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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2006-11-17, 12:43
indermaur indermaur is offline
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Default So, theres this girl I like..

I'll probably sound like the average totsean giving this spiel, but with better grammer, so here goes:

I have this really good freind, who is of the opposite sex, and for the longest time, I have wanted to ask her out. I think if we were dating, we'd have a really good relationship, but if she rejects me, I don't want to lose the freindship. Most of you will just say, drop your dick and ask her..but, that doesn't really apply to me.

Any advice? or sympathy?
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Old 2006-11-17, 12:57
TheSneakyWeasel TheSneakyWeasel is offline
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Don't ask her out. It will make it so much worse, especially if she says no. I asked a friend of mine out because I thought I had deeper feelings for her and her for me; turns out I was wrong. On the other hand, one of my best friends is hawt as, and she is the one person I can tell anything to, and I am supremely confident and comfortable around her. She grabbed my nipple today, so I grabbed hers right back. It wasn't an issue; she was comfortable around me and knew I would never try anything sexual with her.

Trust is the key.

Never 'ask her out'. Just naturally progress to that point in your relationship where you are so comfortable around them you can do and say anything.

*speaks with massive authority of sixteen years*

[This message has been edited by TheSneakyWeasel (edited 11-17-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-17, 12:58
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You're grammar wasn't that impressive.
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Old 2006-11-17, 13:00
TheSneakyWeasel TheSneakyWeasel is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

You're grammar wasn't that impressive.

Neither's yours. Your
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Old 2006-11-17, 13:03
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It was bound to happen in that scenario.
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Old 2006-11-17, 13:06
TheSneakyWeasel TheSneakyWeasel is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

It was bound to happen in that scenario.

Bound to.
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Old 2006-11-17, 13:08
Mindless Xyzzyean Mindless Xyzzyean is offline
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It's a gamble my friend, me and my wonderful girlfriend, we were great friends then she told me that she liked me things advanced a lot from there and now we have the greatest relationship
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Old 2006-11-18, 11:40
Ho ho ho Green Giant Ho ho ho Green Giant is offline
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Oooh Mr Mindless guy... How did you progress? Because I have a female best mate and I now KNOW she likes me looks-wise and loves me as a personality to be with. She said the other day that she wants to figure out whether she wants to be with me for the right reasons (ie not just a quick bit of fun). How can I convince her to go for it? We both know deep down that it would most likely work out well.
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Old 2006-11-20, 06:13
kb87 kb87 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Ho ho ho Green Giant:

Oooh Mr Mindless guy... How did you progress?
 
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