I've got some serious thoughts on this.

First off, I don't watch porn. I don't download porn, I don't get any magazines, nothing like that. For the record, I'm currently single.

I'm not morally against it or anything, it just doesn't interest me. I hit up IFIOTW all the time and people will slap on porn sites. I click thru masked links and hit all sorts of shit. I've probably seen everything there is to see out there, one way or another. When I see it, it's more like "Yup.. that's somebody naked."

Now, one other thing to clarify, that I'm not actually looking for this like boner-inducing shit either. It's not like I'm sitting there like OMFG WHATS WRONG IM NOT ALL HARD WTF SOMETHINGS BROKED. It's not even in my mind, actually.

So, for those reasons, I just... don't do porn.



However, I have a SuicideGirls account, I might add, which I do frequent the photoshoots there, as well as use it as a social networking site. But again, I don't actually think of anything there in an erotic light. Since I promised a gallery to anyone who actually reads this, you can visit SuicideGirls dot com, slash albums, slash SG+Gallery. I had to ninja that one in there. Sure, I think some of the girls are hot, and I like their style, but again, it's not the same mindset as say, someone who's "watching porn", if that makes any sense. Quite personally, I more enjoy just looking at them, their styles, the reflections of their personalities in the way they present themselves, and things like that. So sure, I'm checking them out, but it's not on an erotic level.

I also want to note that culturally, I've always been used to things like this. I'd go raving where girls where wet and naked in the middle of the floor, or where the bathrooms where this just completely open thing where everyone went in and nobody seemed to give a shit that guys and girls both were both using the same room. Fuck, I've even had times where me and my (female) friends have gotten completely naked in front of each other while changing, just because it was necessary or convenient.



So, in conclusion, I was just wondering if I'm the only one that thinks like this. Everyone I seem to have met is usually like OMFG SUICIDE GIRLS PORN BRB FAPPIN, and everyone I've talked to doesn't seem to be able to comprehend that yeah, I can actually look at someone naked without immediately thinking about bending them over.

So tell me, am I alone here?

well, sir. it's one thing to be able to look at the stuff without getting horny. it's another thing to NOT BE ABLE to get horny while seeing tons of stuff that is blatantly sexual. i would personally wonder if you are gay or simply asexual. but that's not my call. tell me, are you attracted to women in a sexual way at all?

Oh, of course. I've been with women before, and there's definitely things that can turn me on, but just straight up porn just doesn't excite me.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

well, sir. it's one thing to be able to look at the stuff without getting horny. it's another thing to NOT BE ABLE to get horny while seeing tons of stuff that is blatantly sexual. i would personally wonder if you are gay or simply asexual. but that's not my call. tell me, are you attracted to women in a sexual way at all?

I can clarify that kai does indeed like things sexual - and with females. The gay thing, I can't comment on. But I could see kai being bi.

He's just weird I guess (its pretty obvious lol).

Could it also be that maybe you'd feel guilty if you did? Maybe you're just of strong morals (ie lust is bad). Either way, that's strange, I'm a guy and like most I think about sex every 10 seconds.

quote:Originally posted by Spunn:

Could it also be that maybe you'd feel guilty if you did? Maybe you're just of strong morals (ie lust is bad). Either way, that's strange, I'm a guy and like most I think about sex every 10 seconds.

I'm not a Christian, and I really have no moral fabric regarding sex. Actually, I don't even think I have any moral fabric regarding anything.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

The gay thing, I can't comment on. But I could see kai being bi.

For that matter, it's any porn. It could be just some dude (say, a good looking one, for relativity), and I'm still just completely indifferent about it all. My opinion of it doesn't change based on gender.

[This message has been edited by Kai (edited 11-12-2006).]

I think you don't really like it, because you like to be attacted emotionally to a person before you enjoy/like the idea of being sexual with them. Porn is too emotionless and detacted for you to like.

well then. in light of that new information, it could be that you're just someone who is not visually stimulated. do other senses excite you sexually, for example sounds or smells? or being touched in a certain way? certain textures?

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 11-12-2006).]

I've felt like that before but its usually when I'm busy or stressed out. But I'm back to fapping again if you don't know allready :P which you do

I like suicidegirls, i look at them like you do but add the photographic style to it, and i can just see some of the girl's beauty.

I really like apnea, lithiumpicnic.com does the shoots with her and the photographs are amazing.

Kai anything you can hook me up with would be appreciated <3

Kai, you're not alone. I'm not quite as extreme as you are, but I'm nearing it more over time.

I personally hate any fiction. Any...

Then add the fake, emotionaless and frankly sad nature of porn and I'm barely interested in any.

I can't help but wonder why someone is selling their body on camera. Is that the only thing they're capable of in life?

Looks are great, so is w/e act, but without your(woman) having a personality, you can jump off a cliff as far as I'm concerned.

I am single. :P

Meh, porn gets very boring for me.

Porn used to be a lot more exciting for me than it is now. I have to really try to get into it for it to do anything. When I masturbate to porn, I feel intensely lonely afterwards.

I liked porn a bit when I was younger, but I never got to the point where I had a hard drive full of it. It's good in that it can give you new ideas and illustrate some situations you may have not experienced before, but nowadays I just find most of it to be on the trashy side and it really doesn't do much for me.

I'll still look at it every now and then, but usually I get bored as soon as I see the same worn out woman taking it in three holes, or some guy strutting around a bunch of women with his 9" thundercock. It's just not realistic, and I can get far more out of looking at a normal picture of a pretty woman.

I'm sure Kai likes a small handful of girls, but in general...

Kai is just gay. For men. And boys.

well, some people just don't get anything out of porn, and apparently you're one of them. I don't think it means anything about your sexuality. at least if you're otherwise capapble of being sexually aroused.

it's just the medium of porn that doesn't do it for you. hell, it's personal preference. no worries.

ok then. brb, fapping

fap fap fap

I can count the number of times I've masturbated or looked at porn in the last year on one hand(I was having sex during like 2/3 of this time).

I haven't bothered at all or even thought about it in nearly three months.

It's like "oh, nkaed person" "oh, a penis".

If I ever look at anything like that nowadays, it's usually out of curioisity or because I'm bored and looking for something to over analyse.



I really think I am asexual=/

oooh looka at me I don't like porn but I have a suicide girls account but I'm not attracted to them cause Im different than everybody

quote:Originally posted by Kai:

...and everyone I've talked to doesn't seem to be able to comprehend that yeah, I can actually look at someone naked without immediately thinking about bending them over.

So tell me, am I alone here?

No, you're not.

One day, I was watching porn, and suddenly it didnt appeal to me. I turned it off and didnt watch any for a little while.

quote:Originally posted by Kai:

Quite personally, I more enjoy just looking at them, their styles, the reflections of their personalities in the way they present themselves, and things like that. So sure, I'm checking them out, but it's not on an erotic level.



"hey babe. I'm not staring at naked pictures of your breasts because you're hot, but simply because I can see you have an amazing personality."



..mhmh

Maybe it's because you're so used to nudity that when you first started out with porn (nothing hardcore yet) it did nothing for you. You then applied that mindset to ALL porn over time and being "internet-desensitized (goatse)".. it just did nothing for you.

Or maybe you're just one to prefer the real thing. ^^

Maybe you are just "been there done that"?

You know?

Maybe what is going on in your head is, "I've done all of that"

Or maybe what is going on in your head is, "I don't want to watch it, that is stupid, I want to do it, and I won't accept substitutions"