We're going to make a really long story short here:

Met girl in 6th grade. Had crush on her through 9th grade. We were best friends from 6th through 10th grade. 10th grade = big fight. Didn't talk again until Senior year (this year). She didn't like me for 5 years. We always loved each other because we were extremely close for a long time.

We became physically active with each other this year. Started as just making out.. but within a few weeks we were getting really close to having sex every time we were together.



Alright... shift to present.

When I finger her, she'll orgasm in less than a minute. The second I'm up there her head will thrust backwards, she'll start breathing heavily and moaning. A+. Wahoo. She always asks me how the hell I know exactly how to touch her. Beats me, honestly. Maybe my fingers are just the right length.

Last night, though we began to have sex. And to be honest... I wasn't even aware that I was inside of her... at least not consciously for the first 30 seconds or so. She had nonchalantly taken my penis and slipped it in.

It was only my second time having had sex with someone and the first time I was drunk and the whole whiskey dick effect made the experience... boring... to say the least.

Anyway, it was strange because I had the feeling I was inside of her.. it just wasn't something I could comprehend immediately. It was somewhat shocking. Anyway, here's the deal. I was inside of her and I wasn't moving very much because I hadn't fully come to terms that we were having sex yet... lame, yes... whatever.

And we stopped about 10 seconds after I started moving because she started freaking out about condoms and stuff.

Anyway... my concern was that during those ten seconds that I was moving she wasn't responding the same way she does when I finger her. I'm guessing that part of the problem was just the fact that I wasn't really doing much of anything... but should she be moaning and shit when I'm inside of her even if I'm not moving? Or am I just sexually inefficient and suck at life?

no movement = limited pleasure.

she probably won't come as quickly from intercourse, but trust me...it is much more intense and pleasurable than getting fingered.

just be sure that the next time you have sex you

a) know when you are inside of her

and

b) thrust.

thank you.