Hey guys,

I have a problem.

I have always been a little shy with girls. Especially when it comes to making the first move. Ive recently been wondering if masturbation has anything to do with that.

I masturbate usually once daily, do you think cutting down on it would boost my sex drive and make me "man up" easier?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

no. If you had no sex drive you wouldnt be nervous around females at all...on the other hand if you increased your sex drive you'd probably be even more nervous because it would be that much more important to you.

I dont think it has to do with being nervous. I just cant tell if they want me to make the move or not. Maybe cutting down on the jerking off would make me not care for what they want as much?

haha yeah man...cutting down on the wanking actually is hard at first..but I just feel better about myself in general, could be just me. but yeah you sound like you just care too much right now.

quote:Originally posted by TijuanaTanker:

I dont think it has to do with being nervous. I just cant tell if they want me to make the move or not. Maybe cutting down on the jerking off would make me not care for what they want as much?

it may give you that little "oomph" you need to say "fuck it" and make a move.

After a week of not masturbating, you'll throw the first thing with tits over and fuck 'er.

Just be careful it's not related to you.

Why don't you stop for a while and find out?

I was like that, had no sex drive untill i actually had sex and now its non stop boner and jackign of 3 times a day.

Dude, you're very confused.

You're shy around girls, and you masturbate daily... ok.

If you masturbate daily then you're horny daily. Unless you masturbate before you go to sleep as a kinda set pattern of your night, your own little routine.

If you have no sex drive, you don't get horny... you don't crave sex. Being shy around girls is a completely seperate issue.

I used to be horribly shy around any girl I liked or found attractive... I could hardly speak to them, Id fuck up my words and embaress myself further. If I was talking to a girl I wasnt physically attracted to, though, I didnt give a fuck. I'd talk to them as if they were a guy.

The shyness left me with age... I have talked to people recently who I havent talked to in years, and they say it's like I have a different personality. I talk, now... I dont mumble and get embaressed. This comes with age, and there isnt a whole lot you can do to bring on the change.

Except maybe start a job where you have to talk to girls a lot, and it being part of your job will numb the shyness to an extent.

higher testosterone levels will result from less masturbating. This can result in a bigger sex drive, more pheromone production, evening out of emotions, more energy, blah blah yeah. It will help

No don't stop jerkin!! I tried that once and almost got arrested. You get so horny that you end up going crazy and rubbing up against girls asses in stores and flashing your cock to high schoolers. They don't call it demon seed for nothing, you got to let that shit out daily.

quote:Originally posted by Dagon:

No don't stop jerkin!! I tried that once and almost got arrested. You get so horny that you end up going crazy and rubbing up against girls asses in stores and flashing your cock to high schoolers. They don't call it demon seed for nothing, you got to let that shit out daily.



You just have a very high t count. You need to let it out one way or another