She loved every second of it. I fingered her for about 10 minutes total before she said she was getting sore, so I gently pulled out and rubbed her for a minute, then pulled my hand out. She was on her side, with her head dug into my arm, and she was breathing real deeply, she even started saying "Oh steven" real softly. My finger started out at the surface, then slowly got deeper and deeper. My finger was moving in all kinds of patterns and motions. I could hear her wetness. She was soaked. I felt her clit too, I think. She was pretty hairy down there, so it was a challenge finding her middle. I went nice a slow, and at other times I was fast and furious. I felt her tense up at times when I touched certain areas in there. I made sure my middle finger and pointer finger were nice and smooth, via nail file. Good thing too. When I pulled out, my middle finger was all pruned, and I licked the juices off. It was actually kind of sweet. I can still smell it on my finger. When I pulled out, she said "That was new..." But she liked it.

Now here's the problem. I didn't get a boner throughout the whole thing. I still don't have one. I have been waiting to finger her forever, I imagined I'd have a raging boner throughout the session, but I didn't... I can barely get a boner when I'm with her, even though she turns me on like crazy. I'm 16.

Help?

erectile dysfunction?



but on a serious note, maybe you're too nervous/anxious and it's making it hard for you to get it up.

Wait...

I just fapped. Maybe I was thinking about it too much. I didn't have a 100% boner though.

I think I am just thinking about it too much. But I've been having this problem for awhile now... I just don't get boners as ofter as I used to.

You were probably nervous. If shes sucking you off and you get nothing you should go to the doctor.

You have what we in the medical proffesion call "the gay". Either go join one of those christian 'gay2straight' things or start fucking man anus.

Shut up, Steve.

Shut up RedWasp.. its Steve we tell to shut up... not steven.

Just out of curiousity, how long have you two been going out for?

abooout.... a month, month and a half, somewhere around there.

Now I have a mad boner that won't go away...

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ah, I loved the reaction I got on my first time fingering. but I understand what you mean, it's also happened to me.

last night, it sort of failed on me for a while, and she had to put some effort into it. but I was SO drunk that I'm not really surprised.

This Steven bloke is a real fag.

quote:Originally posted by Its steven:

She was pretty hairy down there, so it was a challenge...

Anything hairy, is meant to be speared, killed, and eaten.

Tell her to shave that shit.

...or spear her. What ever.

10 minutes doesn't seem very long compared to my experiences. I mean, I would go by her reaction to tell when she orgasms, then you cuddle/kiss/whatever for a little bit...then rinse and repeat. Complaints of soreness only happen sometimes, and usually the next day.

Your erection problem, as others have said, is just due to being nervous. You have to get it in your mind that you are in control when it comes to these intimacy thingies.

Silly Steven you were nervous

You know, i think for your sake it is better that you didnt.

I know ive been in that situation before and HAVE gotten one, well, every single damn time and you get a huge (in some cases ) urge you need to satisfy which means you may take your mind off of JUST being there to please the girl youre with.

Try to relax a little perhaps, dont put so much thought into it. Youre just normal

Yeah, thanks guys. I asked her if she had ever done that to herself, she said no, which was suprising, because she's a dirty little perv. at times.

But yeah thanks for the confidence and info

Next time will be better.

edit: We thought someone was coming down the hall (her whole family was home, in the living room watching a movie) so I pulled my hand out and we did cuddle/kiss for a couple minutes before it was back to work.

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She lies. She probably masturbated before she saw you that day

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

Shut up RedWasp.. its Steve we tell to shut up... not steven.

No, it's Steven that I tell to shut up. I have my reasons.



[This message has been edited by RedWasp (edited 11-05-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by -Mephisto-:

You have what we in the medical proffesion call "the gay". Either go join one of those christian 'gay2straight' things or start fucking man anus.

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Oh, you're a cruel Mo-Fo, but I'm still laughing to near incontinence! The tears are welling in my eyes!

On a serious note though, the next time you "finger" a vagina, forget about the "in and out" action and once she's wet, go right for her clit (not too hard) &/or use your index or middle finger to rub(massage) her G-spot. The idea is to help her to cum!!! Don't worry about 'your' genitalia; it will cum in due time...

am I the only person who found what mephisto said to be fucking hilarious? damn I nearly shit myself

don't jack off for a month and I'm sure you'll have an explosive boner