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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-11-15, 23:54
The Violent Pacifist The Violent Pacifist is offline
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Default Meeting for the first time?

This girl has shown interest in me via the internet and asked me to e-mail her back. I e-mailed her and she replied very quickly.

But I was curious about when meeting on the internet when is it appropiate to make a move? The first date or do I need to wait a bit first. I am not goin into this as if I will marry her or date her, but I do have an open mind to such things.
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Old 2006-11-16, 00:07
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When you meet up, take your computers so you can chat like that. Easy.
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Old 2006-11-16, 00:11
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I hope she isn't nervous, but I know she will be.
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Old 2006-11-16, 00:23
The Violent Pacifist The Violent Pacifist is offline
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Default Re: Meeting for the first time?

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

I hope she isn't nervous, but I know she will be.

I take that as play it cool. Be a gentleman, hang out and have a good time.

Thanks for pointing out she will be nervous because that will be something we have in common. Anything I should do to help her not be nervous or anything I shouldn't do?

I want her to have a good time.

And Gold n Green, that would be too choppy since we have only emailed, waiting for the lag.

[This message has been edited by The Violent Pacifist (edited 11-16-2006).]
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Old 2006-11-16, 00:29
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Use gmail. It sends messages to each other really fast.
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Old 2006-11-16, 00:36
sylph sylph is offline
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Meh, just talk to her a little first and warm up the situation.

Then, I think you'll be able to tell.
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Old 2006-11-16, 01:38
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You've e-mailed a girl online, and she replied quickly. Nothing in your post suggests that from this first e-mail exchange that meeting eachother has been mentioned, and you're already saying "I am not goin into this as if I will marry her or date her, but I do have an open mind to such things."

You're getting well ahead of yourself. Calm down.
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Old 2006-11-16, 01:42
QuackyIraqy QuackyIraqy is offline
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Whoa whoa whoa, meeting a girl on the internet...why there aren't enough ladies around? ... I say meet her ( & other gals) in real life pal, and take it from there. Just be yourself, and be confident, it'll show if you are compatible material or can be friends, you wont lose anything unless you keep waiting.

Good luck.

EIL>
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Old 2006-11-16, 03:47
senorfrog senorfrog is offline
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Default Re: Meeting for the first time?

Look in the windows first so you can see if chris hansen is in there.
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Old 2006-11-16, 03:50
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quote:Originally posted by QuackyIraqy:

Whoa whoa whoa, meeting a girl on the internet...why there aren't enough ladies around? ... I say meet her ( & other gals) in real life pal, and take it from there.

Uh, he is meeting her in real life. that's what the thread is about!
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Old 2006-11-16, 03:52
Kai Kai is offline
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The only people I've met online I've known for a few years beforehand, so I didn't find it anything to worry about.

Now, if you've just met like a week ago and still don't know anything about them... pack the mace or pack the fudge.
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Old 2006-11-16, 04:00
suissemista suissemista is offline
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quote:Originally posted by senorfrog:

Look in the windows first so you can see if chris hansen is in there.

ROFL. I've met LOTS of girls (women) via the internet, and have never once met a weirdo....though i guess the fact that i meet people at all through the internet makes ME the weirdo.

Anyway, if she has seen pics of you and replies to you very quickly it is likely that she is very interested!



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