I'm a 21 year old male. I've been sexually active since 16. I've ALWAYS had trouble achieving orgasm during sex or any other kind of activity with my girlfriend. I've had head over 300 times and only cum once. I can only cum during sex after at least 20-30 minutes, and only when I'm trying really hard to. I am fucking sick of hearing about people cumming in like 30 seconds of sex. They are ashamed of it, but I envy them. I don't know what I expect from the people that read this...but does anyone else have similar experiences? I've always been this way, and it fucking sucks. Any advice? My girlfriend is very good at what she does by the way, so it's not a problem in her technique, it's my problem.

I feel your pain.

But at the same time think about it, the only short point of this handycap is blowjobs. The girl gets tired and disapointed she thinks that its her fault. At any rate thats my experience.

The high point is that you can have this girl orgasming for hours. After that kind of sex she would do anything for you .

Basicaly what im trying to say. Enjoy it.

same problem here. My wife (yes i am married) cums 3 or 4 times everytime we have sex and is usually too tired to help me finish. I have blue balls.

Maybe it's psychological?

At least you're not premature.