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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-11-12, 05:15 |
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 Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
Is it? What are you suppose to do when this interest developes? You're up all night thinking about that person.
Is it normal? Do people just ignore it and not act upon it?
Has anyone ever shared this before?
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#2
2006-11-12, 05:31 |
Dextros 
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
Having friends? That's pretty normal. I might have misinterpreted, seeing as I'm pretty wasted. Go for it.
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2006-11-12, 05:37 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
I'd be interested in other people if my girl was uptight as yours...
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#4
2006-11-12, 05:39 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
From my experience it's a forewarning that you've lost interest in your relationship but that's just me. I think it's a sign to reconsider your relationship before somebody gets hurt like I recently did; pretty pissed at myself for that.
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#5
2006-11-12, 05:41 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
I'd be interested in other people if my girl was uptight as yours...
rabbitweed, do me a favor? go on irc.
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2006-11-12, 05:45 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
I'd be interested in other people if my girl was uptight as yours...
Why would you say my girl is uptight?
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#7
2006-11-12, 05:52 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
quote:Originally posted by OneMulatto:
Why would you say my girl is uptight?
You post about her not letting you do oral on her, not giving you oral, not letting you have porn, not wanting sex much
maybe uptight's the wrong word. Frigid sounds good.
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2006-11-12, 08:32 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
Has this ever happened to anyone? I was told it's normal.
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#9
2006-11-12, 08:34 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
In my opinion if you can develope interest for someone else then there's something wrong in the relationship you are in and the parson you are with doesn't satiate you anymore.
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#10
2006-11-12, 09:20 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
Lusting after another while committed sounds like the first step on the road to cheating.
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#11
2006-11-12, 15:25 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
I'm pretty sure its normal. I get the same feeling sometimes. Humans (males at least, not so sure about females) have a natural tendency towards promiscuity. Something to do with propogating the species and spreading your seed as far as possible, an obsolete instinct, but it's there nonetheless.
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#12
2006-11-12, 15:48 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
It's probably just a crush.
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2006-11-12, 16:14 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
Your subconscious is screaming in agony and trying to tear its way free from this sex-less, hang-with-frigid-bitch-often prison through the ingenious artiface of this newfound lust in an attempt to find fulfillment and rid itself of bullshit through another girl who would actually complement your personality.
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#14
2006-11-12, 22:10 |
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Re: Normal to gain interest in another person when you already have someone?
OK.. so aside from the fact that your girlfriend is.. basicly not putting out.
Firstly: You fucked up by letting her run YOUR life.. I can understand her not wanting sex or whatever.. her decision.. But if you have porn or not is TOTALLY up to you.. and you gave that power away somewhere.
Work on keeping your power.
Secondly: I see an interest in someone else meaning that your relationship wasn't ment to be.. you guys just don't fit each other. If you're having thoughts of another woman/girl.. thats normal.. being up all night thinking about them? (doing what, I DON'T WANNA KNOW) Thats the FIRST sign you need to get out, and fast.
It means in some way or another your girl does not interest you anymore.. and why stick around with something that you are going to not take an interest in? Next step is disliking it, and then hating it. Why put you, and her, through that?
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