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 #1 
Old 2006-11-19, 16:07
Modzilla Modzilla is offline
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Default Tight Foreskin... GRRRRR

So, I remember a thread recently about tight foreskin, and thats when it struck me... My foreskin is really tight aswell.

I've done my research on the internet and see its quite common. I know that stretching can help, then changing masturbation methods...

BUT, Im more worried about the pyschological effects its having on me - or more my confidence. After all, How would you explain the fact that your foreskin was that tight?

I remember talking to a friend one day and he said "Does your foreskin come right back, Mine doesn't properly." -- I guess he was tryin to tell me he had this problem. (Although he was nearly 17 so a year or 2 older then myself)

So, in closing; What else do YOU recommend for this? (Not having "the snip") And, What do you think about my confidence problems regarding this? Surely if its as common as it seems, I shouldn't worry.
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Old 2006-11-19, 16:17
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It's called phimosis. There are a bunch of medical procedures for it; you can get a circumcision, or a little cut that would be re-sewn to loosen it a little, it's called a preputioplasty and it leaves the foreskin intact. But there are stretching techniques, and some kind of cream can be applied to it to make the skin grow or loosen, too. Go to a doctor. If you're worried about psychological effects, you'd be able to see a counsellor, but you might as well wait until after treatment for that.
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Old 2006-11-19, 16:18
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Eh, just masturbate a lot. That solves most any problem of mine. All but financial...
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Old 2006-11-19, 16:18
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My eldest has that problem from birth on. We tried all the creams etc. When he reached puberty and got sexually active it really started to bother him so he decided that circumcision was the way to go.

I think i am right in saying that if it is chronically tight then all the wanking and stretching in the world won't help.

Bite the bullet, yes you'll end up looking like an American but sometimes it can't be helped.



(btw people, humour aside, if this turns into a real men v. americans thread then i'll close it!)
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Old 2006-11-19, 16:22
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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

My eldest has that problem from birth on. We tried all the creams etc. When he reached puberty and got sexually active it really started to bother him so he decided that circumcision was the way to go.

I think i am right in saying that if it is chronically tight then all the wanking and stretching in the world won't help.

Bite the bullet, yes you'll end up looking like an American but sometimes it can't be helped.



(btw people, humour aside, if this turns into a real men v. americans thread then i'll close it!)

But Jack, what of us Americans who ARE real men? ;0
 #6 
Old 2006-11-19, 16:30
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Thanks for the advice.

Basically, I think I'll try stretching, as at the moment its not the biggest problem i can think of.

BUT - I think being circumsized will always be in the back of my mind... I hope it doesnt come down to that though.

*continues looking at stretching techniques...*
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Old 2006-11-19, 16:49
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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I had an operation done when I was 7, becuase it hurt to pull the skin back. Though I didn't use it until I was 11. o__O
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Old 2006-11-19, 17:01
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Foreskin is icky.. You should reconsider the snip.
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Old 2006-11-19, 17:06
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If it's too tight, sort it out before you run into problems like my ex did..

:0 he had to get it cut, cause we ran into problems with the sex, and then it got real bad.
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Old 2006-11-19, 17:26
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mine used to be tight so many years back, and it was pretty easy to fix. basically when I was sitting around on the computer or at home I'd just stretch it back and hold it there for a few minutes, painful yes, but it was fine in a few weeks.
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Old 2006-11-19, 17:59
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quote:Originally posted by Hardly There:

Foreskin is icky.. You should reconsider the snip.

srsly.
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Old 2006-11-19, 18:01
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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I was curcumsized at a young age, i was about 5 so i really didnt know what havign a normal cock was like, but mines got a girth of nearly 2 inches and im 16... i think it expands more...
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Old 2006-11-19, 20:00
Mr.Happy Mr.Happy is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

...i think it expands more...

Foreskin has nothing to do with penile girth. It's not restrictive in the slightest... well, it's not meant to be

As I said, surgery doesn't necessarily mean a circumcision. You could end up with a perfectly normal-looking foreskin and the solution to the problem. Just depends whether or not you want to have one at the end. By the way, the people saying foreskin is icky are Americans. By British standards, circumcision is the weird non-norm, so if you'd consider either for, ah, cosmetic reasons (as well as the practical, but these things are important considerations, no?), take on board English girls' advice.
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Old 2006-11-19, 20:41
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Wait until you're really turned off ie your penis is at it's smallest then try and roll it back over. Once you've done it the first time subsequent times will get easier and easier.
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Old 2006-11-19, 20:45
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i know you said you don't want "the snip," but seriously, there isn't that much. like its been said above, its a common problem, but the creams and stuff don't help. surgery is pretty much your only option. so you can either get it cut and loosened, or just get a circumcision. i've heard that if you get the first surgery, it can get tight again, so i would just say to go for the circumcision. its best for the long run.

/is glad he was circumcised as an infant and now doesn't worry about these things.
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Old 2006-11-19, 23:16
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Mine was uncomfortable to pull all the way back but once i got sexually active it got easier and easier.. feels odd at first but gets better.
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Old 2006-11-19, 23:57
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I wish I was from england...I don't like america that much, and I can't get my foreskin back...as in returned to me, not rolled back.
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Old 2006-11-20, 00:10
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You're 15, you better work on pulling that back as much as you can. Just think about how much more it will hurt in a couple years when your penis is done growing.
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Old 2006-11-20, 00:17
cluntoris cluntoris is offline
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barf

foreskin ahahahahahah anteater ahahahahahahah

ill take my attractive cut meat over that gross shit anyday. lololol

^cluntoris^

nb4l0k
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Old 2006-11-20, 00:19
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http://wiki.bmezine.com/index.php/Tara_KLamp
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Old 2006-11-20, 01:32
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quote:Originally posted by Hardly There:

Foreskin is icky.. You should reconsider the snip.Hardly, and I'm American. I like it uncut and am uncut. Moving parts FTW!
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Old 2006-11-20, 02:00
Dr Euthanize Dr Euthanize is offline
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Wow, I'm circumcized and it feels tremendous never having to deal with any "psychological" problems like "tight foreskin" lol.
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Old 2006-11-20, 05:47
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moving parts taht collect smegma and make your peter look like an anteater.

^cluntoris^
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Old 2006-11-20, 05:53
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quote:Originally posted by Dr Euthanize:

Wow, I'm circumcized and it feels tremendous never having to deal with any "psychological" problems like "tight foreskin" lol.

I bet the reactions girls give you if you ever move outside of the United States would give you psychological problems.
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Old 2006-11-20, 05:54
QuackyIraqy QuackyIraqy is offline
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If I had a penis I'd most certainly choose to circumcise it, not just for traditional reasons but for the main reason of hygiene, since I'm a female whose ridiculously hygienic i don't think anything would change, circumcision has benefits:

The proponents of not circumcising nevertheless stress that lifelong penile hygiene is required. This acknowledges that something harmful or unpleasant is happening under the prepuce. Studies of middle class British [172] and Scandanavian [259] schoolboys concluded that penile hygiene, as such, is at best poor and at worst non-existent. Furthermore, Dr Terry Russell, an Australian medical practitioner and circumcision expert states "What man after a night of passion is going to perform penile hygiene before rolling over and snoring the night away (with pathogenic organisms multiplying in the warm moist environment under the prepuce)" [301]. The bacteria start multiplying again immediately after washing and contribute, along with skin secretions, to the whitish film, termed 'smegma', that is found under the foreskin.

Smegma is produced by the foreskin's inner surface and contains neutral lipids, fatty acids, sterol and exfoliated cells. Excretion of smegma increases in adolescence and peaks at age 20-40 years. Whereas initially it is a lubricant having a white or pale yellow color, with time, chemical transformations take place and it becomes mixed with epithelial cells, dirt and micro-organisms; these form aggregates and produce foul odors. The bacteria alone give off an offensive smell and most people consider smegma to be unclean [405]. Men differ in their sensitivity to this smell and some shower several times a day as a result (See section `What men say'). Some uncircumcised men, and/or their partners, find the stench so unpleasant that the foul odor has caused these men to seek a circumcision on this basis alone. Improved penile hygiene is perhaps the major reason for circumcision (82% in one study [251]) and, for most, smegma is regarded as unclean and infected with micro-organisms (88% in the same study [251]). Penile hygiene is often difficult to achieve and attempting a very high degree of hygiene in uncircumcised men can result in new dermatological problems. For mothers and fathers, it is far easier to maintain cleanliness of their son's penis if it is circumcised. If their son is not circumcised the messages are confusing: should they clean under the foreskin or leave it alone?

A survey in London of 150 uncircumcised and 75 circumcised men found 4% of circumcised compared with 26% of uncircumcised men had inferior genital hygiene behavior, i.e., did not always wash the entire penis (the uncircumcised men did not always wash under the foreskin) [249]. Balanitis, phimosis or other foreskin conditions that made foreskin retraction painful might have contributed to their inferior hygiene. The circumcised men also washed the genitals more than once per day (37% vs 19%; P = 0.01).

http://www.circinfo.net/#benefits

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Old 2006-11-20, 06:52
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Fucking brits.

gross as hell.
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Old 2006-11-20, 06:56
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quote:Originally posted by QuackyIraqy:

If I had a penis...

...but you don't, so shut the fuck up.

Only dirty fucks get smegma. Washing once a day results in a nice clean cock.
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Old 2006-11-20, 06:57
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It's no joke, circumcised penis's just look better.

Mine got a little botched, so I am going to get it fixed one day.
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Old 2006-11-20, 07:10
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quote:Originally posted by HARDMAN:

I bet the reactions girls give you if you ever move outside of the United States would give you psychological problems.

Not to any girls who are familiar with porn. Cut is the porn standard.

[This message has been edited by Kai (edited 11-20-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-20, 07:14
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lol smegma.
 
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