This is to everyone, would you rather date a sweet guy/girl or a bad guy/girl?

Think as a teenager

'bad' as in swears, cheats and causes trouble when it really isnt nescessary?

Oh.yeah.I'd just love me an asshole like that.

i'll define them...



Bad

Has problems, cheats on girlfriend, is an asshole, doesnt respect you, dumb, sleeps around, ignores you, generally doesnt care...



Good

Cares for you, tells you that they love you, quiet at times, smart, more attractive, asks you how you are, talks to you

surely everyone will want a "good" partner,

unless theyre just in it for sex themselves then?

Anyone who would want a "bad" guy or girl, by your definition, is off their trolley.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

'bad' as in swears, cheats and causes trouble when it really isnt nescessary?

Oh.yeah.I'd just love me an asshole like that.

Ya did. Didn't ya?

A big generalisation here, but most girls like the typical 'bad' guy image. Why? Because they seem like 'men'. But they aren't Yet when these girls turn into women, they realise that men walk the line between 'bad' and 'good'. But yea, just my £0.02.

In my experience, people love good people.

Personally? I want me a bad girl, but not a disrespectful whore. A nice girl gone a bit loopy.

Ya get me?

What would an 18 year old girl want do you think?

I'm an 18 year old girl.

I prefer a nice combination of both. More good than bad.

And I'd rather they not be putting on an act, like you seem to be planning to do. Be yourself.

I’m the epitome of bad baby. (http://www.futuramer.ru/art/DeadAngel/DA_The_Robot_Devil.GIF)

Sweet. Definetely. The last two girlfriends were 'bad', and now that I think about it, I'm glad to be rid of them.

Who would want "bad" ?

Sweetness is so great.

Thats what i think, but seemingly they manage to pull, it might be there confidence... *light bulb*

What would be a question to ask the girl if she likes sweet or tough guys?

hmm... I like my girls to be similar to me. Fuck, I ride a motorbike, I smoke, I do stupid things. Seriously, she has to have a bit of crazy in her, like she's the first one to jump in the freezing water... or push someone else in. The willingness to go out at 3am for coffee, or to party for 30 hours. She needs to not be afraid of what other people think.

I'm liking the whole bad thing, mostly because I'm no angel. Just as long as she's not off screwing some other guy, then it's all good.

I'd rather have the sweet girl.. that treats me nice, I can trust etc. Though I have fallen for the bad girl before

I'd rather be the bad boy, because it works. Even though part of me would rather be the gentleman because it's who I really am.

Flatmate told me the reason she's attracted to me is that she finds there's a genuine niceness about me at the same time, a strong and don't give a shit, won't do exactly as I'm told all the time confidence.

Now if only all girls could see that and like that in me.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I prefer a nice combination of both. More good than bad.



Common sense.

Dumb thread.

When people talk about "good" or "nice" in this context, it silently implies a lack of major sex appeal.

Lacking the major sex appeal, good/nice guys/girls are boring.

Fact of life.

Neither.

I like the happy middle ground, with the crazy hyper girls. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you need to get back to a grade 8 class. I'm talking about the ones who talk 50% faster than everyone and have a very random sense of humour. They kick ass even if they're kinda scary.

With "nice" I tend to associate boredom...

Bad girls are god's creation to me!

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I prefer a nice combination of both. More good than bad.

quote:Originally posted by Local Hero:

Common sense.

quote:Originally posted by HTS-Noob:

Neither.

I like the happy middle ground, with the crazy hyper girls. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you need to get back to a grade 8 class. I'm talking about the ones who talk 50% faster than everyone and have a very random sense of humour. They kick ass even if they're kinda scary.

Fuckin pedophile.

quote:Originally posted by naive_wisdom:

Ya did. Didn't ya?

A big generalisation here, but most girls like the typical 'bad' guy image. Why? Because they seem like 'men'. But they aren't Yet when these girls turn into women, they realise that men walk the line between 'bad' and 'good'. But yea, just my £0.02.

I really dont..really hope that's not true. About women liking assholes, that is. I dont. And I hope that the rest of my sex dont, either.

Sure, I dated an asshole. But he wasnt an asshole to start with and the relationship ended as soon as hestarted turning towards assholism.



Assholes suck. I fucking hate them.

^ Assholes are insecure and lazy. The ultimate form. Attractive guys are insecure and lazy but they try a bit harder.

But as she is one of the top dogs at college and im well not, its quite awkward becasue she is the oppoiste end of sociaty really.

quote:Originally posted by HTS-Noob:

I like the happy middle ground, with the crazy hyper girls. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you need to get back to a grade 8 class. I'm talking about the ones who talk 50% faster than everyone and have a very random sense of humour. They kick ass even if they're kinda scary.



I find them really hard to pick up, they're way too old to take my chloroform lollipops.

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quote:Originally posted by Local Hero:

Common sense.

Dumb thread.

It should be such, but I cannot count the threads and discussion I hear of this in real life as well.

Most 'nice' guys I know are cowards that bitch about the women they lusted for when they go for someone they feel is less deserving than themselves.

That's really not nice at all and shows an underlying, not even 'badness' but just being a prick.

It comes through in conversation.

I find more than good or bad, girls like a guy that's confident, honest and plays a little hard to get.

If you can get a woman's respect and trust, then the rest can follow easily.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Most 'nice' guys I know are cowards that bitch about the women they lusted for when they go for someone they feel is less deserving than themselves.

That's really not nice at all and shows an underlying, not even 'badness' but just being a prick.



BAM

How can anyone in their right mind chose "bad"?

Has mankind devolved to such a point where it is necessary for this question to be asked?

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

How can anyone in their right mind chose "bad"?

Has mankind devolved to such a point where it is necessary for this question to be asked?



Bad girls will let you fuck them in the ass, be up for threesomes, and let you snort coke off their tits.

Good girls won't.

You were saying?

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Has mankind devolved to such a point where it is necessary for this question to be asked?

Yes. Where have you been?

A sweet tall dark haired, green eyed hottie, that wasnt a jackass...<3

A sweet horny girl

I like girls who are really maladjusted but affectionate. Like, for instance, i dated a girl who was like more depressed than i was / was a cokehead, and also a girl who had like no respect for herself (kind of a slut / got used for sex, though that changed when she was with me). If you count like sort of dark, harder into drugs, iconoclastic society wise as bad, i like bad, but otherwise, i like sweet.

You just managed to make a very stupid thread. Make more options. Your forcing people to pick what you want by describing it very badly. Just for that i'm picking bad, you fucking dick!

^ You sound like you had ADHD and just had an unsuccessful glue sniffing session.

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

^ You sound like you had ADHD and just had an unsuccessful glue sniffing session.

That made me lol

Im just going to give up about the girl... she doesnt want me... meh... NEXT!

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

But as she is one of the top dogs at college and im well not, its quite awkward becasue she is the oppoiste end of sociaty really.



I call Bullshit!! There is no way you are in college.

Oh right, you actually meant something by this thread? Wanted advice?

She's in your grasp.

Yes greenie, college, its after secondary school in england, you know where england is?

I'd definitly pick bad, no hesitation.