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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2006-11-22, 17:54
mestre_capoeira583 mestre_capoeira583 is offline
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Default Need some advice

Well Ive kinda gotten back into the dating world after I got dumped by my 2 year girlfriend about a week or two ago. Since then my best friend (female) for about 1 and a half years has admitted she was attracted to me. Well when i originally met her I had liked her but she just wanted to be friend, aint that a bitch. She became to be like the little sister i always wanted, this made whats going on even weirder. SO i talked to some of my friends and they said to just go for it and suck it up. Well she has a boyfriend who I know the started doin it maybe 3 weeks ago, not tooo long ago. Well she called me two days ago and had to leave cause her ride just got there or what ever and told me shed call me back and then about 4 hrs later she called me back and this was our conversation: me "Hello", her "hey", me "hey", her "what are you doin?", me "just watching some tv and catchin up on my homework, what are you doin?", her " just lying down with (her boy friend, just dont wanna type his name) in his bed", well right here we can all assume what just happened, me sarcastically "thats great", her "whats wrong?" me "oh nothing i got a ton of homework, Ill talk to you whenever." and then I hung up. Tommorow we were supposed to go to a football game together, just us and i dont really want to go. Today we were stuck with each other in a free period class and she came over sat down next to me and i didnt say a word to her and ended up moving over a few seats. What the hell should I do, that is probably the most f***ed thing I have ever heard of doing towards someone who you'd probably go out with? Im pretty sure im going to skip the game and just call her in the morning and just say Im not going. The worst part is that she came on to me and I think I tarted to like her again. My friend said he could probably get a girl to help me get even with her over the phone like we were about to get it on, but what should I do, she was my best friend?
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Old 2006-11-22, 18:08
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Default Re: Need some advice

Paragraphs are your friend and mean i don't strain my weak and aged eyes.
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Old 2006-11-22, 18:13
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She's your friend and dating someone else.

I don't see the issue.
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Old 2006-11-22, 18:22
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice

God invented Punctuation and Paragraphs...

Use them.
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Old 2006-11-22, 18:23
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice

I think you need a break from dating, and probably try the new toffee nut latte from starbucks.
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Old 2006-11-22, 19:47
mestre_capoeira583 mestre_capoeira583 is offline
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Sorry about the paragraphs. i just wanted to get the ideas down as quickly as possible and starbucks is too rich for my blood. the problem is she wanted to go out with me was what i tried to said but it probably slipped my mind. she wanted it and she got me back into the idea. thanks for the reply so far.
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Old 2006-11-22, 21:31
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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Default Re: Need some advice

does she know you still like her a lot? maybe she doesn't know she's hurting you by telling you stuff like that. anyway, she didn't tell you outright that they'd just been having sex. maybe they weren't.

if she does know you like her, then i think she's just being insensitive. girls can be insensitive too. i don't think she'd deliberately try to hurt her best friend unless she's a mean little bitch.

i'd stay friends with her, because she's your best friend and it will hurt you more to not have her in your life. plus learning to be friends with someone you like who's with someone else is an important life skill to master. just be honest with her and tell her you don't want to hear stuff about her bf because it's awkward and hurtful to you. if she still doesn't respect your feelings, THEN think about ditching her. but right now ditching her will only hurt you.
 
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