I read the book Pimp by Iceberg Slim.

It gave me alot of insight on how women work.

Before people yell Im full of shit, the first three chapters had a story about the nice guy and the predatory pimp. The author experienced this first hand when he was a child.

When the author was a child, he had a step dad who had his own bussiness, was doing well in a legit manner and was the perfect father and husband. A very kind and respectable man according to the author. Then this very abusive pimp came along and for some reason, the author's mother fell in love with the pimp, left home and took Iceberg with her to go move in with the pimp and had nothing bad anger and scorn on her face as she left while her husband begged her not to go. Later she help her new lover steal everything from her husband in order to prove her love for the pimp.

Now in my own and less dramatic way, I have had women tell I'm a nice guy and would make a great husband. I did every thing I could do for one girlfriend and gave her as much respect as possible. What happen next is she left me so she could live with her abusive ex.

Why would a woman leave and turn on a

good man for some one violent and brutal?

I think the message is men when they want something from someone usaully (not all the time) are nice and focus on getting along. Women do not. They are more focused on control and getting what they want at the exspense of the other person. Abbusive men are not afraid to dominate and don't hold back when they want the woman to submit. Woman usaully go for dominant men. Nice and kind men are viewed as submissive and thus are not respected by women.

Now this is my theory. What do you think?

Sometimes I think their smaller brain size comes into play....

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Sometimes I think their smaller brain size comes into play....

Only sometimes?

Some women like to get their shit fucked up. Some don't. Find the ones who don't crave abusive SO's who make them feel needed or passionate.