In my case, i have. Instead of lying about being a virgin, i lied about not being one. I know it sounds weird but for some reason i said what i said. We havent gotten to the point of having sex yet. So, i was wondering, what would his reaction be if i told him that he was my first? Also, share your lying experiences. Post away.

If he's young then telling him the truth would probably cause him to go all 'fixated'...ie 'OMG u r t3h VIRGIN!!!111???'

Chances are he then won't bloody well shut up about it.

Makes more sense to lie about not being a virgin than it does being one.

I lied to my parents about my virginity for five years until a 'good' enough woman came along.

^^^I didn't....and was called a slut by my mom . Gads! We had been dating a year by the time they found out.

never lied about it, actually. it's your call whether or not to tell him. you don't have to, but there's no sense hiding it.

My entire social life, family, friends, church life, except my closest friends think i am...

simply because my parents are strictly christian and my now ex and i didn't want to tell my friends, the less people that new the less mouths could blab.. happened at 17

[This message has been edited by mek777 (edited 11-18-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

never lied about it, actually. it's your call whether or not to tell him. you don't have to, but there's no sense hiding it.

BULLSHIT! This whole thing falls under the whole honesty category.

1. If you are thinking about having sex you should ALSO think about being honest.

2. If you let him think you are and then tell him later, HE WILL be pissed.

3. If you lie to him and he finds out later HE WILL think you are a lying twat. (its too bad enough you already made yourself into one)

4. Relationships are built on a foundation of honesty. You already fucked that one up, now start digging your way back out.

5. He has every right to be pissed at you about this. I would be. Most other guys would be.

So in summary: Quit being a lying bitch and try telling your boyfriend the truth. Is there something you are ashamed of here? Because if you lie to him, it will just make him think you are trying to hide something from him (which, in a way you already are).

Never had a reason. And the parents never asked. Wise of 'm

I tell my mom im a virgin.. not like it matters to her, I just dont like the evil eye every time I go out.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

BULLSHIT! This whole thing falls under the whole honesty category.

1. If you are thinking about having sex you should ALSO think about being honest.

2. If you let him think you are and then tell him later, HE WILL be pissed.

3. If you lie to him and he finds out later HE WILL think you are a lying twat. (its too bad enough you already made yourself into one)

4. Relationships are built on a foundation of honesty. You already fucked that one up, now start digging your way back out.

5. He has every right to be pissed at you about this. I would be. Most other guys would be.

So in summary: Quit being a lying bitch and try telling your boyfriend the truth. Is there something you are ashamed of here? Because if you lie to him, it will just make him think you are trying to hide something from him (which, in a way you already are).

Wow, that's rather harsh and high handed.

It's her choice to make. It depends on how mature and the degree of his experience. Hopefully you'll feel comfortable telling him, sharing things is part of being in a relationship.

I've never lied about this kind of thing.

I have not brung it up, but never lied.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I have not brung it up, but never lied.

ditto (although i'm not sure brung is a word )

Well even if you do stick with your not beinga virgin story... its going to bew pretty obvious once you have sex and your cherry pops

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

BULLSHIT! This whole thing falls under the whole honesty category.

1. If you are thinking about having sex you should ALSO think about being honest.

2. If you let him think you are and then tell him later, HE WILL be pissed.

3. If you lie to him and he finds out later HE WILL think you are a lying twat. (its too bad enough you already made yourself into one)

4. Relationships are built on a foundation of honesty. You already fucked that one up, now start digging your way back out.

5. He has every right to be pissed at you about this. I would be. Most other guys would be.

So in summary: Quit being a lying bitch and try telling your boyfriend the truth. Is there something you are ashamed of here? Because if you lie to him, it will just make him think you are trying to hide something from him (which, in a way you already are).



this is different. she said she WASN'T a virgin when she actually is. guys do that all the time. it's not something to be pissed about.

quote:Originally posted by Vilkacis:

ditto (although i'm not sure brung is a word )

Sure it is!

I usually tell girls I'm a virgin its more fun

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Sure it is!

I think it should be brought.

Doesnt matter. Lying is lying, whether a guy or a girl is doing it.

But it was a little harsh, i was a little drunk and a little pissed off.

Still, there is no reason to lie about it.

I've never lied about it, Im a virgin, and most people wouldnt beleive that I wasnt anyway (its not that im overweight or ugly or anything, I am just that creepy kid in the corner who doesnt say anything to anyone, especially girls)

I've boned 2 virgins, but it could have been 4 if I'd been more unscrupulous.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

BULLSHIT! This whole thing falls under the whole honesty category.

1. If you are thinking about having sex you should ALSO think about being honest.

2. If you let him think you are and then tell him later, HE WILL be pissed.

3. If you lie to him and he finds out later HE WILL think you are a lying twat. (its too bad enough you already made yourself into one)

4. Relationships are built on a foundation of honesty. You already fucked that one up, now start digging your way back out.

5. He has every right to be pissed at you about this. I would be. Most other guys would be.

So in summary: Quit being a lying bitch and try telling your boyfriend the truth. Is there something you are ashamed of here? Because if you lie to him, it will just make him think you are trying to hide something from him (which, in a way you already are).

ouch, rather harsh dont you think? But you do have a point. Fuck, i regret ever saying that. I have no idea what the hell i was thinking. Godamnit, hopefully when i tell him, he'll feel some what special about being my first (that hes the right one and he deserves my virginity..etc). Blah...somehow i doubt that. Fuck. Gonna go loose my virginity to my vibrator now.

@!!!!!!!!!!

Be honest in whatever you do, so people are also.

I've lied, about my virginity when I first came here to my Canadian friends because I didnt want to be pushed into it, but then again I realised that no, they are not my friends, my true friends accept me for who I am, and all of my real friends think that I still am, except of my bestfriend, and I told her that i'm not when I wasn't. So I'm stuck in this predicament. I say honesty is the only way to go.

You should never feel ashamed or afraid of being who you truly are. Be yourself, if he does not like it, he's missing out, and you have yourself to gain, if you cant be honest to yourself, dont be surprised catching yourself lying to your friends and family, and that's a general lesson.

Listen to me, or at least consider it, because I've learned it the hard way, time after time.

Eil>

Only to my mother.

Just go sleep with someone else quickly.

Then your lie will become truth, and you never have to acknowledge you were wrong.

^ lol funny thing is, i have thought of that before. But then i dont want my first time to be with just anyone, i want it to be with him. So i dont know, either regret my first time or have him being possibly pissed at me for lying to him. hm. tough choice.

Sorry RD i was kinda drunk when i posted and took that way out of hand, i was in a terrible mood and some little pussy faggot backed out of a fight i was trying to start, so i had a lot of built up hostility and i took it out on you.

But you should just be honest with the bf. Its not as bad as i made it out to be, but it will still be difficult to tell the truth. Please do, and just remember that there is nothing to be ashamed of. You had sex before him. Big fucking deal.

Tell him the truth about the lie, and why you lied in the first place. You'll be fine, you already know it wasnt the right thing to do, and im sure he wont be that mad about it.

good luck.

As far as any chick knows, noone has taken my virginity.. I told my first that it wasn't my first.. and everyone after that I've told the truth too.

everytime i honestly told someone i was a virgin theyd be like "No way?!?, you totally arent a virgin" and i got sick of that ha so i think for almost a year before i started having sex i was telling people i wasnt a virgin.

uhh...hold on a sec...I think a few people might be turned around.

So lets get this straight...

You havnt had sex with the boy yet, correct?

I think so.

And you either are a virgin and told him you wernt for some reason...(he wont be pissed about that. or shouldnt be...most guys wouldnt be.).

Or you arn't a virgin, and told him you are. Which might make him a little mad, but its not as bad as it could be, because you havn't had sex yet. At least i think you havnt...

Anyways, whats the situation?

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Sorry RD i was kinda drunk when i posted and took that way out of hand, i was in a terrible mood and some little pussy faggot backed out of a fight i was trying to start, so i had a lot of built up hostility and i took it out on you.

But you should just be honest with the bf. Its not as bad as i made it out to be, but it will still be difficult to tell the truth. Please do, and just remember that there is nothing to be ashamed of. You had sex before him. Big fucking deal.

Tell him the truth about the lie, and why you lied in the first place. You'll be fine, you already know it wasnt the right thing to do, and im sure he wont be that mad about it.

good luck.



honestly, do you not know how to read?

she IS a virgin! she lied and said that she WASN'T!

Nah, no biggie hippie. But i do think you read it wrong. I lied about not being a virgin when i actually am one, just like lauren said. Well im not sure if this will affect his reaction or what not but i have messed around with a few guys before and did things, like almost everything except having them penetrate me with their dick. I'm not sure why i didnt let them go all the way with me though, probably because i didnt feel as though they were special enough. haha.

welli'm 16, personaly i wouldnt give a shit if my gf did that 2 me

well i'm 16 too. But hes 19. Not sure if that affects anything.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:



honestly, do you not know how to read?

she IS a virgin! she lied and said that she WASN'T!

Thank you ohhhh so much lauren, i really didnt pick up on that! It's a curse that i have that i am completely unable to process anything that i read. I simply dont know what i would do without you to guide me through the hard times.

/sarcasm.

But honestly, did you even bother to READ what i posted before you decided to be a royal bitch?

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

But honestly, did you even bother to READ what i posted before you decided to be a royal bitch?

If you can't post a clear messege while drinking, then leave totse alone.

It only serves to make you look bad.

My current girlfriend has always claimed im her first and she never masturbated but we had sex pretty easily. (6 months into seeing each other mind you and she is 19).

I am but say I'm not to some because it's complicated being in a secret bi sexual relationship and when I need someone to confide in and it comes up I say i've had sex... but technically no i've never had a p3n0r up me

I didnt lie about it, but when most people I know found out I was a virgin they were surprised. I dont know why, but they expected me to have gotten laid.....Im 15, they were 17/18

Don't think I've lied about it, but would act in a way sometimes that would suggest I'm far more experienced than I actually am. Like talking about sex and thinking I know the full score even though I've had it only the 4 times (and almost one other time.. did everything but).

Though one girl once asked when was the last time I had sex and I kind of lied. I said a few days ago. The sex I had was the one with my hand. Almost got to bone that girl as well.

LOL, very funny stuff.

Nope never had to lie, Cause no one has asked.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Only to my mother.

At one point I did, but afterwards, I don't really care, when some girl decides to rape me, that'll be my time.