Don't get me wrong. I am a guy and I love busting a nut in a nice wet pussy. But, it seems like female orgasms last much longer and are more intense than male orgasms. Do girls really feel it more? Girl's seem to moan a lot more during sex to and it's much harder for them to cum than it is for guys. I don't know what do you guys think?

Yeah I've often wondered this myself. It's something that we will never be able to know though. It's like comparing levels of pain between different people. We can't measure one person's threshold of pain against another's, just like we can't measure level of enjoyment from an activity for one person against that of another.

From my limited knowledge in prenatal genital development, the same pack of nerves you've got on the top of your penis spreads out from a clitoral starting point. That bunch of nerves either spreads out to become the head of your phallus, or stays concentrated to be the female pleasure center.

Pleasure will just be more intense in one area for women, and spread out for men. The number of nerves in that locale is mainly genetics.

I hope that helps you answer your question.

quote:Originally posted by RedWasp:

From my limited knowledge in prenatal genital development, the same pack of nerves you've got on the top of your penis spreads out from a clitoral starting point. That bunch of nerves either spreads out to become the head of your phallus, or stays concentrated to be the female pleasure center.

Pleasure will just be more intense in one area for women, and spread out for men. The number of nerves in that locale is mainly genetics.

I hope that helps you answer your question.

Doesn't answer jack shit. It also depends on the mood. Think of rape victims, they don't seem to be having much fun, no matter how many nerves are being stimulated.

The sappy answer is that a "couple" enjoys sex more than a man and woman seperately combined.

This brings to mind the story of Tiresias; who having lived half his life as a woman and half as a man, was asked by Zeus and Hera to resolve a dispute on who enjoyed sex the most.

He claimed the women enjoyed sex nine times to men’s one. And to Rykoshet there have been reports on women having orgasms during rape.

I enjoy the power aspect of sex. Domination through reducing their mind to squeeks and thrusts of primal pleasure. That gets me off well, better than the actual orgasm.

quote:Originally posted by RedWasp:

From my limited knowledge in prenatal genital development, the same pack of nerves you've got on the top of your penis spreads out from a clitoral starting point. That bunch of nerves either spreads out to become the head of your phallus, or stays concentrated to be the female pleasure center.

Pleasure will just be more intense in one area for women, and spread out for men. The number of nerves in that locale is mainly genetics.

I hope that helps you answer your question.



If a man is circumcised do they lose some of those nerve ending, making it less pleasurable for men than for women then?

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



I enjoy the power aspect of sex. Domination through reducing their mind to squeeks and thrusts of primal pleasure. That gets me off well, better than the actual orgasm.



Now that's a form of domination I think I could get into.

when u fuck da girl, they feel dat shit inside of em and it gives em pleasure, but guys only get pleasure when the bust. Girls get pleasured from biggining to end.

quote:Originally posted by orangebudge:

but guys only get pleasure when the bust. Girls get pleasured from biggining to end.It doesn't feel good for you before you cum? Or have you just never had sex?

In my (limited) experience, it seems like the girls enjoy it more. I have...issues though.

They also have four times as many nerve endings in their clit alone as we do in our entire penis... I think that pretty much settles it.

We've had this discussion before and I forget what we concluded.

If only me and my girlfriend could trade places for a day to see how sex would be like for the opposite sex. Kind of like that movie Freaky Friday.

quote:Originally posted by orangebudge:

when u fuck da girl, they feel dat shit inside of em and it gives em pleasure, but guys only get pleasure when the bust. Girls get pleasured from biggining to end.

You're such a goddamn nigger.

women,

they have a organ solely dedicated to sexual stimulation, that's 2x more sensitive than a dick helmet.

edit: obviously i'm talking about the clit.

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The woman does.

Why?

'Cause I make sure she does.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

The woman does.

Why?

'Cause I make sure she does.

I like that answer .

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

The woman does.

Why?

'Cause I make sure she does.



Prove it. I want evidence and affidavits.

I've gotta say.... I don't think it has that much to do with the number of nerve endings... I'm pretty sure men enjoy sex more because they orgasm everytime.... wheras most girls orgasm from sex like every now and then.... or sometimes never.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Prove it. I want evidence and affidavits.



That's a very Grandmotherly demand.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

That's a very Grandmotherly demand.

Trying to skirt the issue, are ya?

[make that a long skirt too...]

In my expiriance, I think guys are just more selfconsious and don't really feel comfortable letting out their moans and hollers. I personally love loud and noisey sex, and have a decently long orgasim... 30-40 seconds... Just let yourself go and don't worry about being loud, just let whatever wants to come out, come out, and I'm sure you'll have a much different expiriance.

^ Absolutely. It is best to fully let go during sex, being relaxed makes it so much better. This is where alcohol makes it easier...

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

The woman does.

Why?

'Cause I make sure she does.

thats exactly my philosophy. The more she enjoys it, the more satisfied I am.

quote:Originally posted by Shadowhunter_36:

thats exactly my philosophy. The more she enjoys it, the more satisfied I am.





Thats my philosophy too. But I suck at it :\

In 10 months of sex, I got my girl off -once-. I try so hard...I try everything. And it just doesnt happen. She doesnt masturbate, or direct me in any way. :\

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



If a man is circumcised do they lose some of those nerve ending, making it less pleasurable for men than for women then?

Yes. Or rather, they don't LOSE any; the ones remaining just become less sensitive. For instance, I am uncircumsized and cannot directly touch my glans without hurting it unless it and whatever's touching it is very well lubed; circumsized men can apparently stand having their glans rubbing against their pants.

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Some women love sex, some women hate sex. Some men love sex, some men hate sex. I don't think that you can say one gender inherantly likes sex more than the other. We're all animals in the end.

Although there are I think cultural aspects that can contribute to how much an overall population enjoys sex. Things such as religious shame, strongly defined and limiting gender roles, self esteem issues relating to attractiveness, skill, ect.

It seems that traditionally women have faced the majority of shame surrounding sex and their bodies, and this has cumulated itself I believe in lowered enjoyment of the act itself. Even nowadays there's a high level of insecurity, and so in the end perhaps we can't enjoy sex as much.

I'd be interested in what anybody else has to think regarding what I wrote. I'm sorry I'm not a very good writer.

quote:Originally posted by Enset:

wheras most girls orgasm from sex like every now and then.... or sometimes never.

You must be really bad in bed.

Usually, I get a 1:3 ratio. So, 'ever now and again' actually means every minute for a few minutes. Then I bust.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Trying to skirt the issue, are ya?

[make that a long skirt too...]



I talked to an ex earlier tonight, just for you.

"I got a request for a sexual resume earlier today. What can you give me?"

She replyed, "Do you have any plans later?", in a teasing way.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

You must be really bad in bed.

Usually, I get a 1:3 ratio. So, 'ever now and again' actually means every minute for a few minutes. Then I bust.

I'm a girl.

If girls enjoy sex more how come they're never as eager to have it?

...because when they do have it, it's more fulfilling?

Thats bullshit anyway. Everyone's different... I know girls who are a lot hornier than the majority of my male peers.

I guess

I was thinking stereotypically

quote:Originally posted by chubbyman25:

Originally posted by orangebudge:

but guys only get pleasure when the bust. Girls get pleasured from biggining to end.It doesn't feel good for you before you cum? Or have you just never had sex?

In my (limited) experience, it seems like the girls enjoy it more. I have...issues though.



i tihnk he meant its better for them overall

Why do women fake orgasms???



Becuase they think we care!!

quote:Originally posted by Enset:

I'm a girl.



pwned, arquin!

quote:Originally posted by Glintor321:

Why do women fake orgasms???



Becuase they think we care!!

I disagree. I think it is a continuation of women being self-conscious. They feel it must happen, you and her expecting it, but inside of letting it happen, it's forced from guilt.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

pwned, arquin!

Not really, the fact that she's a girl doesn't change his "ratio". If anyone's "pwned" here it's Ensets boyfriend.

quote:Originally posted by PieGirl:

If girls enjoy sex more how come they're never as eager to have it?

Cultural conditioning. Guys dont have to worry about being called sluts for being open about their sexuality, whereas girls have that on top of remnants of church crap. I think the people that enjoy sex the most are women who are open about their sexuality.

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I would have to say my girl gets more out of sex then I do. I only say this because her orgasm lasts much longer then mine (only because I keep it going). So in a sense, I cause her to have more enjoyment out of sex, since I (as many other men) can keep going without letting my sea monkey's escape.