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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-11-22, 23:26
HampTheToker HampTheToker is offline
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Default Guys...I have a question

My girlfriend has AD/HD. She was recently taken off Straterra, and I definitely notice a change.

Have you ever dated a chick with ADD?

If so, how was it?
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Old 2006-11-22, 23:29
Lazarus Lazarus is offline
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Not dated, but I know one pretty well.

It's just hard to know how she will react to any given situation, a lot of the time she's fine but sometimes it just takes a hold of her and it's like she's someone else. I don't know what meds she has for it.
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Old 2006-11-23, 04:59
kennyonfire kennyonfire is offline
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yea, and i love all of her ridiculusness
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Old 2006-11-23, 06:47
Mindless Xyzzyean Mindless Xyzzyean is offline
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Turns out my ex has aspergers (or however you spell it), I really just thought she was socially retarted. But i've thought to myself that I really did lower my standards to be with her and however long I was with her was time wasted. But, that was the worse 'relationship' ever.

I copped so much shit for 'cheating' on her, but oh well. I broke it off with her because she was acting like a tard (little did I know she had a mental disorder) and yeah, I got so many messages from her etc... It was kinda creepy. But now I use this to my advantage, be a complete prick to her... using a lot of sarcasm. Because people with Asparagus (the term i like to use) simply dont get sarcasm

But yeah; being with my girl now, I realised how bad I went to stoop down to her (ex) level. It literally makes me sick these days, considering my girl now is the only person that I think i've ever fell in-love with.
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Old 2006-11-23, 10:41
Shodan's Own Shodan's Own is offline
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Default Re: Guys...I have a question

quote:Originally posted by HampTheToker:

My girlfriend has AD/HD. She was recently taken off Straterra, and I definitely notice a change.

Have you ever dated a chick with ADD?

If so, how was it?

I wouldnt be surprised if my fiance has something like that.
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Old 2006-11-23, 17:43
HampTheToker HampTheToker is offline
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lol y ADD pWn j00?

Looks like I've lost another one to ADD.

Cerial, this chick pwnt me. I swear, I'm done with long distance relationships, chicks with ADD, and 18 year olds.

I need a woman, damnit.
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Old 2006-11-24, 04:11
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Guys...I have a question

I have ADD. And I quit taking my meds quit a while ago. I think my boyfriend finds it amusing most of the time and irritating occasionally. I think the only complaint he would have is that I find it extremely hard to sit through a movie, so I'll pester him to leave because I'm bored...Oops...

I'll ask him if he has any other issues with my ADD and report back. He's at the pub now though so you'll have to wait. I'm sorry.
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Old 2006-11-24, 04:20
Gus Gus is offline
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Get her back on her meds. Some people really shouldn't go unmedicated. Most people with ADD are those people.

Makes me want to beat them in the face with a bipolar person! :\
 #9 
Old 2006-11-24, 04:39
TehWTF TehWTF is offline
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I am a chick with ADHD...ask me things
 #10 
Old 2006-11-25, 19:55
HampTheToker HampTheToker is offline
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quote:Originally posted by TehWTF:

I am a chick with ADHD...ask me things

How can I tell when I actually do have the attention of the person I'm talking to?

I honestly can't tell if she ever paid attention to the things I said.
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Old 2006-11-25, 23:31
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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quote:Originally posted by HampTheToker:

How can I tell when I actually do have the attention of the person I'm talking to?

I honestly can't tell if she ever paid attention to the things I said.

You will definitely be able to tell if she's paying attention. Because if she's not, she'll either say something completely random that has nothing to do with the conversation, or she'll see her cat walk by and run over and go squeal about how cute it is.
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Old 2006-11-26, 00:17
RiVAL RiVAL is offline
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I have unmedicated ADD. I don't take pills because I hate the trance they put me in of a good kid who could concentrate and do his homework and when the amphetamines wear off then I feel like a worthless piece of crap so I stopped taking them. And now I'm slowly and steadily failing out of school, I can't play even my favorite videogames because they get so fucking boring after just 30 minutes...I used to play GTA SA hours on end now I can't stand it for more than 10 minutes at a time. But I keep myself busy.....life sucks.........
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Old 2006-11-26, 00:37
RedShift00 RedShift00 is offline
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well, if she has ADD, and you have premature ejaculation, then your sex life should be great.
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Old 2006-11-26, 01:17
Dextros Dextros is offline
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quote:Originally posted by RedShift00:

well, if she has ADD, and you have premature ejaculation, then your sex life should be great.

That's fucking awesome.
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Old 2006-11-26, 12:19
HampTheToker HampTheToker is offline
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quote:Originally posted by RedShift00:

well, if she has ADD, and you have premature ejaculation, then your sex life should be great.

My sex life is always great. I'm a genuinely nice guy, and I definitely have something to offer. That'd be crazy sex. It's a whole 'nother ball park.

Edit: In other words...I'm wondering if I should get my head in the game, and swing my bat, or just sit on the bench and watch the girl's team beat itself.

[This message has been edited by HampTheToker (edited 11-26-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-28, 09:19
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my ADD and if I should go on my meds. He said that I shouldn't, but he wouldn't tell me what my ADD quirks were because he didn't want to embarass me and make me stop...Which I'm not sure how I feel about...*shifty eyes*
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Old 2006-11-28, 10:57
catholic hater catholic hater is offline
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Default Re: Guys...I have a question

i knew some chick with add she scared me

one of me mates fucked her said it was weird
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Old 2006-11-29, 03:58
Cloaked Dagger Cloaked Dagger is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Get her back on her meds. Some people really shouldn't go unmedicated. Most people with ADD are those people.

Makes me want to beat them in the face with a bipolar person! :\

I'm really not liking you for this. I was diagnoised ADD as a kid, they put me on methylphenidate(beter known as ritalin, it's basically a "safer" and weaker coccaine btw, it's a dopamine reuptake inhibitor and a stimulant) for it for a little while. I hated the stuff. I didn't want to take it in school, so half way through school I got a stimulant comedown, got a headache, felt sick, generally felt like shit. Not to mention most of this stuff is neurotoxic so you really shouldn't be taking it every day.

I love my uppers too. I've used(boarded on abused) ecstasy before(and would still be using it if I didn't get busted and wasn't facing charges) and I still refuse to get a prescription or take anything for my supposed ADD, that gives you an idea of how bad these chemicals are for you on a daily basis.



Be glad she's off those drugs man. That shit changes who you are. You want to know the real her don't you? I mean I might drop some ecstasy or acid every now and then, I might smoke a joint or drink every now and then, but I ain't drugged up every fucking day, drugs are just something for the weekend and not even every weekend either. For that matter I've been completely sober for other a month, the only thing even remotely psychoactive I've had is caffeine(because it's in fucking everything) and a single cigarrette in over a month(of course that's more because of the fact I got busted and can't take any more chances now).

ADD isn't really that bad, it just sucks for schoolwork or anything that doesn't interest you.

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