So I broke it off with my girlfriend back in july because shes a cheating whore

I haven't really had a relationship since except a short thing with a girl but we didn;t really go out, just did stuff. Now this girl in the grade above wants to go out and I am feeling hesitant. Slightly because i haven't met her so thats an obvious one. But another is I'm afraid I'm gonna get fucked over. And another is, I don't think another chick can handle me. I'm a complete fuck up at life, I am always baked or burnt out and never really am sober. I am emotionaly unstable and have worse mood swings than most chicks and have major depression

On the other hand i want to get back in the swing with dating and move on.

I seriously don't know what the fuck to do. Should i just be friends with this chick and get to know her and wait a while before i jump into the dating.

EDIT: and then theres this one chick i've always had a thing for. She has always been there for me but she has given up on me. I'm always hoping she'll have a thing for me and we have been best friends for a long time.

God this is different to be confused about

[This message has been edited by trippydeath (edited 11-12-2006).]

I can relate to you. A lot.

No, don't date again. Just try and keep things as casual as possible. That's why I will do from now on.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 11-12-2006).]

You should try to better yourself with the relationship. You admitted you have problems; meaning you want to change. This sounds like good motivation to fix them. A great girl can change your life.

I've quit smoking and cut back on daily drinking and drug use because I was a depressed fuckup. My life has completely turned around. You can do them same, it does take a lot of effort but it's well worth it.

Just try a simple date with the girl thats interested. Go to a movie or something. I don't think that can get fucked up. See where it goes from there, if it starts to get into a relationship somewhere down the line then tell her your fears. If nothing happens with it then fuck it maybe you'll make a friend.