I have a boyfriend, yet I am more sexually frustrated than what I could ever be as a single gal... yet do not screw around.

I give it all to my boyfriend, but he never returns anything. I have to somehow sneak out of our bedroom and, not finish myself off, but to release frustration.

We had another argument over it last night. He pretty much tells me what I want to hear and shuts me up. I don't continue because Im all too tempted to hurt him.

I could shut down the 'factory' but it has never worked because he just goes to porn. Good old porn, easier than pleasing his girlfriend.

I've tried things like checking out guys walking down the street in front of him, carelessly placing porn in my draw where he coincidentally finds it while, on the odd occasion, he puts my clothes in the draw. Trying to encourage him to lift his damn game.

I could have anyone of you men here, so easily it'd make your head spin and you'd go into orbit. I'd post a photo, but photos never catch 'the real me.'

I've thought of becoming a stripper or photo girl, but it'll blow up in my face... especially if family members happen to get a hold of the material.

He makes excuses... 'its hairy' so I got a XXX. Then I knew that again he'd just said something to shut me up in the mean time while he thought of a new game plan.

I put hours into my looks, but he just doesn't appear satisfied.

I try not to put so much work into my looks, that doesn't work.

I've tried the natural me, but he lost interest in that a long time ago.

What do you guys suggest I do?

I am determined to actually have an orgasm, or atleast enjoyable sex.

Is that too much to fucking ask?????

Help me, I'm going crazy.

Besides what any of you inexperienced men might say, the more you 'please a girl' the better it is for you guys. We are more likely to do dirty stuff we are scared of normally.

quote:Originally posted by vilin:

I could have anyone of you men here, so easily it'd make your head spin and you'd go into orbit. I'd post a photo, but photos never catch 'the real me.'

Eat shit fatty, I feel impotent already

He sounds like a jackal. It sounds as if you've reached the end of your rope and exhausted all your options. It's nothing on you, it just sounds as if he's lacking.

If you don't love him, find someone new.

Your boyfriend sucks.

Yeah, I came up with the same ideas.

I am not fat by the way. Im size 8-10, very thin, fit, I walk atleast 2kms (1 and bit miles). I can get anyone if I had the interest.

Yeah, he is stooging me. And after all the times I sucked his cock because I couldn't put out.

What a bastard.

why are you still in this relationship, i'm wondering? there must be something he's doing for you, even if it's indirect. take a good look at your motives for staying with him. it could be a whole bunch of things, so i don't want to hypothesize; only you can really know.

bottom line, this is a toxic relationship and i want to know your motives for staying in it.

I love him.

I have liked him for 3 years.

We used to be able to talk.

We used to have fun together.

He supports me financially because I haven't got work at the moment.

He does all the good things like that, but its things like the problem specified that reveals more. I can't ignore it, because it suggests that sexually, he's not that concerned, therefore, he may be more likely to commit infidelities. Probably has already.

quote:Originally posted by vilin:

I could have anyone of you men here, so easily it'd make your head spin and you'd go into orbit.

Get fucked. You can't have me because I already have a girlfriend who isn't an egotistical bitch who can't orgasm.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

take a good look at your motives for staying with him

She'd have to prove she can have anyone she wants. I hate it too when someone makes me prove my shit talk

Also, how can you go on about how good looking you are when your own bf isn't interested in fucking you? You're an idiot.

Your boyfriend sounds like he's cheating on you, to be honest.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Also, how can you go on about how good looking you are when your own bf isn't interested in fucking you? You're an idiot.

Your boyfriend sounds like he's cheating on you, to be honest.



guys, let this be a demonstration of how the "cocky" personality isn't always attractive.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:



guys, let this be a demonstration of how the "cocky" personality isn't always attractive.

That's not cocky, that's self absorbed asshole. There's a vast difference

It really does that either he's cheating on you and just doesn't show any interest in you because he's with another women (or man o.o).

You really need to just move along because it sounds like he's being a prick. Either that or really talk to him.

He's either cheating on you, is gay, is messed up in some way mentally or you're not as attractive as you say you are.

quote:Originally posted by 10 elevenths:

you're not as attractive as you say you are.

As far as her mind goes, she's about as attractive as fucking your grandma

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

That's not cocky, that's self absorbed asshole. There's a vast difference

A little from column A, a little from column B

No offence, but I despise anyone that lists all the problems that they have in their relationship, and then when there done, they simply top it off with "But I still love them". Come on, from what I heard, you could probably get a great guy that could fulfill all your climacteric fantasies, but I know how you feel.

Men are pigs, were all pigs, and all we want is the best of what we can get, but with minimum effort. When Im with my friends and were talking about relationships, all they talk about is getting into a womens pants. Not saying how they would do it, what the consequences are, and how the girl would feel. You would be surprised about how many guys dont know that girls have feelings and that their not just an object. And I cant say anything about it either. Everytime I try to bring some sense into them, they think I'm some softy and blow me off real quick.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say here is that, there Is'ent much you can do. Sorry to let you down , but the only thing you can really do is, just tell him upfront on how you feel. Tell him that your not satisfied about your sex life and that you would like more out of it. And if that doesnt work, just BARLEY hint that you might leave him for someone else. Play it calm and make it seem like that you have no other choice. You dont want him to think that hes being threatened, just barley hint it so he feels worngfully of what hes been doing. Well, goodluck, and I hope that my advice helped.

The only way to prove that is to post pics. preferably noodz.

quote:Originally posted by Raptafairious:

You dont want him to think that hes being threatened

Haha, good luck with that

quote:Originally posted by vilin:

What do you guys suggest I do?

I am determined to actually have an orgasm, or atleast enjoyable sex.



Please yourself? Have enjoyable sex by yourself? You don't need him to do that, so what do you really need from him? What is it he gives you that keeps you around? Or...what is it that he doesn't give you that keeps you around? Do you actually enjoy his company? If not, do you actually enjoy that you do not enjoy his company? Do you not enjoy your own company and he reinforces that for you?

Come on. What is really going on here? The truth now. Fuck what he's doing...what are you doing?



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quote:Originally posted by vilin:

What do you guys suggest I do?

I am determined to actually have an orgasm, or at least enjoyable sex.

Call me.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Get fucked. You can't have me because I already have a girlfriend who isn't an egotistical bitch who can't orgasm.



lol

yeah, it would seem being excessively egotistical isn't going to get you very many helpful responses...

^^^That's a coverup for all her real insecurities. They must be massive...

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My ex never had an orgasm before she met me. 'Nough said.