you all know the story, 2 best friends realize they have feelings for one another, start fooling around and things get complicated.

at first it was just like we were a couple, and things were great. then seemingly from nowhere, at random times she wouldn't let me kiss her, but other times she would.

she says she cares about me, more than anyone else in fact and that she doesn't want me to give up because she has feelings for me but there are so many problems.

1. she never calls me, it is always me initiating conversations and making plans

2. she had some bullshit obligations last night and told me she would definitly call me afterwards, so i waited around and wasted my friday night waiting for her to call and she never did. this has happened a few other times as well.

i talked to her today and told her it feels like she does't give a fuck about me. either she sucks at conveying emotion or she doesn't really care that much but she tried to convince me that i over reacted.

now, this is hands down the girl of my dreams. she is fucking perfect in my mind. i have no desire to even flirt with other girls since i've realized i had a chance with her. what the fuck should i do? she's got me lost.

how old are you both? and how long has this been going on for?

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

how old are you both? and how long has this been going on for?

i'm weeks away from 18, and she is 18.

she broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years about a month and a half ago and we pretty much started fooling around directly after that.

she probably does care about you....but she just got out of a 3 year relationship and is only 18. unless she is the dependent type, i doubt she is looking for a super serious relationship right now. just sit her down and talk to her about it. don't be suprised if she says she would like an open relationship or maybe even friends with benefits. don't try to pressure her, that will just make her flee. try to understand that she has spent 1/6 of her life with one man already, and she might need to be single...or singlish...for a while.