Now I know a few of you on totse have to be somewhat successful with the ladies. I myself have had very little girl action in my life because I used to be fat, but im glad to say before I started my senior year in highschool I lost about 45 pounds, and am feeling pretty good. But anyway, I could really use some flirting tips/advice because recently ive been getting some more attention from the ladies and one in particular who is in one of my classes.

thanks

Tips on flirting? Can't give. It's spontaneity. And it depends on you as well, e.g. I have friends who prat about playfighting etc., but that doesn't really work for me... You need to find your own style!

I find talking to them works. They will think you are awesome if you let them do all the talking and every now and then just agree with them.

Where to begin...

Ok, the most important thing is body language.

You're going to want to project confidance and relaxation. It's not too hard. Just keep your shoulders back, torso facing towards the person you're flirting with. Smile and make eye contact, but do NOT stare at her. It will freak her out. Never cross your arms or fidget about either; that will make you appear nervous and uninviting. In general just try to appear relaxed, at ease, confidant, and most importantly, make it seems as though she is the center of your attention. Don't be staring at your shoes or looking at the area around you.

As far as actual flirting goes, you want girls to associate you with a positive experience. You need ask her interesting questions about herself, but don't be nosy. Give the impression that you are interested in what she has to say, but don't interrupt her until she's done talking. Just keep the atmosphere light and fun. BUT you don't want to fall into the category of 'nice-but-I-wonldn't-date-him.' Don't be sexual or crude, but do make sure she knows you find her attractive. Be playful, and try to make casual contact such as touching a non-sexual body part like a leg or back.

Most importantly, don't give the conversation a chance to lull. When you think things are going good say something like "it was really nice meeting you but I've got to be going. I'd like to continue this conversation, can I have your number?"

Good luck!

[This message has been edited by Silverfuck (edited 11-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:

Now I know a few of you on totse have to be somewhat successful with the ladies. I myself have had very little girl action in my life because I used to be fat, but im glad to say before I started my senior year in highschool I lost about 45 pounds, and am feeling pretty good. But anyway, I could really use some flirting tips/advice because recently ive been getting some more attention from the ladies and one in particular who is in one of my classes.

thanks



You could start with NOT telling said females about your internet handle being "IcePickGagReflex". Past that, I think you're fine.

Here's the secret: Just talk to the girl like she already has a boyfriend and you know you have no chance with her.

Not only is this probably the case already, but you will feel a lot more realxed around her.

[This message has been edited by smallpox champion (edited 11-03-2006).]

Maybe start by not putting pussy on a pedestal. There just people. Talk to them. Joke around. Share a smoke. Ask for their number. Doesn't really matter how you ask for it, their either going to give it to you or there not.