I never realized this.

So my girlfriend stayed over last night. This morning I started the day by going to bakers and getting some breakfast. Then we had some incredible sex.

After that I told her that she was wonderful but I didn't like being exclusive, that I had met another girl and that I wasn't sure about picking either one. I want to see both.

She started crying.

and cried.

and cried.

This is after sex, mind you, so were both lying next to each other naked.

she keeps crying.

god damn I really had to piss at this point.

but...

she keeps crying.

So I start talking again.

Eventually I get to take a piss.

Anyway, now she's gone, but I have a feeling she will be back. It would be really cool to have two girlfriends. But it such a taboo in society.

But yes, the point I was getting at was that: This girl cried so much, was so sad that.... it made me sad. And that really sucked. I felt really really bad for making her so sad. And almost considered telling her to forget what I said.

But then I was like "hellz no...I can't be with someone out of pity"

Phew, what a day.

So let me get this right.... you TOLD your girlfriend that you WANT to be with other girls as well as her? At the same time?

I'm sorry, but your what I classify as a fucking moron.

Besides, why would you tell her right after sex? Do you want it to look even more like you are using her?

now that you've told her this, you wont be able to take it back you realise? She'll just think you are lieing, I sure would.

Congradulations, you fucked up!

Nope, I can go back any time. The reason why I did it directly after sex is because that's when a man's percieved value is the highest.

What I was marvelling at is how attached women get.

. . .

That's proof your not pussy whipped, one of few dude

quote:Originally posted by Ferret:

So let me get this right.... you TOLD your girlfriend that you WANT to be with other girls as well as her? At the same time?

Congradulations, you fucked up!



Now, just to clarify: yes. I want two women at the same time. I think its fucking great. Women are beautiful. And I sure as hell have enough love for two. heee

I had to tell her straight. I said "nothing has to change if you can cope with the idea of us not being in an exclusive relationship"

I told her to give me a call and then sent her on her way.

quote:Originally posted by Ferret:

So let me get this right.... you TOLD your girlfriend that you WANT to be with other girls as well as her? At the same time?

I'm sorry, but your what I classify as a fucking moron.

Besides, why would you tell her right after sex? Do you want it to look even more like you are using her?

now that you've told her this, you wont be able to take it back you realise? She'll just think you are lieing, I sure would.

Congradulations, you fucked up!

Ex-girlfriend tried to pull the same shit on me. Not being exclusive and shit, so I kicked that bitch to the curb. We had been dating for 2 years and then she suddenly decides she doesn't want to be exclusive anymore. Fucking whore.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

I told her to give me a call and then sent her on her way.

I hope you never hear from her again.

Pretty disrespectful, but honest man, honest.

Why, Euda?

Do you think I somehow did something wrong by honestly telling my girl how I feel? Look, it's not like I'm trying to fuck as many chicks as possible. Fact of the matter is that I have developed sincere feelings for two girls and I felt that the only right thing to do would be to tell my girl how it is.

Nothing wrong with that.

...and knowing her, she will call. Score.

quote:Originally posted by Ferret:

So let me get this right.... you TOLD your girlfriend that you WANT to be with other girls as well as her? At the same time?

I'm sorry, but your what I classify as a fucking moron.

Besides, why would you tell her right after sex? Do you want it to look even more like you are using her?

now that you've told her this, you wont be able to take it back you realise? She'll just think you are lieing, I sure would.

Congradulations, you fucked up!

qft

I once broke up with a girl during sex... I was 3/4 way through a 5th of Henessey though.

nice.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Why, Euda?

Do you think I somehow did something wrong by honestly telling my girl how I feel? Look, it's not like I'm trying to fuck as many chicks as possible. Fact of the matter is that I have developed sincere feelings for two girls and I felt that the only right thing to do would be to tell my girl how it is.

Nothing wrong with that.

...and knowing her, she will call. Score.

it's not so much what you want to do but rather your fucking chauvanistic, egotistical, head-up-your-ass attitude about the whole thing.

i sincerely hope both for your poor girlfriend's sake and for the good a blow to your ego would do that you never hear from either girl again. or that you never hear from your girlfriend again and get herpes from the second girl. either way.

If I told you that I did not know what I did wrong, would you explain it to me?

It's not like I'm here bragging... its more of a field report. I was surprised myself, you know...

So elaborate, please.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Then we had some incredible sex.

After that I told her that she was wonderful but I didn't like being exclusive, that I had met another girl and that I wasn't sure about picking either one. I want to see both.



This is after sex, mind you, so were both lying next to each other naked.



quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

she keeps crying.

god damn I really had to piss at this point.

but...

she keeps crying.

So I start talking again.

Eventually I get to take a piss.





quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Anyway, now she's gone, but I have a feeling she will be back.





quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

...and knowing her, she will call. Score.

you said it with your own words. dumbass.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

The reason why I did it directly after sex is because that's when a man's percieved value is the highest.

Imagine that, she got attached.

After sex is often when one is more vulnerable, and closeness is what is perceived. To do it then, is low and might well reduce a man's perceived value I'm afraid.

I think your honesty was right, but your timing was all wrong.



[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 11-01-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

I think your honesty was right, but your timing was all wrong.

I'd agree. That's kinda mean.

I know how you feel, Greenie; I was sorta in the same position. Two girls. Both were/are the most awesome people on the Earth. Both liked me. What to do?

I eventually chose one over the other. It hurt, but I'm glad now. She is most certainly the most wonderful girl there ever was. Was a little gentler than you in telling the other one, though...

Dumbass. I hope you get killed.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

Dumbass. I hope you get killed.



Well, I'm not surprised. You are, after all, named "Fascismo"...

I hope the seoncd girl turns into an ugly witch, and you die in f**cking hell, how can you treat a woman like this, that is soo improper use of these sexy pieces of meat, its like eating, you wont gob it down, but you will chew it, its just like females, they have to be treated with care. Sort your life out or you will be ruined with this kind of lifestyle

Geenie: You are fucking evil. And disgusting. And bragging about the nasty shit you've done does nothing but point out exactly what a worthless nasty shit you are.



Die in a burns ward years after a fire, fuckface.

This is starting to be rather amusing.

I generally explain that I don't like being exclusive at the start of a relationship. It does save alot of tears and you're both on the same page. You tell people that you want to have an open relationship part way through your partnership, unless they feel the same way, it's a break-up.

Unless your partner thinks they're in love with you, then it just gets messy.

[This message has been edited by bloodenangel (edited 11-02-2006).]

I think you're full of shit.

Jeez, you guys need to calm down. he was completely honest with her. what would you rather he do, cheat on her?

I don't think you should've sent her home or done it right after sex though.

UPDATE: She sent me a txt message saying she wanted to see me.

We talked.

She told me she loved me.

Score.

This girl is actually really really special.

I have a feeling I can make this work- Now all I need to do is explain to the new girl that I'm hot shit and she can't have me all to herself.

Then I will be one step closer to my goal of a three-way relationship. Sweet.

And to all you haters: In yo face, beyotch!

^oh, you kind of blew your cover there. You sound like dad kisser. Only..well not as funny.

Break ups are awesome...I finally get to date a HOTT guy I am so excited!

Who the fuck is dad kisser? Are you kidding me? GTFO..

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Nope, I can go back any time. The reason why I did it directly after sex is because that's when a man's percieved value is the highest.

Pretty full of yourself ain't you?