I was just about to tell my friend that I loved her tonight but... I really thought about it and there words that shouldn't be tossed arround ya know?

I allways had feelings for her and the only reason we split is because she ran away. Well now she came back and we have been hanging out basically everyday. Shes my best friend she cooks for me and all that but... last week she tried to kiss me and I avoided it mainly because I was stressed out and had to many thoughts runing through my head about another girl. I kissed her a few days ago and we ended up making out the rest of the day. I dont even know what I like about her :S I just like spending time with her. She never told me she loved me before so I dont know what I should be expecting if I were to tell her. Should I wait on it? I think its the damn drugs that are fucking with me.

I'm going to say it now, and I'm going to say it fucking straight.

You're a fucking idiot. Don't stall, don't think twice, go for it. Too many hischoolers are worried about some "Oh, but were good friends" or "I don't know what she'll say" bullshit. If you like her, you fucking say something.

Why? Because you'll never live it down if you don't.

And if you don't have the balls to do it, and you don't say anything, I want you to remember what I said, right here. And I want you to always remember it, everytime you think about her, and what could have been.

You make some good points For some reason I was expecting you to reply. Jesus do you sleep? what time is it there sounds like your like me and don't sleep ever. 5:06am down here

I don't sleep. I'm either in class, in the studio, or at home wired on meth and caffeine.

as my friend kath said, and i didn't listen to, what i still regret : Love is to precious not to express

Go for it man, really, what have you got to lose compared to what you have to gain

edit: ohw and how your sure it's love? your never sure. That's why were humans and not pc's , we can take a chance and find out

[This message has been edited by dark-easterbunny (edited 11-12-2006).]

You think it matters if what you feel is different from what somebody else thinks is 'love'?

Bullshit! If you want it, go for it.

I was always sure that if you were then you would know, you wouldnt have to think about it.

Looking back...even on the 9 months i was with my ex i cant honestly in my heart right now say i loved her even though i thought i was so sure at the time and after 9 months as well! which is quite sad.

But yeah...."you just know"

as other people have said, if you know you love her, there's no reason not to tell her. well, unless you're stockpiling reasons to hate yourself in the future. because if you don't, i guarantee you will. let the words flow. you'll thank you, and chances are, she'll have a positive reaction to it.