So i got this girls number, she is a really cool person, and i know she has a thing for me too. Now having never done anything like this before I'm wondering what i should do.



I would ask her to smoke with me, or maybe have a few drinks, but unfortunately she is straight edge. So I'm looking for ideas for things to do with her other then fuck/get fucked up.

Thanks totse!



edit: Im a complete noob when it comes to girls as well.

[This message has been edited by Quageschi (edited 11-11-2006).]

Just hang out. Un;ess you're fucking socially inept.

take her to see borat. that seems to be the movie du jour.

if a movie seems too lame to you and you really can't think of any straight edge activities you'd enjoy (pool, bowling, park, walk) then perhaps you two are too different.

inviting her over to "do whatever" might also be fun, and could lead to "other things."

edit - whatever you guys end up doing, i recommend not paying for her. you guys are young, and you're most likely not loaded like a guy working on wall street would be. also, you don't want to get into that iffy zone where she's just hanging out with you because you're a meal ticket. if she seems to really expect you to pay then don't make an issue of it though. that was just a suggestion.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 11-11-2006).]

What she said.

oh also i don't know how old you are and where you live, but i've heard suburban kids like going to the mall? i dunno, i'm from a city so the whole place is kind of a consumer center. but hey if that's something that kids usually do i guess you could do that. lots of stuff to do there usually.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

movie du jour.

My god that's pretentious.

Most successful date - A pool hall.

Do I suggest it to anyone else? No... why? my dad was a pool shark. Basically paid for his college tuition by whoopin' up on people in bars and halls. I brought this girl to a shady pool hall, on purpose. She wouldn't be wandering off to go talk to any other guys, because they were all scary.

She was never in danger though, I'm 6'3, 180 lbs, I play varsity hockey and football and I had a S&W .38 special with speedloader and hollow point rounds the whole time. (Yes, I have C&C permit, and NO I've never had to use it, responsible NRA member) She watched me CLEAN UP in a few games, pull down some nice cash, I taught her a few things. She had a fun time, and was talking about the date like it was the greatest thing in the world the next day in class to her friends.

Ask her if she wants to go for a walk spuriously in the evening.

"Hey, I'm gonna go for a little nature/city walk. Want to come?"

Don't try to start a relationship around smoking pot. It seems a lot of girls will act interested if they're getting smoked up... you really don't want her agreeing to a date if she doesn't like you, do you?

quote:Originally posted by ResdogMrwhite:

Most successful date - A pool hall.

Do I suggest it to anyone else? No... why? my dad was a pool shark. Basically paid for his college tuition by whoopin' up on people in bars and halls. I brought this girl to a shady pool hall, on purpose. She wouldn't be wandering off to go talk to any other guys, because they were all scary.

She was never in danger though, I'm 6'3, 180 lbs, I play varsity hockey and football and I had a S&W .38 special with speedloader and hollow point rounds the whole time. (Yes, I have C&C permit, and NO I've never had to use it, responsible NRA member) She watched me CLEAN UP in a few games, pull down some nice cash, I taught her a few things. She had a fun time, and was talking about the date like it was the greatest thing in the world the next day in class to her friends.

this is a fun date, but i don't know about the sketchy guys parts...

but yeah rabbitweed, i was being slightly facetious.