So, here's the story:

I was at a halloween party on friday, over a friends. They were having a huge party, with many many girls there. Now i saw this pussy cat (mmmm, pussy), so backt o my story. I was staring at her the whole time i was at the party. She looked over at me during the party too, which i never knew until my friends had told me AFTER the party. She looked older then me, but i found out that SHE WAS MY AGE! argh, I need to find out who she is (well i do knw her name is...katie?), and where she lives. She's really cute, and I gave a small crush on her.

So all togethor I found out im shy about pretty girls.

Anyone else been through this? (I'm sure people have) Also share your stories

[Kaz]

thats not love, its lust. and yes, its happened to me many times.

quote:Originally posted by bassman:

thats not love, its lust. and yes, its happened to me many times.



Wrong, its not lust. I've felt lust before, and i know this isnt lust.

Act quick mate, get her number off someone.

quote:Originally posted by KAZAKA:



Wrong, its not lust. I've felt lust before, and i know this isnt lust.



It's impossible to be in love with someone you don't know.

Not to mention creepy and stalkerish.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



It's impossible to be in love with someone you don't know.

Not to mention creepy and stalkerish.

Loving someone != being in love with them.

quote:Originally posted by pianoSpleen:

Loving someone != being in love with them.



Personally the idea of loving someone you don't know doesn't make any kind of sense, at least someone could suffer the delusion of being "in love". But just loving someone is something that BY DEFINITION requires knowing them very well, the way I see it.

Self delusions are fine as long as you know what they are and have control over them.

quote:Originally posted by bassman:

thats not love, its lust. and yes, its happened to me many times.

Hey, how old are you? Just wondering.

quote:Originally posted by KAZAKA:

She looked over at me during the party too, which i never knew until my friends had told me AFTER the party.

Sounds like they had a good laugh too.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



Personally the idea of loving someone you don't know doesn't make any kind of sense, at least someone could suffer the delusion of being "in love". But just loving someone is something that BY DEFINITION requires knowing them very well, the way I see it.

The way I see it goes like this.

You can love a song, you can love a food, etc etc - and you don't need to have experienced them 34867394 times to do so. Same deal with aspects of a person - you can love the way they walk, the way they look, the way they think etc etc without even knowing them.

So, you can love everything about them, in which case you would love them, without knowing their name.

Being in love, I think, is a different matter.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



It's impossible to be in love with someone you don't know.

Not to mention creepy and stalkerish.

true.. but there is a difference between a crush and lust... if i lust after someone i want to shag them.. if i have a crush on someone, i'd be interested in a relationship, but it wouldnt make my heart explode if I didn't get her.

Where was I going? Did what I posted just now make ANY sense?

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



Personally the idea of loving someone you don't know doesn't make any kind of sense, at least someone could suffer the delusion of being "in love". But just loving someone is something that BY DEFINITION requires knowing them very well, the way I see it.

Tell that to Shakespeare, in As You Like It, the main character fell in love with the girl simply because she gave him something.

Go fuck ten other girls then come back and tell us how much you love this girl.

[This message has been edited by Jackel003 (edited 11-02-2006).]

I kinda feel ya... except she knows me. But the thing is, we only get those like awesoem deep conversations when we're both thrashed... whenever she sees me and she's trashed, she screams my name and makes her way over to me, and we have those great eye-locked drunk as fuck conversations. But i think she has a boyfriend, and alcohol tends to make girls more likely to flirt with me...