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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-11-16, 20:19
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
Right, so I stumble upon this AskMen (http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html) page and read about the miracles of PC-muscle-exercise. I figure "hey, this actually sounds pretty neat." So I try some of the exercises. Clench then unclench rapidly, for 10 seconds... okay... so far so good...
Then I get to the "clench for 10 seconds and hold." WTF? The most I can hold it clenched is 3 seconds, and even that's no cakewalk. If I really try, I can get about 4 seconds. If I started clenching other muscles (like they say you're not supposed to do), I can hold it for 5 or so.
Am I just a weak-penised subhuman?  But see, my muscle is STRONG... I can put a towel on my dick and raise it up and down, and according to that same site that's pretty good. But why can't I keep it clenched?! Will this improve if I continue to exercise?
[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 11-16-2006).]
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#2
 2006-11-16, 20:25
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by ZeppelinRules:
Could I buy tickets to this show?!?
$5 for adults, $10 for seniors. Children free.
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#3
 2006-11-16, 20:26
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
This thread is useless without pix!
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#4
 2006-11-16, 20:33
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
Three magic words.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
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#5
 2006-11-16, 21:00
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Euda:
Three magic words.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
So it's not hopeless? I can improve? This isn't some ingrained deficiency?
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#6
 2006-11-16, 21:01
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
So it's not hopeless? I can improve? This isn't some ingrained deficiency?
No idea, but it can't hurt to try.
[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 11-16-2006).]
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#7
 2006-11-16, 21:02
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gadzooks 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
From what I understand, it's a muscle like any other, so it will become stronger with constant exercise.
I took this up for about a month a couple years ago, and saw some vague results, nothing too amazing. I then got lazy and quit.
I might start doing it again though.
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#8
 2006-11-16, 21:09
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Euda:
No idea, but it can't hurt to try.
Well, I just consulted with some friends. One can make it 3 seconds, the other only 1. So far I'm in the lead with my amazing 4 seconds of PC-clenching might.
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
From what I understand, it's a muscle like any other, so it will become stronger with constant exercise.
The article suggests I start with 10 seconds and work up to 120, though.  Makes me wonder.
quote:I took this up for about a month a couple years ago, and saw some vague results, nothing too amazing. I then got lazy and quit.
But the article promises so much. 
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#9
 2006-11-16, 21:13
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gadzooks 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
But the article promises so much.
Maybe it's possible. It would probably take alot of dedication though. I had a hard time keeping to it, even though it seems pretty easy at first. I mean, all you're doing really is clenching a muscle in your dick.
But after a while, it just got kinda tedious, and I started to question whether it was really worth it or not to continue.
Personally, at least at the time, I didn't find it to be practical enough to be worth the time/effort, as minimal as it may have been.
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#10
 2006-11-16, 21:14
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
I must be clenching the wrong muscle, 30 seconds and not even remotely tired yet
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#11
 2006-11-16, 21:15
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
This thread has brought back old memories and lots of laughter. Well done.
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#12
 2006-11-16, 21:44
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:
I must be clenching the wrong muscle, 30 seconds and not even remotely tired yet
It's not that it gets tired, it's just that it... won't stay clenched. :/ It FEELS fine, doesn't hurt or anything, it's just like there's some basic command to relax ingrained in me or something.
It's the muscle that cuts off the stream of urine when pissing, btw.
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#13
 2006-11-16, 21:49
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
I can do 10 seconds, but not much more. It depends entirely on the person. It is a muscle though, and the more you use it, the stronger it'll get.
And it has nothing to do with the strength of your erection. Your penis is a muscle in and of itself(I think). But what you need to work on is the muscle inside that seals off any secretions.
Dont get disheartened. Just keep trying. I'm sure it'll pay off eventually. If you can only do it for 3 seconds, then thats all the more reason to practice more.
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#14
 2006-11-16, 22:00
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
Rofl! Yeah I hate how it just looses muscle tension even though your flexing it.
But trust me, if you 100% Dedicate to it the results truly are fabulous. When I learned to do it and I learned to hold in ejactualtion. When you finally let it go... I thought my head was gonna go through the roof/feels good.
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#15
 2006-11-16, 22:17
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by BluryVision:
Rofl! Yeah I hate how it just looses muscle tension even though your flexing it.
Exactly!
quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:
I can do 10 seconds, but not much more. It depends entirely on the person. It is a muscle though, and the more you use it, the stronger it'll get.
And it has nothing to do with the strength of your erection. Your penis is a muscle in and of itself(I think). But what you need to work on is the muscle inside that seals off any secretions.
Dont get disheartened. Just keep trying. I'm sure it'll pay off eventually. If you can only do it for 3 seconds, then thats all the more reason to practice more.
No, it does control how "strong" your erection is. Or at least, that's what all I've read has said; and it makes sense to me (try clenching it with an erection, and notice how your dick lifts up and gets a little harder etc). But thanks for the encouragement  I only hope I can improve.
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#16
 2006-11-16, 22:28
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
When you guys say "towel," are you referring to a bathroom towel like your gf wraps her head in after a shower, or something like a dish towel? I think we should clarify this, as one is significantly more impressive than the other.
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#17
 2006-11-16, 22:32
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
Originally posted by Euda:
Three magic words.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
So it's not hopeless? I can improve? This isn't some ingrained deficiency?
LOL, you're talking about an excersize. If you started weight lifting, you would be like "Well, I'm doing the press properly...why cant I do 500lbs right away??"
Give it time. you're excersizing and improving a muscle, which takes time and effort.
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#18
 2006-11-16, 22:49
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Finn 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
Wet towel or dry towel? That makes a difference too... but it doesn't matter since I can use my cock to flip pizza pies.
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#19
 2006-11-16, 23:11
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Twisted_Ferret 
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Re: Kegel Exercises: WTF? Am I Just Deficient?!
quote:Originally posted by intooblv:
When you guys say "towel," are you referring to a bathroom towel like your gf wraps her head in after a shower, or something like a dish towel? I think we should clarify this, as one is significantly more impressive than the other.
Bathroom towel. The type you dry off with after a shower. I started trying a while ago, just on a whim, and have been able to do it for a while now.  ?
quote:Originally posted by Shodan's Own:
LOL, you're talking about an excersize. If you started weight lifting, you would be like "Well, I'm doing the press properly...why cant I do 500lbs right away??"
Give it time. you're excersizing and improving a muscle, which takes time and effort.
That's a good point... still, the article makes it sound like if you can't do 10 seconds right off the bat it's pointless. I mean, come on, 120 seconds as a goal?!
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