What's up with that?

What girl doesn't like her pussy being ate?

How long have you been together?

my girlfriend says she thinks its wierd,

and therefore doesnt like it...

Year and a half. I've done it a few times. I'll admit that I'm no expert knowing that I've done it less than 3 times.

But, then again, she really doesn't enjoy anything sexually.

I like to do different things and would like to do this to her but she actually puts it off. I'll go to do it and she'll stop me.

What is going on here.

some girls juss dont like to do things sexually.

quote:Originally posted by OneMulatto:

Year and a half. I've done it a few times. I'll admit that I'm no expert knowing that I've done it less than 3 times.

But, then again, she really doesn't enjoy anything sexually.

I like to do different things and would like to do this to her but she actually puts it off. I'll go to do it and she'll stop me.

What is going on here.

Sounds like she's a) lesbian b) cheating.

Make sure you wear a rubber to avoid STDs. Be as sexually selfish as possible with the time you have left. If you want to do anything you thought a girl wouldn't let you do, do it anyway. She is going to leave you, at least you can cause the humiliation of anal fisting/spunk eye/dirty sanchez before you lose the girl.

Has she had it before? Did she get an orgasm from it?

If she didn't, and it was in the past from another person, you might be able to just talk with her and convince her that everybody does it differently, and she might just get some enjoyment from it.

My girl doesn't like it either. If I start to move down there, she pulls me back up. I'm not complaining though, we still manage to have great sex.

Paranoia.

"It smells bad"

"It tastes bad"

"He's not enjoying this"

"He's bored"

Yeah, listen to Docta?. Or she might be self-conscious about how it looks. Is her vagina pretty?

Didn't you say you were going to kill yourself or something?

WTF happend to that?

I feel ripped off.

I've never met a girl who didn't like it, except my last girlfriend. Though once I persuaded her to let me do it, I kind of dug my own grave and had to do it almost constantly for the rest of our relationship. No Joke.

A lot of women are uncomfortable with their vaginas, therefore having the guy they like stick they're face all up in it can just be uncomfortable and unpleasant for them. I used to feel that way, took me years to get over it. But, I am, and how. She'll come around.

Cheers,

Lost

Oh, I was told the other day that I'm TOO good. I'm not sure what that means, all I know is that I was down there for like under 5 mins and she went nuts, didnt have an orgasm, but that was her deal not mine. I don't have a lot of experience either, I guess I just have a gift.

Like when you do it how are you leading up to it. I usually just start with kissing and dry humping, then gradually start kissing/nibbling my way down, kiss her thighs and then kinda move in for the kill... Also if you have trouble finding her "spot" try almost laying your tounge out flat on her pussy above the hole and just kinda going up and down, like you were trying to lick something off. More surface area movin around down there means a better shot of hitting your goal lol, I've gotten good responses from that. Also don't be afraid to tell her that she should direct your head to where she wants it to go.

I think the whole insecuriety thing that a girl might have might be lessened if you show a lot of enthusiasm.

Sorry if this post is a bit jumbled, I'm trying this not sleeping thing....

She Bel aired you xD no lol i thin it may be presonal prefrence somegirl i no is like that

Dat was my exs complexity, she just never found it pleasuring, but she was always up for sucking my cock, i dont get it. If you have problems then dump her, follow my steps

I don't like it at all if the performer really sucks at it.

My girl begs me to eat hers.

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

Paranoia.

"It smells bad"

"It tastes bad"

"He's not enjoying this"

"He's bored"

Yeah, my ex was like that for a bit until i managed to tell her that wasn't the case

[This message has been edited by mek777 (edited 11-02-2006).]

I dont really like it all that much, Honestly not everyone gets off on clitoral stimulation.

On the other hand, my now girlfriend, used to hate it when her boyfriend tried doing it to her and in their almost 3 years of going out she only let him do it to her like 3 times, but now, now she likes it when i go down on her, or at least i think she does.

I'm not saying your girlfriend is gay, i'm saying that she maybe just doesnt know that she doesnt like it and she neds to be given a chance to find out.

She probably thinks it's fucked up for a black man to be eatin pussy..even if he's mixed. my advice is to start on the asshole and work your way up...literally

O, and I forgot to say, yea, you probably do suck, too. Most men do.

Cheers,

Lost

The thing that kills it for me is knowing I'll probably end up kissing the guy after he goes down on me... and I won't complain at the time, but it really does sort of bother me. Not like it's gross, it's just kind of like... meh. It's just not that enjoyable.

quote:Originally posted by senorfrog:

Oh, I was told the other day that I'm TOO good.

...didnt have an orgasm...

I'm not sure that you're in the best position to be giving advice. She probably meant that she's too sensitive and you're not catering to her needs correctly. Try lightening up when she squeals.

Don't get my hopes up. She is not a lesbian and she is not bisexual. I just think she is still shy when it comes to sexual things. She's only been with one other guy before me and that is a well known fact. I mean, first time we had sex it was like she didn't know what to do and she's still like that. Perhaps still learning.

She is not cheating, either. Funny thing is that she'll let me play with her asshole all day. Finger it, lick it, but won't let me near the pussy.

Yea dude... didn't you want to go on a killing spree?

WTF happened?

Lol, I remember that to.

if shes letting you do all that other stuff, then she's not self-concious like i first thought. maybe try distracting her with your hands (doin whatever it is she likes...) and slooooowly making your way over.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Yea dude... didn't you want to go on a killing spree?

WTF happened?

It was the biggest bel-air in SG's history.

God dammit, I hope you got a reply in here like this.

Some girls are irrationally afraid of oral sex. It's not personal. I don't know how to get them over it, sorry. But I stress again, it's not your fault.

Because. Just because.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

God dammit, I hope you got a reply in here like this.

Some girls are irrationally afraid of oral sex. It's not personal. I don't know how to get them over it, sorry. But I stress again, it's not your fault.

yup. for some girls this is true. i used to not understand the point at all. it just seemed dumb, especially since most guys are so bad at it.

there's pressure to be like "ohmygod yes!" when the guy's doing it, and if it's awkward if it doesn't do anything for you.

I too had this problem...She had no issue letting me do WHAT EVER else I wanted, but when it came to going down on her, there was no way in hell shed let me.. She'd suck my dick every chance she got, but god forbid I try to go down and return the favour....It actually saddens me to tell you the truth...

quote:Originally posted by Lord Sorpington:

I've never met a girl who didn't like it, except my last girlfriend. Though once I persuaded her to let me do it, I kind of dug my own grave and had to do it almost constantly for the rest of our relationship. No Joke.

shit. QFT

she dosent want your bald ass nigger head down there

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

she dosent want your bald ass nigger head down there

I'm not bald anymore. I let my hair grow back.

Punch her in the face.

quote:Originally posted by MonetaryGraspOfLesions:

Punch her in the cunt.

well as most of you said they just dont know if you guys will like what you see. but man if you keep asking to do it then they should get the hint that you want to do it... i would give anything for my bf to go down on me more