ok, so there is this chick at my work. (I made salads in an upscale restuarant.)

The only + interaction with her involves laughing her ass off.

Im wondering, should i go for it? If so, what things can i say to progress this ?

Im not actually 100% positive she likes me, (shes flirty with everyone pretty much) So im kinda confused.

any comments would be apreciated.

Peace,

There's nothing worse than a girl who flirts with every man in the room. If you want to pursue it though, find a time at work when you two aren't on the spot in front of everyone and see if she'd like to spend some time together outside of work.

is this the girl who bel-aired you? not a chance in hell.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

is this the girl who bel-aired you? not a chance in hell.



Lol yeah , same chick.

(It was more of my sisters prank thought.)

She seems to have some interest in me lately.

Meh....I dunno.

Peace,

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:



Lol yeah , same chick.

(It was more of my sisters prank thought.)

She seems to have some interest in me lately.

Meh....I dunno.

Peace,



she's just having fun with you.

well actually i don't know. can you describe her facial expressions when you're around? does her posture or face change when you enter the room?

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 11-13-2006).]

If she was such a whore to Bell-air you, she deserves that you don't pay ANY attention to her.

And she's the bosses daughter. Do not do something that stupid unless the guy has a good opinion about you.

PLUS, if you get into a relationship/just fuck her up the ass, she'll be IN CONTROL of your laboral life. Why? Because her whining can make her father fire you.



REVENGE MAN, REVENGE!!

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

ok, so there is this chick at my work. (I made salads in an upscale restuarant.)

Offer to toss her salad?

Heh, just kidding. I think you'd be better to find someone else, from what it sounds like you're on the "friend ladder".

Never EVER date your coworkers.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

If so, what things can i say to progress this ?

(btw this is my bosses daughter, i may be risking my job with this one.....)



Well hello lil nikkuh!

IMHO, the straightforward, sincere approach is always the best.

Just tell her, with as much sincerity as you can rightfully muster, that you really like her/are impressed by her, and you are wondering if she would be willing to go on a date with you.

As for loseing your job...well, I think that as long as you do it in a sincere, non-creepy manner, people don't tend to fire their employees for asking their daughter out. Besides, he shouldn't have cause for dismissal, anyway. You are not doing anything wrong.

I'd say go for it. Dating girls at work is funny. I've dated or fooled around with pretty much every girl that I work with at some time or another. It's so damn easy.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

Yeah she might just be having "fun" with me. Thats what im trying to figure out. Her facial expressions and body language? HMmm, well she is usually smiling or laughing when around me.

The other night after work I was having a beer at the bar and shes sitting on the table, when I come over she loosens up and kinda like spread her legs out and did a lil slide thing & her additude cheered up .

(not as slutty as it sounds, but I def noticed it.)

And "writing a novel", I dont just want to come out and say I want to hook up. If shes likes ummm no, then it's going to be awkward for me at work.

Im trying to "play" this game and figure it out.

and as far as losing my job, It would be totally worth it if I even had 1 night with this girl.

Technicly she is perfect for me, (dark hair, shorter than me, looks young for age, really sweet & fuN) - the bel-air thing....

Peace,





Actually from what you've described of her body language, she likes you. Keep doing what you're doing (don't want to mess up the vibe) but figure out a way to up the flirtation. Report back for data analysis.

By the way, what are you currently doing in the ways of flirting? When she teases you or laughs you might want to try having some comebacks or playful humor for her.

What lauren means is you need to tease the shit out of her and make her feel utterly subhuman until she will yield to your massive stiffy.

I wouldn't go for it man.