Ok so I went against what i usually do and started dealing with a chick. She asked me ta be her bf, things between me and her were goin gud so i said what the hell. so its now a month later and my best friend comes to me, sayin that my girl was hittin on him, so i believe my friend cuz hes been my boy since we were 8 yrs old. anyways the strange thing is to me she was shittalking about him, and to him she was shitalking about me.So i get him to call her up and say he likes her, she says she likes him 2. So then i go see her, with my friend with me, and my friend tells her how he lied about liking her to prove to me she was saying this shit. and she breaks down and starts crying, he told her after that that shes a dirty hoe and hes surprised i care about her and that he cant believe i would even go out with her. then he leaves. then she tells me that she likes us both and shes confused, i told her that if shes lyin about liking me im gnna never talk to her again, she tells me she does. then i leave , and we call her up later to talk bout a party thats happening on saturday, and shes all depressed and shit, i cant figure out if shes depressed cuz she feels bad about what she did, or becuz my friend hates her now. its fucked up, with any other girl i would fuck her friends and break up with the bitch, but i love this chick, its fucked up i dont even noe why i love her. anyways im thinkin i shud dump her, but i keep havin second thoughts about it right after i think about breakin it off.

so totse shud i go with what everyone is tellin me ta do and dump her, or shud i give her another chance?

Once people lose my trust I don't give it back. I would get rid of her. Thats just my personal opinion.

quote:Originally posted by weedman:

PISSSED OFF AND CONFUSED PLZ GIVE ADVICE

1. Punctuation

2. Proper grammar.

3. Paragraphs.

4. No capitals in the title.

5. Grow up.

I read every bit of that, and it was quite painful. Regardless, this chick doesn't know what she wants. Deal with her if you like or move on. You're still very young obviously, so it's not the end of the world if you have to stop seeing her.

quote:Originally posted by Captain Asshat:

I read every bit of that, and it was quite painful. Regardless, this chick doesn't know what she wants. Deal with her if you like or move on. You're still very young obviously, so it's not the end of the world if you have to stop seeing her.

That's very true, sorry bout the grammar guys i was just trying to type it as fast as i could. I'm thinking i should fuck her and then dump her.

quote:Originally posted by Captain Asshat:

I read every bit of that, and it was quite painful. Regardless, this chick doesn't know what she wants. Deal with her if you like or move on. You're still very young obviously, so it's not the end of the world if you have to stop seeing her.

quote:Originally posted by weedman:

That's very true, sorry bout the grammar guys i was just trying to type it as fast as i could. I'm thinking i should fuck her and then dump her.

Do what you have to do. Just don't fall in love with her and you'll be ok.

quote:Originally posted by Captain Asshat:

Do what you have to do. Just don't fall in love with her and you'll be ok.

The thing is I do love the bitch, which is fucked, becuase usually i just fuck and forget girls. This one is the first girl i actually give a shit about. But if I don't dump her i'll loose credibility/friends's respect/ and customers. I go back and forth with what I'm gnna do, as soon as i decide i'm gnna dump her i think about how much i care about her and then i'm not mad. But then i think about what the fuck is goin on and then i get so mad i wanna kill the bitch. And then she pops into my head again and I'm not mad. Based on the facts I should dump her, cant make a hoe a housewife. But then i think about how she has rejected a bunch of ppl even before i was goin out with her because she wanted me. ladies especially i need some advice on whats goin on in her head(if anythin her tits are bigger than her brain if you know what i mean)

I would not dump her.

I have been in her position. Two girls. I loved them both. I was so confused. If you haven't been in it, you don't know how hard and confusing it can be.

But I eventually chose, and we have been happily together ever since. I love her, and would forgive her almost anything... life without her would be too painful. Just think for a moment about how your future could be if you gave this girl a chance, and how it could be if you didn't.

I'd be more cautious in the future... it might be that she will choose your friend and break your heart. But... give her a chance, maybe? If you really love her, I don't think a moment's confusion can destroy all that went before.

But then again, I'm way too forgiving. I let people walk on me. Maybe the rest of Totse is right and you should just dump her.

Just something to think about. A different view.



[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 11-17-2006).]

She was trying to get away with something behind your back, and the only reason she's sad is that she was caught. If your friend hadn't been honest to you about it then they both could've gotten away with it.

Dump her. If she's "confused" then she obviously isn't committed to you. If I were attracted to other girls when I had a girlfriend that's no big deal; it's totally normal. Telling other girls I liked them if I had a girlfriend is going too far. She's young and has lost interest in you for some reason. She's not getting something from you that she needs, so she's looking for it elsewhere. The fact that it's your best friend makes it grounds to just get rid of her completely before she really hurts you. There's really no salvaging this.

^^^^

thats what i've been tryin to tell myself isnt true, but i think this guy is right

im fuckin her and dumpin her, and makin her look like a dumb hoe

if i cant love her ill hurt her

Then you never really loved her.

I made it to "gud," and then I projectile-vomited all over myself. Whatever your problems are, I bet staying awake during English class would help considerably.

This is probably the first time I've given up on trying to read something. Not that I can't, it's giving me a goddamn headache.

But:

Grow up, learn how to type, stop lying to anyone, get away from those "white trash" types, and you sound like you need a hug. (Get away from me)

Dump the slut

Update

Wen't to the party, fooled around with her.

After she left I fooled around with her friends.

The thing I realized is she can still think I'm with her, but I can go fuck other bitches. If she catches me all I gtta do is bring up the shit about my best friend and she can't say shit.

So I'll continue to fuck her until I get bored of her.

I realized I didn't love the bitch I loved the pussy I was getting from her.

But now this other girl whos sexier found out that I'm going out with this girl.

And shes pissed because I would'nt go out with her before. So I denied going out with the first girl. What should I do to get rid of this situation(they found out about eachother from a mutual friend)

quote:Originally posted by Che Buddy:

I would get rid of her.

if thats your boy from when u were young, you both should gangbang that hoe! 4get about feelings she sounds like shes 2 young 2 know the difference.

it'll be a good story to talk about when your older with your homeboy.

Bros before Hoes, you can find a new chick in a week, but a good friend is hard to replace.

AKA-Dump the slut