Ok Totseans, I need your honest help on this one.

Basicly I moved from Chicago to Florida. I know no-one down here and have been here for over 2 months.

Im getting lonely, Im a good looking guy (and even im over critical of myself)

Have money, car....ect. But I cannot seem to make any connections.

Everytime I go to a bar/club, chicks are like "Lol where u get a fake id from?" Becuase I look so young for my age, that just pisses me off. Get turned off instantly.

Then, there are the sluts who come up and want to fuck me, but i DON'T want that. I want an honest relationship.

Do you guys/gals have any tips for a newcomer?

This situation is strange to me and 2 months alone is really fucking up my head.

(aka , sleeping with my sisters friend thats 15 + slumber party is a blow to my morality.)

Peace,

Nikkuh

[This message has been edited by Nikkuh (edited 11-08-2006).]

youre not going to find an honest relationship in a club. youre going to find an easy fuck in a club, like youve been seeing. you have to go elsewhere for what you want.

you're not going to get an honest relationship hanging out with girls at bars.

quote:Originally posted by plehem12:

youre not going to find an honest relationship in a club. youre going to find an easy fuck in a club, like youve been seeing. you have to go elsewhere for what you want.

Tru dat.

Seriously though, go to a coffee shop or a pub (not bar) or something like that. Meet people the regular way, not the meat-market way. I occasionally go to clubs with my girlfriend but I HATE it. It makes me literally feel ill to think that half the people there are just trying to find some stranger to fuck.

Also, I'd suggest dating sites. They're too much work for someone who is just trying to randomly pick up, plus you get to filter people without being rude. They dont even know you're looking at their profile, right?

I normally wouldnt suggest something so useless seeming, but thats how my gf and I got together, and that was over a year ago.

Yeah Shodan, I tried date.com. (I know pathetic) and i got a couple interested chicks. But all 50 + miles away.

Eh, no thanks.

Local Pub/Cof shop might be ok, but id still be in the awkward situation of being by- myself.

Damn, sometimes I wish my friends didn't go off to college. Maybe I should just go back to school, im thinking thats my only option.

Peace,

Hi...

I can see how this is a problem; but I don't get the catch 22 part?

quote:Originally posted by Sentinel:

you're not going to get an honest relationship hanging out with girls at bars.

You can, but it's rare.

Some of the girls I've kissed at clubs over miltiple occaisions have asked me to take it to the next step.

I don't think you're good looking if you look like a little kid.

Have sex with a drunk 15 year old again.

quote:Originally posted by WritingANovel:

Hi...

I can see how this is a problem; but I don't get the catch 22 part?



Heya Writing, your my fav totsean . So ill respond.

The "catch 22" is that I look 15, Yet can't pick up girls my own age. YET girls that are 15 want me . But that is illegal.

You feel me?

Peace,

Nik

Fetish parties.

I only wish I knew of them sooner, unlike a bar or club, no-one has that stand-offish attitude when you talk to them, alot of people will go up to you and strike up a conversation.

Ive gone to four of them myself so far, also got alot of my coworkers addicted to them as well, would dress up after work the night of the party and have a blast.

Seriously though, extremely nice people, alot of women making out with each other and running around topless, getting whipped and stuff, its a total blast.

The next one is on November 10th, thats this friday, buy a jumpsuit or something and check it out, you will meet people, and you will have a good time

thefetishparty.com is the site, Im so hopelessly addicted

Edit: Forgot to mention that this is in South Florida, and each party has around 900 people attend.

[This message has been edited by Kommandant_Klaus (edited 11-08-2006).]

start getting involved in things. If you play any sports, find an adult league. If your a musician, join a band. Go to a park and play hacky sack with people everyday. Just get involved with a "Crowd" and then you'll meet people exponentially.

quote:Originally posted by Kommandant_Klaus:

Fetish parties.

You should listen to this dude, because it's just such an honest, yet off the wall solution.

quote:Originally posted by 256:

You should listen to this dude, because it's just such an honest, yet off the wall solution.



Hmmm, how can I find one of these "Fetish" parties you guys talk of?

Peace,

I've been in florida all my life, and I have the same problem. I dont really know too many people around here, and I think I'd do alright at bars/clubs but I'd always feel foolish showing up alone. Meh.

And as far as I know, the only fetish parties are in Ft. Lauderdale and -maybe- Miami. They're definitely an experience worth trying at least once, if you're not particularly conservative in the sex department.