So this is a girl that I've gone out with before. We are both 16. about a month ago we started talking again and she said she owed me a dance (I got dumped at the school dance) and we have just been generally talking to each other about everything. well i saved an MSN conversation...

Me says:

I'm gonna go do something see you later!

the girl says:

bubi

the girl says:

i'll miss u

the girl says:

sexy smile

the girl says:

lol jk jk jk

Me says:

Hmm the outside world was boring I'm back and thank you for the comment

the girl says:

hah i like that "the outside world was boring"

Me says:

ughh I can't eat any more candy i've only had like pieces\

Me says:

5

the girl says:

i like candy.. give me your candy

the girl says:

I'll eat it

Me says:

okay to the candy

the girl says:

ok

Me says:

What kind of candy do you like

the girl says:

i like all candies..

the girl says:

lol

Me says:

Okay then maybe I shall bring some tomorrow

the girl says:

that would be good

Me says:

Have you gotten a new text book yet your last one is fucking trashed

the girl says:

i know a whole bunch of people are asking me if we're going out hey.. and yes i got one yesterday

the girl says:

awe shit.. i have physio before school tomorrow

Me says:

A whole bunch? like who? and ouch that must suck what time?

the girl says:

i have it at &;30

the girl says:

*7:30

the girl says:

and like "Other girls name".. and "Another girl" .. and i know a few more but i can't remember who

Me says:

wow so like 5 people

the girl says:

ya something like that

the girl says:

i was like.. um.. no we're friends but that's about it

Me says:

wow that's weird

the girl says:

i agree

Me says:

when we go out no one notices when we don't everyone notices

the girl says:

k well i'm gunna go get some supperi'll cya tomorrow

the girl says:

i agree

the girl says:

it's weird

Me says:

bye bye

Well she has mentioned a bunch of people asking her if we were going out before and I want to know if you think she

1. Likes me

2.or how can I find out by asking her just not directly?

Well, do you like her? Or are you just trying to find out if she likes you.

It seems she likes you, but she isn't going to outright and tell you.

You have to ask her out or something.

When she said: quote:the girl says:

ya something like that

the girl says:

i was like.. um.. no we're friends but that's about it

Me says:

wow that's weird



You shoulda been like, did you want to be more?



When she gives you an opportunity, use it, and see what her response is.

Extra information: I posted this in another topic asking about it but nothing came around about it.

Old post:

Okay so i have been talking to my Ex-Girlfriend alot in the past 2 months and we are now very friendly and well it seems she has been flirting with me but I'm not sure so I don't want to send back mixed messages. Well here are some examples that have been given to me:

1.She said she owed me a dance because we broke up at the last dance and wanted to dance with me to make it up to me.

2.She asked if she could dress me up for the dance i said yes (i had no costume dance is tomorrow) so apparently she had a bunny costume (just ears). I said "Maybe i can meet a girl there" she said "You never know" and winked at me.

3.She asked me what i would do if she asked me out I responded that I would have to think because we had some problems last time and she seemed to not want to talk to me for the rest of the week (this was about a month ago)

and just some other things like that.

So totse is this girl hitting on me?

Dude if you can't tell she likes you, you must be retarded or fifteen.

She's blatantly flirting with you. Blatantly. Give her your candy? Mate, give her your god damn candy.

You're god damned retarded. She wants whats in your pants and wants it to be in her pants. So give her what she wants.

If she's an ex, then she's probably an ex for a reason.

Unless you ended it like a jackass.

Yeah I suspected that she liked me but I don't really find myself massively physically attractive (however I'm however I'm defiantly don't find myself ugly so yeah i never really know if someone likes me or not.

EDIT:When we broke up it was more like a "we never see each other really anymore" and it was mutual.

[This message has been edited by TopherBrown24 (edited 11-02-2006).]