I know. I'm 14 so probably I'll get a " This fucktard 14-year-old shit doesn't know about love and is turning celibate. ROFL in my pants".

But I'll say what I have to. I lost interest in love. I just don't seem to care anymore. I'm still attracted to girls, but the dating scene and hooking up with girls, and fooling around..I have given up on.I'm not gay otherwise I'd be dating dudes and i find that utterly despicable (It's pretty gay) There is no point to it. It distorts my focus and I'm chasing after something I'm never going to get. This is no religious intervention or emo rant but I just am completely comfortable with not loving anymore. Masturbation gets old and controlling your urges is easier than it turns out to be. So, honestly, I don't care if I die alone, or ever fuck a girl, because none of it matters.

Well, though you may not like to hear it, you are 14 so most of the people in your dating scene are going to be of the same maturity level. I never dated until I was 16 or 17 just because I couldn't stand the dating scene. Once I got older it became a lot less important and I found new meaning to love. So I respect your decision, but I am sure you will reconsider sooner or later.

quote:Originally said by Yoda:

"Fear is the path to the Dark Side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering. I sense much fear in you."

Somewhere in that whole combination is you cutting yourself.

I felt a little like that too. I like to be alone and to play my computer games. I like to sit, completely isolated, and think, or read a book, or whatever. Sometimes the idea of interacting with anyone scares and repulses me. In fact, some of the time I wish to be completely alone and isolated in a space station thousands of light-years from everything.

But then I snap out of it. I found the most wonderful girl ever, much to my surprise, and I think overall she's much more fun than being an antisocial hermit. Just take life as it comes, and if you meet someone you like... go for it. What could it hurt?!

SO your gay? Hmm doesnt sound like any big deal its ok to be gay. Just kidding but you sound gay, plus the whole "utterly dispicable" is gayest way to say it is gross, plus sounds like your homophobic and homophobia is a sign of repressed homosexuality.

But hey if you really can't EVER get any then what your saying is that your not becoming celibate you've just faced facts that your not going to get laid? But hey im sure you'll snap out of it, and trust me lots of people go through that fase. I DONT care whats so great about fucking? Well let me tell you theres nothing great about fucking.... theres only AMAZING BAD ASS things about it oh yea. Once you ahve sex and get head and all that shit you will see how good it is. Before you have it its not that big of a deal but afterwards it gets to where your like ok maybe this is pretty damn cool.

Just wait until you find someone who isnt a 14 year old with no clue about anything, the 'dating scene' is usually a bad place to meet people too, as backwards as that sounds.

You say you wont ever want it, but just wait, there will be someone.

You just have to wait for the right time, when she comes to you.

You're not gay, just been fucked over by females. It happens to us all, and some move on and others don't. I'm 21 been fucked over by a few and now I've lost interest in trying to find one or wanting to be with one. I go out with my cousin and I'll have girls all over me and my cousin calls me a bitch and fag because I won't seal the deal. I'll have fun and flirt and bullshit with them but that's as far as it goes. You may or may not ever get that interest back as for me it's been this way for a year and a half and nothing has changed but either way it doesn't make you gay.

Good for you.

Stay in school?

It's always good to take a break from relations from time to time.

*Cues OP to find dream girl.*

That's just the way these things work.

I agree, dating dudes is pretty gay. What a bunch of faggots.

But really, just wait a few years till girls are more mature, you seem to be ahead of the curve. I hate to say, but it doesn't really get much better till college. So just enjoy yourself till then. Just because you're not expecting love is no reason to be celibate.

My best friend is 19 and has never dated, on account of most girls being "Fucking moronic and insane".

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

My best friend is 19 and has never dated

Asexual?

Wow...the funny thing is, is that once I turned celibate, all these girls I know just started to say "OMG, UR SO HOT!!" and I still am celibate and I'm happy cause I don't give a fuck

Iv been celebate for over a week.. I cant be bothered at the moment all my dick does is piss.

Dude... if you're selabit to the day you die from the age 14... then you had better become a priest or god will smote your prostate with cancer

ill join ya, a life of celibacy forever