im in love with this girl, she broke off a two year relaion ship to be with me in september, i asked her out 3 weeks later and she accepted only to break it off 10 days later with a reasoning of her wanting to not hurt me and for her to gett her so called sluttyness out of her system. now its been about a month since she said that and we have been together just about every weekend with us making out just about all the time we are together. now i confronted her about it today and she told me basicly the same thing ecept that we arent going out but "together". she says she loves me but i dont know what to belive. ive been getting extremly jealosus over the past few days(which is an emotion i rarley feel and even rarerley express) over her hugging other guys.What should i do, tell her how i feel about this or just break it off completley?

If she dumped you she dumped you dude, i knwo it will be hard to usedstand, but tehre will plenty more girls in your life, and holding for 1 girl isnt worth it, 2 years is a long time to be with someone, but time is nothign if they dont love you back.

Jack.

Dude, homey, mate, buddy, you're "girlfriend" is not your girlfriend, she's just the chick you make out with occasionally. And I'm sure she thinks she "loves" you, she's just not in love with you. Uh, move on.

Move on to an older chick.

Yeah you're not going to have anything serious with her for a while if ever dude. Enjoy the hook ups but stop getting attatched. It's going nowhere.

just fuck her dude

She wants to get her "sluttiness" out of her system??

That's when you run away. Far away. And get tested.

Accept it for what it is.

She likes you enough to come back for more but she's a slut and wants to get her freak on with other dudes.

It's up to you...If you think you can handle knowing that you're screwing around with a chick who is being ridden like the village bicycle, go for it.

If it bothers you that she is hugging other guys, move along and let her do what she wants to do. You will find someone better and forget all about her.

im going to talk to her tell her how i feel about every thing and then ask her if she has any idea of how i have been feeling with this whole situation and asking her about her true feelings.

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im going to talk to her tell her how i feel about every thing and then ask her if she has any idea of how i have been feeling with this whole situation and asking her about her true feelings.

Damn. You should've listened to the people who posted above you just now.

That's alarming, pal.

If she thinks she loves you, she doesn't know, therefore she's not sure, therefore it's a 75% no, and 25% yes...do you see a win in this?

I don't, but watch out, she either is committed or she is not, if she's out there enough to make out with you but not to talk about something serious with you, she's using you, and doesn't know what she wants in life...people who dont know what they want don't get anywhere, don't waste time, and be wise!

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