I hate giving them but my boyfriend loves it when i do.....does anyone know any tips that would help me get past the not liking it part?? Because I love to make him happy its just i hate giving him oral pleasure.....

You sound prissy/stuck up.

when i gave head to a guy (i used to be bi) i always imagined myself as a girl, not because it felt more natural, but i suppose i was willing to go to any length to make him happy... close your eyes, and think of it, that your making him pleased and that its symbolic to your feelings.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

You sound prissy/stuck up.



You think she broke a nail when writing?

Tell him you don't like it and if he gives you grief, just say ok, carry on, then next time you do it bite down hard

You really think he enjoys cramming his face into your slimy little hole? YES! Now where was I.. yes, if you don't like it, I doubt you will. Just decide whether the pleasure of giving him pleasure outweighs the discomfort of suckling on his babyrod. Just think of him having fun and concentrate on that, might make it better

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:



You think she broke a nail when writing?

lol maybe idk....

oh and about him eating me out he hasnt i dont feel comfortable about doing that so he hasnt tried....

What in particular do you not you enjoy about it?

well, 3 things i know of would make the experience more enjoyable for you.

1. positioning. make sure you're comfortable physically when you're doing it.

2. flavored lube. yeah i know, you'd think you wouldn't need it for a bj since you've already got spit. well guess again. it helps. a lot.

3. your hands. if you use your hands effectively (and the lube helps with this) you don't have to feel like you're choking or suffocating.

essentially, a good blowjob is NOT using your mouth as hole to stick something in. it's really 50/50 with your hand and mouth, with the mouth adding an extra dimension of softness and wetness. get the picture?

bottom line is that it should be enjoyable for both of you. for the girl the enjoyable aspect is mostly psychological. for some it's the feeling of being in control. for some it's the feeling of being dominated. for some it's knowing how good you're making the other person feel. figure out what you like about it or find something else to pleasure him that you DO like.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 11-13-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

....suckling on his babyrod.

Dude, 'babyrod' is such a disturbing name for a dick. Idk, it just sounds so... ick.

And yeah, Sinergy, it would help lots if you'd say what exactly you didn't like about giving head. If it's the taste, then get some lube like Lauren said, or maybe some Hershey syrup or something. I'd venture to say that maybe you just feel that oral sex is dirty and haven't opened up to it yet, since you're not comfortable receiving it either. So, maybe you're just not ready for oral sex yet? Just guessing here...

Anyway, about Lauren's #3 above, I'd say tbat would depend on your man. I know I don't like it at all when my wife uses her hands. I prefer her to keep her hand at the base and just hold my cock. I see the chicks in porn movies looking like they're jacking the guy off, and just following their hand with their mouth. That's a lousy-ass blowjob if you ask me. Blowjobs & handjobs are two different things, and I for one ain't interested in getting handjobs from my woman.

Hope I offered a little insight, or at least some enjoyment to the thread...

quote:Originally posted by Luther:

Dude, 'babyrod' is such a disturbing name for a dick. Idk, it just sounds so... ick.

Haha, seems my efforts weren't wasted

quote:Originally posted by Luther:

So, maybe you're just not ready for oral sex yet?

Based on what's been posted, I'd say this is the most likely reason. You're not comfortable giving because you're not comfortable period, and might only be doing it because you feel it's expected.

If you're young and just now coming into your sexuality, so to speak, it might just not be something you're ready to do either way. If that's the case, just stop doing it for now.

make him shave.

See, when i first give my boyfriend head i used my hand.

He finalyl thought wow a girl finally knows how to give head.

Now, it seems weird when i use my hand. I am trying to get in the swing to it again. So does lube help ... it seems like my hand gets in the way sometimes.

This thread now brings a grin to my face.

yeah its mainly the taste of it...so i think im going to try the flavored lube! and im not that comfortable with it i spose but i dont want to all of the sudden not do it for him since he seems to enjoy it so much...and thats what gets me so turned on is that i can get him there like that....and i guess you could say im young im 18 so yeah i havent really had that much experince.... thanks you guys!

and yeah babyrod is a lame term for his dick