When I read about people that make out for hours with someone, I often think "How the fuck...?". When I'm kissing a girl, even if it's heavy kissing, I don't really get any pleasure from it. I mean, I'm happy because I'm getting some action, but the act itself doesn't do anything for me. After 10 minutes or so, I either have to move on and walk away. After kissing I go for petting. I get bored of that. I then go for oral, and that's about as far as I've gotten.

Basically, does anyone else here not enjoy kissing, or am I abnormal? Does anyone here simply use it as a prescursor to other stuff?

PS - It's not that I'm doing it wrong. Multiple girls have said I'm a very good kisser.

Kissing is, for me, another system of control over a woman if done well.

And control is hot.

I love kissing, nothing bad about it. Its as far as I have gotten, but i'm not ashamed by it i'm proud of it and i'm glad its with such a person as wonderful as she is :P

I love kissing, it's better than sex, because it leads to sex. It's only one connection though, I need to have my cock in her after a while.

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

I love kissing, nothing bad about it. Its as far as I have gotten, but i'm not ashamed by it i'm proud of it and i'm glad its with such a person as wonderful as she is :P

*Looks around* Who the hell are you justifying yourself to?

Maybe if you practiced kissing a bit more, you would get past the whole "oral" stage.

A nice sexy kiss makes me wet.. so I don't agree with you on that one.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

*Looks around* Who the hell are you justifying yourself to?

Actually, probably to myself....*dot dot dot*

I LOVE kissing. I've done it for hours on end without sex, and it's amazing if the girl is good too and you really like each other.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Kissing is, for me, another system of control over a woman if done well.

And control is hot.

You can say that again.

There's no better power-kick than leaving a girl breathless.

-deus-

Maybe you suck at kissing? Or you're kissing people that suck at kissing?



Or both

Ok, I have made out with dozens of different girls, and the only times it was good, was when I was actually into the girl.

It has NOTHING to do with technique. I don't think it's even the act itself that's good. For me at least, it's just the fact that I'm being intimate with a girl I like. I like cuddling about as much as kissing because it pretty much has the same effect.

So basically, kissing is pointless except as a precursor to sex (IMO).

quote:Originally posted by I-RapeTards:

PS - It's not that I'm doing it wrong. Multiple girls have said I'm a very good kisser.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

Maybe you suck at kissing?

Not that there isn't a possibility that all the girls who told him he's good were lying... but chances are, he just straight up doesn't like it. I'm assuming that he's maybe somewhat similar to myself in his opinion on kissing.

I know for a fact that I'm doing nothing wrong. I have plenty of practice. Plus, it's not like I'm not open to criticism, so my technique has improved dramatically over the years.

Also, having kissed so many girls, it definitely can't be because I've been kissing bad kissers. It is, statistically speaking, HIGHLY improbable that I have only been kissing shitty kissers.

(Then again, I'm speaking for my self and can't entirely speak for the OP.)

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

A nice sexy kiss makes me hard.. so I don't agree with you on that one.

What I gather from most of you is that kissing isn't so much physically pleasurable as it is mentally. Having the inside of my mouth rubbed with the inside of another persons mouth doesn't stimulate me at all, in comparison to having my penis rubbed.

It could very well be that I've never kissed anyone I've actually liked. It's always just been girls that I find good-looking and that's it. I can understand how the psychological aspect of being intimate with someone you truly love could be a good feeling. Until it actually happens to me, I doubt I'll understand it.

BTW Kate: way to be a moron.

Well its mostly the sexual "feeling" people get when they kiss. Kssing doesnt exactly pleasurable for everyone, though women do get aroused from the feeling.

quote:Originally posted by deus-redux:

You can say that again.

There's no better power-kick than leaving a girl breathless.

-deus-

OFT

I was with kissing my girl once, and when I started necking her she shuddered and the tiniest of moans escaped.

About 20 minutes later she said we needed to slow down; I think she was afraid of going to far with me. Never did get much farther, either..

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

A nice sexy kiss makes me wet.. so I don't agree with you on that one.

QFT

hm....kissing is good during sex. well, only in positions where you're looking at their face. i start to get awkward, and lean in for it just so i have something to do with my upper body. and yea, it brings you more together somehow, penetrating with your dick and your tongue...

....and right before you drift to sleep, its nice to b e close to someones face and have them kissing you gently.

and the first kiss, when you finally get with that person you've been waiting for. learning new contours of a face/mouth.

but yea i totally understand, theres no point to the long uninterrupted tounge stuffed down throat for hours kissing.

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

I love kissing, nothing bad about it. Its as far as I have gotten, but i'm not ashamed by it i'm proud of it and i'm glad its with such a person as wonderful as she is :P

I'm sure the relationship is going to last forever, faggot.

I only ever kiss girls I like, I have had sex without kissing a few times cos sometimes its just yuck, I know exactly what you mean but kiss my girlfriend all the time cos I like her, I think its a bit psychopathic to be not into it whatsoever

Kissing for hours? Do people actually do that?

It must get really boring. I probably couldn't be bothered kissing for more than a few minutes, and like if it was just before sexy time, or when you wake up or something.