Im hearing it all the time now, online and in real life. Girls are totally like going lesbian(no lie) because the guy they were dating with cheated on them or left them. Now they are all pist and hate all guys in general and even have a weird new attitude.

This girl was running her mouth yesterday i about smacked her out of her seat. Theres me, 2 other guys, and the instructor that are the only males in the class...the rest females. This girl is like all guys are bastards, low life, cheating pigs...she used a few other words also cant remember. I was sitting right in front of her when she said this, my instructor also didnt say anything after she said this.

I was so close to letting out a few choice words but i kept my mouth quiet(for the best of things). Its like maybe if you didnt go out with some low life or some bum in the first place that wouldnt of happened. And its not just ugly chicks that are doing this ive seen very attractive girls saying this.

And maybe if her skinny ass could of kept her boyfriend interested that wouldnt of happened, you could tell she was one of those girls that probably gave him hell all the time. So i dont blame him for doing that....

Is this a question? Or a statement?

Not all girls are like that, promise you. Or, if they are now, they will see the error of their ways.

I stopped reading this half way because I was bored, but:

If the problem is that a woman (or some women) made generalizations about all men from bad experiences with one man, do you think that making a generalization about all women from this will help?.

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so you're saying you've never heard men generalize that all women are stupid manipulative bitches that you can't trust for a second? all they want is your money and they'd as soon cheat on you with your best friend as look at you?

look around, there's at least a hundred threads on it here alone.

people have bad experiences, and they get bitter and blame it on the entirety of the opposite sex. no, it's not the solution, but you're just furthering the problem by being so one-sided.

I haven't known any girls/women who actually spouted off their hatred of men because they've been hurt. But, I do know some who never dated a man again, nor did they "go lesbo". The pursuit of men just completely went out their lives.

Seems like a shame to me, but maybe they're content to be alone rather than to risk being hurt again.

well. it's a shame really. the sexes were meant to cooperate, not fight. why the war? i think it's because gender roles in society are no longer clearly defined. in fact, they're starting disappear in some ways. yet there are people who want to maintain them. this causes tensions and confusion. i try to deal with it by being tolerant of many different kinds of attitudes of gender roles, traditional and nontraditional. and by understanding that sometimes the bitterness you hear taken out on the opposite sex is a result of pain and hurt the person experienced. really all they are in need of is healing -- someone to show them that the other sex isn't evil.