Alright so I had a crush on this boy, lets call him Jeff.*

Jeff and I were introduced through a mutual friend maybe like 2 months ago. I noticed him from the very start and I loved how he looked and he was super nice. After we all hung out a couple times I realized That I liked him.

Jeff was really nice to me, but never showed any signs of interest, he was always texting other girls when we were together, and etc...

Then the same friend introduced me and Jeff introduced me to this boy named oh lets call him Trent. I also noticed how Trent was cute.

Trent was more of a rebel and did some different things then Jeff did. He was out there and different.

So at this point I didnt like Trent, I still liked Jeff. But after hanging out with Trent for a while i kind of forgot about Jeff. So a couple of nights ago, I was watching a big football game with My friend who introduced us, Trent, and David (other friend). We were all getting kind of drunk and Trent and I ended up making out and holding hands quite a bit.

Later after some of the alcohol wore off and the game was over, Jeff came over too. He was being a little different then usual and me and him talked for a bit. Then as I was leaving, Jeff asked for a hug, which was the first time he has ever done that.

Basically now I am confused and am not too sure what to do.



some of my shallow friends wanted to make a pro and con list:

Jeff Pros: own car, cell phone, taller, cuter, nice boy to talk home to parents, faithful, and could really be a nice relationship

Jeff cons: Had a brain tumor 2 years ago and could still have some medical problems, ladies like him, I dont see him much in school, and is obsessed with baseball.



Trent Pros: Spontaneous, shows affection, I see him a bit, cute, plays football, can get the hook up on stuff, likes to party



Trent Cons: no cell phone, car, can get me in trouble, Ladies man, kind of pushy, my parents might not like him, smokes too much, and is cocky.



What should I do in this situation.

*all names have been changed.



edit: I am 15. flame all you want but i mean, whatever.



[This message has been edited by bittersweetsymphony (edited 11-21-2006).]

I hate to make a mockery of your situation like this, but I've been away for so long...

murder/suicide

But seriously, this shit is young love, go with whoever feels right.

quote:We were all getting kind of drunk and Trent and I ended up making out and holding hands quite a bit.

Holding hands? Damn, do I hear wedding bells?

Oh yeah, he has no cell phone... fuck that!

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

We were all getting kind of drunk and Trent and I ended up making out and holding hands quite a bit.

Holding hands? Damn, do I hear wedding bells?

Oh yeah, he has no cell phone... fuck that!

hahah funny.

Come on, if he hadn't done it, I would have. You've given a list of the pro's and con's and you're asking the public to decide. This isn't a talent competition, just decide who you want and forget the other guy.

gotta be harsh, but it's the truth.

Cute.

You'll make a decision. There's no right or wrong to it.

Go with whomever you find to be better company and whomever you think you'll have more fun around.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Cute.

You'll make a decision. There's no right or wrong to it.

Go with whomever you find to be better company and whomever you think you'll have more fun around.

Can I get an AY-MEN?

Or for yins of the Islamic faith, how 'bout a prayer call?