I met this girl a few weeks ago and she invited me to this party she was having. We talked for a while then she asked me for my msn addy I gave it to her. This week she added me and started talking... Then she asked me if I could order her something(I have a credit card lol dont ask how I got it) and she said she would pay me back. I asked what she needed and she said a couple things then she mentioned a dildo. She was being serious :O

Today, when I got home her friend messaged me on msn asking if I wanted to hang out with her and her friend, I said yes then 3 minutes later she said oh wait I dont know if I will be there I guess it will just be you and alyse.

The reason I didn't ask her out because I keep on thinking that I'm going to get rejected, shes so hot and she shares the same intrests as me it seems to good to be true. I mean she seems like my dream girl, Shes into computer stuff like proramming and hacking and she plays games and to top it off she smokes weed huge plus for me

How do I get over this... I keep thinking she would never want me...

You should try asking

"Do you want me?"

problem solved and from the picture you painted it looks like she does.

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

I met this girl a few weeks ago and she invited me to this party she was having. We talked for a while then she asked me for my msn addy I gave it to her. This week she added me and started talking... Then she asked me if I could order her something(I have a credit card lol dont ask how I got it) and she said she would pay me back. I asked what she needed and she said a couple things then she mentioned a dildo. She was being serious :O

Today, when I got home her friend messaged me on msn asking if I wanted to hang out with her and her friend, I said yes then 3 minutes later she said oh wait I dont know if I will be there I guess it will just be you and alyse.

The reason I didn't ask her out because I keep on thinking that I'm going to get rejected, shes so hot and she shares the same intrests as me it seems to good to be true. I mean she seems like my dream girl, Shes into computer stuff like proramming and hacking and she plays games and to top it off she smokes weed huge plus for me

How do I get over this... I keep thinking she would never want me...

Sounds good to me...

She wants you. Very, very badly.

get some self respect man

She probably thinks you're too good for her.

Its fucking pathetic that smoking weed earns somebody bonus points in you book, especially when you are looking at them as a possible relationship.

And what do you want from us? And e-ego boost so you think you might have a chance with this chick? If she's way out of your league then you should probably expect rejection.

I'm no expert on this, but she asked you to buy a dildo... I think that's a bit more personal than other purchases. She's definitely into you, man.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

She probably thinks you're too good for her.

Perhaps. OP, just ask her out. See what happens. You'll either be dead or married in 40 years, so you have nothing to lose.

quote:Originally posted by akiratheoni:

I'm no expert on this, but she asked you to buy a dildo... I think that's a bit more personal than other purchases. She's definitely into you, man.

I hope she is :> I dont want to get rejected I hate that feeling.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Perhaps. OP, just ask her out. See what happens. You'll either be dead or married in 40 years, so you have nothing to lose.

OK Im gona have a drink or 2 before I ask her out... I need something... every time I try to ask a girl out no matter my brain just freezes and I cant think of anything to say.

I dont even know if I should ask her out she's a year older then me. Bah my other relation ships started out when the girl made a move on me, and yea I've only been in 2 so yea pretty pathetic.

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

OK Im gona have a drink or 2 before I ask her out... I need something... every time I try to ask a girl out no matter my brain just freezes and I cant think of anything to say.

I dont even know if I should ask her out she's a year older then me. Bah my other relation ships started out when the girl made a move on me, and yea I've only been in 2 so yea pretty pathetic.

Quit being a loser and just ask her out. Grow some balls. What happens if she says no? Oh darn, you find another girl. If you dont ask her out you'll regret it far more. Believe me.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Its fucking pathetic that smoking weed earns somebody bonus points in you book, especially when you are looking at them as a possible relationship.

He probably smokes himself and it really is a plus side to know she won't mind the habit but even shares the interest

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

He probably smokes himself and it really is a plus side to know she won't mind the habit but even shares the interest

Yea, my last GF didnt allow it

I stand by my earlier statement. Pathetic.

lol well it seems like she wants to get with u. Juss dont be a wuss, and do what u do, and unfortunately later on ask her out.

it sounds like she already asked you out, essentially. i mean she arranged to see you without anyone else there, albeit manipulatively. so just see her as planned and see if she initiates anything else. if not then go ahead and suggest something.

She probably is too good for you. Women tend to be - that's why the man pursues the woman more often, and why he pays for shit.

It may suck, but it's reality that the man often wants the woman more than the woman wants the man.

Cheers,

Lost

You manipulated a girl into smoking pot that chose to abstain.

I have a low opinion of you, hopefully you'll do better by this girl.

Its ok, he took special precautions to make sure this one likes getting stoned and being taken advantage of.

OK FUCK THIS! I am so god damn stupid...

Well heres what happend I was talking to her on msn and I accidentley added my ex to the convo ( I was drunk ). This was right after this girl invited me to her house on saturday to drink. Well now my EX was a bitch and told her EVERYTHING! Now this girl knows so much bad shit about me... MY crazy ass ex told her that I was a fucken druggy and she said that I did e almost every day and I do other "dirty" drugs. Then we were arguing in the same convo window... Ahh fuck dumb bitch has to ruin it for me, I helped her out when she ran away and we wernt even together i fucken lent her money... I gave her a shoulder to cry on and she does this too me. Bah never ever will I date a biopolar whore.

Now I have no chance with this girl, she must think im really fucked up.

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

OK FUCK THIS! I am so god damn stupid...

Well heres what happend I was talking to her on msn and I accidentley added my ex to the convo ( I was drunk ). This was right after this girl invited me to her house on saturday to drink. Well now my EX was a bitch and told her EVERYTHING! Now this girl knows so much bad shit about me... MY crazy ass ex told her that I was a fucken druggy and she said that I did e almost every day and I do other "dirty" drugs. Then we were arguing in the same convo window... Ahh fuck dumb bitch has to ruin it for me, I helped her out when she ran away and we wernt even together i fucken lent her money... I gave her a shoulder to cry on and she does this too me. Bah never ever will I date a biopolar whore.

Now I have no chance with this girl, she must think im really fucked up.

Maybe you are fucked up? She was telling this girl the truth? You're a fucking moron for adding your ex to your conversation, and you're even more stupid for being drunk and then using that as your excuse. Why is your ex even on your contacts list? Your own damn fault.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Maybe you are fucked up? She was telling this girl the truth? You're a fucking moron for adding your ex to your conversation, and you're even more stupid for being drunk and then using that as your excuse. Why is your ex even on your contacts list? Your own damn fault.

It's not all true though, I've only done e a few times... I havn't done any other drugs other then pot. Yea I know it was stupid to keep her on my contact list but I was trying to help her and she fucked me over... Fuck I'm not getting laid this week

Something happend... I am so damn lucky We were just hanging out smoking weed and she mentioned that my ex apologized to her later and said I was a really sweet guy or some crap Then she asked me if she could kiss me Wohoo hah now all i have to deal with is these damn love bites.

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

Something happend... I am so damn lucky We were just hanging out smoking weed and she mentioned that my ex apologized to her later and said I was a really sweet guy or some crap Then she asked me if she could kiss me Wohoo hah now all i have to deal with is these damn love bites.

Ok I was a little harsh, but I wanted to get a point across. And yes, you did get lucky. Learn from this lesson! Keep ex-girlfriends away from current ladies.