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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:02
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Default Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

At a young age anyway, as a guy. I mean, sex is great and all, but it just doesn't ever seem to bother me if I have no prospect of getting any. I don't go out and hit on everything that is female or inanimate. It's not really that big a thing to me. Is this actually unhealthy, or just part of who I am?
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Old 2006-11-14, 22:15
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

We can't all be Sex Gods!

Luckily I am, oh yes baby

*puts down Pop-Tart and starts reeinstalling Fedora Core 5*
 #3 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:16
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Behind you. With a lead pipe.
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Uhh, so what answer is that? . Hang on, have you been drinking this evening Jack?
 #4 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:19
oc6 oc6 is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

How could it be unhealthy?

Not normal maybe, but who really wants to be normal.
 #5 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:19
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Ok, seriously now. It just means you are one of those rare men who have realised early on in life that there are things more important than pussy.

Like hemi-headed large blocks, linux, and &totse :P
 #6 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:20
oc6 oc6 is offline
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^^^hah!!!!
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Old 2006-11-14, 22:20
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

^^^hah!!!!



be right with you...i hope
 #8 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:21
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Behind you. With a lead pipe.
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Have you two guys ever thought of using something like MSN?
 #9 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:26
Lazy Serotonin Lazy Serotonin is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

I've decided to post here.
 #10 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:27
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Behind you. With a lead pipe.
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by Lazy Serotonin:

I've decided to post here.

I think this marks this thread for death.
 #11 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:30
sylph sylph is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

No, you're alright.

My best friend is 16. We all used to make fun of him and say he was gay and such because a girl could pretty much tell him to fuck her, a hot one, and he would object, out of fear.

Then, over this summer he had his man flower taken from him and now he's invincible! He can't be stopped. Quite funny actually.

It's completely alright if you don't have a sex drive at your age, that doesn't really matter. I'm sure it'll come sooner or later.

Just don't hook up with some kinky meth bitch that's cheating on her boyfriend of 2 years with you. Then leaves you for your best friend's old brother. That'd be shitty.
 #12 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:38
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Behind you. With a lead pipe.
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Uhh, I'm not that young. Jeez.
 #13 
Old 2006-11-14, 22:41
Soda_Can_Sniper Soda_Can_Sniper is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by Toothlessjoe:

I think this marks this thread for death.

Not necessarily. I'm just like you. I'm 22, and the last time I got any was over a year ago. I've dated one girl since, and she ended up turning on me for no apparent reason.

It's not abnormal, it's about who you are. Me, I could be doing things better than wasting time on something I can't control and half the time can't trust, so I don't bother making passes at women. Just not interested anymore.
 #14 
Old 2006-11-14, 23:05
Influx Influx is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

I'm the same way. I'm not actively looking for something to fuck, I do look at girls but I don't seem them as "OMG U R SO HOT LETS SEX" but more of "shite, she's cute". The way I think is, yes sex would be cool, but, I'm not making it my main priority with girls, if it comes along and we get that far - I'm not hesitating xD but other than that, not very important.

So, no, I don't believe it to be unhealthy, more of self control.
 #15 
Old 2006-11-14, 23:11
sylph sylph is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Toothlessjoe:

Uhh, I'm not that young. Jeez.

Hehe, well I did say at any age. That's what I meant. By your posts I figured you're not 16, I'd guess about 20-23.
 #16 
Old 2006-11-14, 23:15
deathtojack deathtojack is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Are you sure it's not that you just can't get laid?
 #17 
Old 2006-11-14, 23:20
Luther Luther is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Lazy Serotonin:

I've decided to post here.



This post made me laugh, for some reason.
 #18 
Old 2006-11-14, 23:47
sylph sylph is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by deathtojack:

Are you sure it's not that you just can't get laid?

I was hinting at that a little. I didn't want to make him feel bad though.
 #19 
Old 2006-11-15, 01:31
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

Yes, being gay is part of who you are. Just accept it, no one will judge you.
 #20 
Old 2006-11-15, 02:51
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Behind you. With a lead pipe.
Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Yes, being gay is part of who you are. Just accept it, no one will judge you.

I'm sure you'd still use it as an insult though. Not that you don't already, but you know.
 #21 
Old 2006-11-15, 03:07
oral fixation oral fixation is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

all i know is i would much rather to have your near nonexistant sex drive than my overly amped sex drive. at least you are satisfied :/
 #22 
Old 2006-11-15, 04:08
smallpox champion smallpox champion is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

I think the same way and I've never had a girlfriend. Not a coincidence.
 #23 
Old 2006-11-15, 04:59
tydi tydi is offline
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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Ok, seriously now. It just means you are one of those rare men who have realised early on in life that there are things more important than pussy.

Like hemi-headed large blocks, linux, and &totse :P

muwhahaha... excelent

aaanywho, i understand what your going through, and believe me, its not much of a problem. sex is not something that i actively seek out, its something i appreciate. when i can please her, it makes it so much better. if it doesnt work, i just say fcuk it, its no big deal to me. i dont feel as though i have a high sex drive, well, not nearly as high as my stamina. but if i had a choice of installing, configuring, and playing with linux or having a great night of sex, i would definitely go with the latter. simply explained... linux can wait, sex is something that comes and goes, get it when you can, and dont fret about it when you cant get any
 #24 
Old 2006-11-15, 05:24
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

I'm the same way. I'm not actively looking for something to fuck, I do look at girls but I don't seem them as "OMG U R SO HOT LETS SEX" but more of "shite, she's cute". The way I think is, yes sex would be cool, but, I'm not making it my main priority with girls, if it comes along and we get that far - I'm not hesitating xD but other than that, not very important.

So, no, I don't believe it to be unhealthy, more of self control.



Same here

Number one, I enjoy being witht he girl. If sex comes along though I'm not going to deny it. :0



-F☺rd
 #25 
Old 2006-11-15, 23:42
Got_Dank Got_Dank is offline
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Bah sex is over rated bro, i hadn't had it for a little over a year and was dieing to get laid. i now have a girl friend and we have done it twice now and to be honest...i was looking forward to it waaaay to much..its nice but not that big of a deal
 #26 
Old 2006-11-16, 01:43
Lux_aeterno Lux_aeterno is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by Toothlessjoe:

At a young age anyway, as a guy. I mean, sex is great and all, but it just doesn't ever seem to bother me if I have no prospect of getting any. I don't go out and hit on everything that is female or inanimate. It's not really that big a thing to me. Is this actually unhealthy, or just part of who I am?

It's just a part of who you are...I'm going through the same thing.
 #27 
Old 2006-11-16, 04:08
Andreas Andreas is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

We can't all be Sex Gods!

Luckily I am, oh yes baby

*puts down Pop-Tart and starts reeinstalling Fedora Core 5*



Poor ol' ketch...he used to have long beautiful hair...but now...now he just sits there and mumbles all day.
 #28 
Old 2006-11-16, 09:11
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

I'm not interested in sex at all, just love.

Masturbating to me is like shitting, it's just another excrementory function.
 #29 
Old 2006-11-16, 09:37
zuperxtreme zuperxtreme is offline
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Default Re: Is it unhealthy to not have a high sex drive?

yeah you know same here, for some reason im going more for the heart then for the pussy..

maybe we're just growing up :P

though its always welcomed xD
 
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