women, it's just easier to do it like that, instead of trying to waste time with getting them to cum around your cock.

But yeah... EDiT: Summary

<UL TYPE=SQUARE><LI>Exercise your PC Muscle

<LI>Don't be afraid to cum more than once, yourself

<LI>Don't be afraid to make her cum, first, using oral sex.

</UL>





Spoken like a true bedroom gangsta.

quote:Originally posted by AeroDynamic:

Jerk off before you meet up with her.

do this a couple of time, it will keep you going for days! not really but atleast for an hour of good, hard, tight pussy pumping.

I'm assuming those of you who use Delay Spray wear a condom after application.

Wouldn't she go numb if you were in direct contact?

That's gotta suck to wear a rubber and still nut in like 5 minutes. Those things are evil!

Technically, you're only meant to last 2-3 minutes of actual in-and-out pumping at full speed. The trick is to vary it up a bit. Slow down, speed up, pull out and use your fingers and tongue when you get too close. Then, once she's had her fill, go full out.

Alright, well today I decided to pull an old trick out of the bag, I got some Extended Plesure condoms (Trojan), wich I tried a long time ago but threw out because ironicly I couldn't blow when I used them. At this point I don't care though, anyways my girlfirend is comming over tonight and we'll see how it works.