Ok so im pretty sure my gf is lying to me. One of her freinds recently told me she had sex with a dude a while back for coke (before we were together). I asked her about it but she denied it. I trust her freind more than i trust her and im bascialy 100% sure she is lying. When i confronted her again she got really pissed and shit. How can i get her to admit lying to me about it?

You're an idiot. And obviously going out with the wrong girl.

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

I trust her freind more than i trust her

It doesnt matter if she did or didnt, it's time to break up.

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

Ok so im pretty sure my gf is lying to me. One of her freinds recently told me she had sex with a dude a while back for coke (before we were together). I asked her about it but she denied it. I trust her freind more than i trust her and im bascialy 100% sure she is lying. When i confronted her again she got really pissed and shit. How can i get her to admit lying to me about it?

Her past shouldn't matter to you.

It's disturbing that you trust her friend more than her.

Do you even want to be with this girl at all?

Oh yay! Everyone agrees with me.

*bitch slaps SublimeNirvana for no apparant reason*

Maybe you should date her friend instead considering the apparent lack of trust between you 2?

She isn't going to admit to anything you dumbshit. Just get it over with, there's no point in being with a girl you don't trust.

Everything has been said.

Ive never understood people getting freaked out because of their partner's past...

You fucking moron. You trust her friend more than you trust her? Well then, you're not going anywhere.

Break up with her becuase your paranoid, man.

knock her front teeth out and start calling her "whistler"

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quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

knock her front teeth out and start calling her "whistler"

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quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

knock her front teeth out and start calling her "whistler"

post vids

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

knock her front teeth out and start calling her "whistler"

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kill her

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Her past shouldn't matter to you.

It's disturbing that you trust her friend more than her.

Do you even want to be with this girl at all?



Lol. No, what is disturbing is that he is dating some slut who fucks people for coke.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Her past shouldn't matter to you.

It's disturbing that you trust her friend more than her.

Do you even want to be with this girl at all?

I really dont care about her past. I care that she's lying about it. I trust her freind more than her because her freind has told me things about her that are true and when i asked her she lied about it for a while then finaly confessed. I really really want to be with this girl but i cant deal with this lying shit. Im going to talk to her again in about an hour and i might break up with her then.

*slaps forehead*

I can't deal with this. You're a fucking immature shit.

I'm sorry! My temper is really on a short string.

Seriously, fucking, just, fucking stab a punching bag for me. God fucking damn it.

I had a very short-lived, confusing relationship with a girl... it lasted less than a fortnight, but when we split-up we became good friends.

She wasn't exactly Mary Poppins, but that had never bothered me... we werent exactly soul mates anyway. A few months after we broke up, she got together with some guy. Just over a year later, they're apparently very much in love. Any time I saw them they were all over each other, they looked so happy... it was kinda sweet.

One night she rang me, crying... I told her to come over to my house and we had a chat. Turns out the love of her life had found out about something she did when she was 14 and dumped her... and it wasn't a DVDA Beastiality video or anything extreme like that.

If you're prepared to change the way you feel about someone because of something insignificant that happened years ago, there's something wrong with you...

I'm number 38?!

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

I'm number 38?!

Congratulations! You now have a disease!

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

If you're prepared to change the way you feel about someone because of something insignificant that happened years ago, there's something wrong with you...

*nods with a smile*

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

If you're prepared to change the way you feel about someone because of something insignificant that happened years ago, there's something wrong with you...

I'm number 38?!



Like i said I really dont care about her past. I just don't want her to lie about it. I think i deserve more than that.

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:



Like i said I really dont care about her past. I just don't want her to lie about it. I think i deserve more than that.

She doesn't want to talk about her past and is probably embarrassed by it. Don't bring this kind of shit up with her. If she's disease free and you like her personality then don't give a shit about where she's been or what she's done. That's a hard lesson to learn.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

She doesn't want to talk about her past and is probably embarrassed by it. Don't bring this kind of shit up with her. If she's disease free and you like her personality then don't give a shit about where she's been or what she's done. That's a hard lesson to learn.

Ok i didn't bring it up. Some shit happened and the topic was brought up by someone else and she lied to my face about it. I'm not the judgemental type and she knows it. I can understand that she might be embarassed about it but she shouldn't fucking lie to me.

and right now im currently waiting to talk to her and her friend together even tho they inevitably have already talked about it and either a.)she will admit it. or b.) she won't. or c.)her freind will lie to cover for her. or d.) Her freind was lying to begin with (not very likely but i would feel like the biggest ass in the world).

I think if its anything besides a or d it will probably be over which really sucks for me because there arent too many girls that are the right amount of crazy for me and she pretty much hit it spot on.

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

Ok i didn't bring it up. Some shit happened and the topic was brought up by someone else and she lied to my face about it. I'm not the judgemental type and she knows it. I can understand that she might be embarassed about it but she shouldn't fucking lie to me.

and right now im currently waiting to talk to her and her friend together even tho they inevitably have already talked about it and either a.)she will admit it. or b.) she won't. or c.)her freind will lie to cover for her. or d.) Her freind was lying to begin with (not very likely but i would feel like the biggest ass in the world).

I think if its anything besides a or d it will probably be over which really sucks for me because there arent too many girls that are the right amount of crazy for me and she pretty much hit it spot on.

Will you read what you posted? Grow up. Drop the whole issue, because it's petty and stupid. You're going to throw away a person you care about because they didn't want to admit to shit in front of other people. You're a fucking moron. Would you admit to that kind of shit in front of other people? No. You wouldn't. I would lie about shit like that too. Just drop it, because it doesn't concern you. It's her past, and if she wants to lie about it then whatever. Talk to her and ask her to be truthful to you about her present. THAT is what matters.

^ Funny how honesty means something to some people. I cant for the life of me figure out why he's pissed off. It couldn't be because relationships are supposed to be based on honesty could it?

/sarcasm.

I don't know if id dump her over it, but she should definitely know that lying is a no go.

i find it's a shite sight easier to just not delve into the past. Everyone's got some skeletons in the closet, and frankly your just going to hurt yourself finding out what all of hers are.

Christ, I hope my next girlfriend doesn't delve into my past. I've done things, and had things done to me, I'm not particularly proud of at all man.

[This message has been edited by Garfunkel (edited 11-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

^ Funny how honesty means something to some people. I cant for the life of me figure out why he's pissed off. It couldn't be because relationships are supposed to be based on honesty could it?

/sarcasm.

I don't know if id dump her over it, but she should definitely know that lying is a no go.

The issue isn't honesty. This info isn't any of his business, so he has no right to it. That's my point.

Ask her if she'll do buttsecks for coke.

what does it matter if shes lying if you know that she is, she fucked a guy for coke, dump her

Who cares, I'm sure you have things that you're not proud of you've done that you might not want her to know about. IF she did it and thats a big IF, she might think you would look down on her for it even if you wouldn't. Shit like that will make her want to keep lying to you so just drop it and if shes ready she'll tell you about it.

I think she should dump her friend because obviously that is not her friend, i mean if your friend would go about telling your personal business or things that may not even be true, you'd get rid of them.

you should break up with theat girl because you don't trust her.

Some girls will sabotage other people's relationships because they don't have one (read: jealousy), take this in consideration also.

if you're always going to listen to someone's friend, take up a steady relationship with your hand as you obviously have a problem trusting the person you are with or you're too worried what people think.

a partner's past shouldn't be held against them, there's nothing they can change about the past.

I'm sure you've made mistakes in your past too and i bet she's not trying for you to admit to them like you are with her.

/ramble

OK so i made a huge mistake. I trusted my freind instead of my girlfreind and my "freind" turned out to have been lying pretty much completely. Unfortunatly i didnt find that out until after i had broken up with my gf. I called her after i found out and we kinda made up but she's still a bit pissed at me.

So moral of the story..... Dont trust stupid hoes (girlfreind's freind)

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[This message has been edited by SublimeNirvana (edited 11-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

OK so i made a huge mistake. I trusted my freind instead of my girlfreind and my "freind" turned out to have been lying pretty much completely. Unfortunatly i didnt find that out until after i had broken up with my gf. I called her after i found out and we kinda made up but she's still a bit pissed at me.

So moral of the story..... Dont trust stupid hoes (girlfreind's freind)

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no fucking duh.

also, learn how to spell FRIEND. I BEFORE E.

quote:Originally posted by Garfunkel:

learn how to spell FRIEND. I BEFORE E.

friENDs to the END.

At least you learned a lesson from all of this.

[This message has been edited by emogan (edited 11-03-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

The issue isn't honesty. This info isn't any of his business, so he has no right to it. That's my point.

How in the fuck did he have no right to the info? He was TOLD BY SOMEBODY, its not like he was asking for that info. Its not about him looking into her past, its about the fact that she's fucking lying about it.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

How in the fuck did he have no right to the info? He was TOLD BY SOMEBODY, its not like he was asking for that info. Its not about him looking into her past, its about the fact that she's fucking lying about it.

Oh wait, except he just said her friend was telling lies about her. Oops?

quote:Originally posted by freakangel:

Some girls will sabotage other people's relationships because they don't have one (read: jealousy

*rolls eyes*

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Oh wait, except he just said her friend was telling lies about her. Oops?

Go read it again fucktard. It says there is THE POSSIBILITY, but that he doubts it. Christ, actually read whats on your screen in front of you before you patronize me.

although I agree you shouldn't focus too much on your partners past-- I can see why it upset you.. I mean if she did whore herself for blow that's some dirty shit.. I don't think I could take a chick seriously knowing she has fucked guys for coke. that's low as hell.. with that being said you handled the situation VERY poorly.

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

OK so i made a huge mistake. I trusted my freind instead of my girlfreind and my "freind" turned out to have been lying pretty much completely. Unfortunatly i didnt find that out until after i had broken up with my gf. I called her after i found out and we kinda made up but she's still a bit pissed at me.

So moral of the story..... Dont trust stupid hoes (girlfreind's freind)

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Who needs to read, hippiehunter?

quote:Originally posted by Garfunkel:

Christ, I hope my next girlfriend doesn't delve into my past. I've done things, and had things done to me, I'm not particularly proud of at all man.

I can agree on that.

I'm willing to turn a blind eye in the future providing they give me the same courtesy.

I have some reaaal bad skeletons.

What about you dude, name one? I'm curious!

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

knock her front teeth out and start calling her "whistler"

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quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Who needs to read, hippiehunter?

Awww fuck. You win. Must have missed that one somewhere. Its not my fault damnit!

*curses and walks away*

And after a review, that was changed from what it originally said.

PWNED!

That is all...

quote:Originally posted by SublimeNirvana:

OK so i made a huge mistake. I trusted my freind instead of my girlfreind and my "freind" turned out to have been lying pretty much completely. Unfortunatly i didnt find that out until after i had broken up with my gf. I called her after i found out and we kinda made up but she's still a bit pissed at me.

So moral of the story..... Dont trust stupid hoes (girlfreind's freind)

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No fucking shit you fucking moron.