When it comes to giving head I like to think I'm pretty good at it. At least, my boyfriend has no complaints. But the thing is, my boyfriend doesn't want me touching his balls during blowjobs. He said that he never found touching them himself to be enjoyable, and he isn't fond of the idea of me touching them because of how sensitive they are. But from what I've read on here and in articles, touching his balls can be very stimulating, and I really want to make sure he isn't missing out on something great. I've convinced him to let me experiment (very carefully) but I don't really know what to try considering how sensitive he is.



So in a nutshell my question is: what are some things I can do to help get him more comfortable with the idea of me touching his balls, and how can I help him get the best possible experience from it?

Please share your personal preferences/experiences.

If he doesn't like his balls touched, then he doesn't like his balls touched.

If you didn't like a guy shoving his fist up your pussy, how would you feel if your boyfriend kept on asking to shove it up there?

Really now, just be careful while playing with him, and don't overwork them. They're sensitive.

Put em in your mouth, and tickle them with your tung.

I don't really enjoy touching of the balls.

Stick to the penis. I'm suprised he even let you 'expirement'. My balls are just really sensitive, but not in a penis sensitive, in a ticklish sensitive. Last thing I want to do before I bust a nut is get a tickling sensation that makes me want to throw my arms + feet in the air.

I dont really like having my balls touched either. But if you press up, between the back of the balls, you can feel the part of his shaft that goes through them. If you rub it in circles or a back and forth motion, it adds another dimension to the experience.

At least thats what I do sometimes when I'm alone. My girl never shows any interest in anything but my shaft, and I'm perfectly okay with that.

lol having a girl suck on your balls is liek on e of the bet things ever. you guys are fags.

^cluntoris^

i really dont find getting my balls played with anymore enjoyable than just playing with my dick.

Sitting here right now, I can play with my balls, and I don't think about it in terms of happy or sad pleasure. However, when I am with my girlfriend, they get super-sensetive, mostly in the ticklish manner. Same with the whole area, basically. Odd. Whacking off doesn't generate the nervousness, so I am guessing its just the nervousness or whatever.

So, make him more comfortable I guess. Be somewhat firm with them, dont tickle him or wrench them off either.

grab them, spit op them, rub them aorund., lick them,., suck them. rub them on your face. and boobs. and if hes not in the mood after that. hes gay.

^cluntoris^

They do get sensitive around girls, but damn me if there isn't anything more enjoyable in a blowjob than fondling the big guy's brothers.

Well? If you reeeaaalllly want to 'touch balls'.......

I'll help you out...out of the 'goodness of my part'.

Try the Hungarian sac-tickle. It sends shivers running up the penis and if you've got it in your mouth at the same time, it's extremely pleasurable.

Just nick the balls with your hand in a wrist flicking action and watch the pleasure unfold.

Try it on him spontaniously, he will love you for it.

It's different for all guys, same as something like clitoral sensitivity. Some find it pleasurable, some don't. If he doesn't, then don't do it. It doesn't seem like he's got a hang-up about it, just that he's particularly sensitive.

quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:

So in a nutshell...



This make me chuckle. But you sorta hit the nail on the head.

Most girls probably do not realize that there are two distinct components to the 'jewels'. What you see is the scrotum (the scack that contains the testicles. The skin of the scrotum is somewhat sensitive, but is also very thick and tough.

Inside are the actual testicles (nuts) and they are EXTREMELY sensitive. This is the reason many guys are reluctant to have that area touched. Even relatively light pressure can be quite painful. But just the right touch can be very pleasurable.

I suggest you find a nice, relaxing situation and get him to let you check them out. Be very gentle (think feather touch) until you get an idea of the lay of the land.

Good luck!

p.s. my g/f got to the point where she could take my balls into her mouth and massage the nut with her tongue. Took some practice though.

Start by simply cupping them very gently in your hand, nothing else.

If he finds this pleasurable then maybe move on to more active stimulation.

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

Last thing I want to do before I bust a nut is get a tickling sensation that makes me want to throw my arms + feet in the air.

But that is so much fun!!!

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

But that is so much fun!!!



Not right before you're gonna BLOW... Then it's sad.

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You should ask...fun for whom...

i like my balls to be fondled licked sucked,just not too hard,lightly is good it hurts like hell if she just goes crazy on them