Okay, I didn't want to make two separate threads, so here we go.

First one:

There's this guy at work. He's really super gay, and very self absorbed. We've kind of been friends for a couple of months, and usually I brush off his comments concerning my appearance. Nobody else seems to have a problem with it, but he always says things like "Oh honey, you should do your hair," or "wow, did you roll out of bed and come to work?"

He has also grabbed my shirt and pretended like he was going to lift it up, started dancing with me in a REALLY inappropriate fashion, and just says things that make me really uncomfortable... and it's hard to offend me by joking, but he does.

It's hard enough working in a store where appearance is everything, but I do what I need to do to look nice. I don't own many things from the store, because they're expensive and they fall apart, and it's not really my style. But since I decided not to go on a trip I'd planned, I'll have extra money to spend on these clothes and stuff, so I won't wear the same two outfits to work... which isn't his business anyway, as half the people there wear the same thing every time they work.

I finally told him I didn't want his opinion anymore, and he freaked out and started saying I looked like shit and he's a grown ass man, and will speak when he pleases. He kept being extremely rude and calling me pathetic and dumb, so I finally said "alright, that's enough. I'm going to go talk to Bethany" (she's a manager).

I talked to her and said I didn't think it was enough to file a harrassment complaint, but she said that it was definitely harrassment and would talk to the GM about it (which I'd rather her not, I don't want to bitch and moan to him... it might negate all the ass kissing I've done over the past few weeks). When I came out of the office he was there calling me pathetic and saying "Don't take your insecurities out on me."

Whether or not Bethany talks to the GM, I have the option to file a complaint. I don't want to be a complete bitch about it, but it's gotten to the point where I can't get him to stop, and it *really* bothers me. Should I just ignore it and hope that a warning is good enough, or actually do something about it?

And part two.

I want to apologize for all the real life drama that has been brought into S&A. I made the mistake of introducing real life friends to totse, and befriending people from the site. I'm okay with a couple of them, but the combination of all of us on Totse clearly has not worked out, and if there are anymore arguement concerning me or my real life friends, I'm going to take a long break from S&A.

Fuck his shit up.

1.) I think it would be more than reasonable to file a complaint if he's bothering you that much.

2.) I was about to make a thread about the same thing. Any differences that people have need to be worked out in real life, not in fucktarded internet fights.

Not...your...livejournal...

we discussed this already on IRC

you promised dildo pics

quote:Originally posted by Andreas:

Not...your...livejournal...

No, and if it was, I wouldn't have asked questions.

And that's why I apologized. STFU.

I think it is alright to file a complaint, as long as you actually told him that he was bothering you a lot and that you wanted him to stop, in a reasonable manner. However, I tend to try not to make a deal out of anything and just tolerate whatever comes my way. In this case though, he is definitely taking it far enough over the line to merit a formal complaint.

The fact that its causing your work life to be affected is enough to complain, and if he is reacting negatively when you tell him how its making you feel, then totally go to the manager.

Failing that, get someone to push him in front of the subway. He sounds like a major fuckbag.

One thing to be careful of, is that he probably uses his gayness as a weapon, just waiting for someone to say anything that he can use against them. He gets all in your face acting like a prick, then when you get frustrated and say something awful reflexively, he has the whole human rights thing to (officially) fire back with. I've known some ridiculously frustrating passive-agressive assholes who push you with the intention of making you react in a way that they can say "ohhh, verbal assualt! me victim!!!" to.

You seem pretty cool, but all the same, be careful. If you keep your cool you can probably get his stupid ass fired.

Sounds like your typical gay guy if you ask me.

I've kept my mouth shut for two months or so, because I thought it was just him fucking around.

But it's really grating on my self image when I have him telling me *every fucking day* that I look like hell. Nobody else seems to think so.

He's just such a shallow person. Not even in the "oh looks are everything" way. Like, when you tell him something, it doesn't really sink in. I've told him multiple times to stop because he made me uncomfortable, but he never listened.

He's already tried the "I'm being a friend by telling you what's wrong" and "I could have been a dick when I first met you, but I befriended you."

And my favorite "yeah, you really do look like shit. But I didn't want to say it like that."

The only reason I said anything though is because he called me pathetic and insecure. Then strengthened my case when he did it in front of the manager.

Some people...

File the complaint. It isn't worth your time to have to deal with someone like that.

You've already brought it to their attention, so you can't deal with it on your own. He could easily file a complaint on you if you try to do anything else to deal with him.

And.

No worries about the drama. It's all part of life.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:



No worries about the drama. It's all part of life.

It's annoying. Totse and real life are supposed to be separate.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

It's annoying. Totse and real life are supposed to be separate.



I guess if you tried using a second account your friends would know if they know a lot about your personal business, so that wouldn't help much.

Euda is right. Either that, or find a job elsewhere.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I don't own many things from the store, because they're expensive and they fall apart, and it's not really my style.

Now...that's just sad. Expensive should equal durable, or are you just very hard on clothes.

Umm... you work in retail. Part of the job is to deal with assholes. And gay guys, entertaining as they are and as much as I love them... are huge pricks most of the time. Actually, they're bitches. Tell him to fuck off. Or get a real job.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Or get a real job.



I'm 18, and I'm taking classes.

Tell me, please, where might I find the time for a "real job?"

Part of retail is, of course, dealing with assholes. That's why I didn't say anything for two months, but taking shit from customers is one thing. From employees is another.

1) He's taking out his insecurities on you. He's also a wanker. Rip out his nuts.

2) That's quite alright, FK. please don't take a break, it's not your fault, we'd much rather have you here than not.

Firekitty, your leaving S&A would be a great loss, please reconsider.

I have not noticed your personal life upsetting things on this forum and see nothing that you need apologise for.

So stop talking crap, girl and stay here where you belong and wher eyou make a difference.

Thanks, jack.

But some people have noticed it, and I hate it. And sometimes I just want to post and I don't want real life people to know who I am. Unfortunately, that's not an option.

Fire kitty, from what you've said, you should be more than happy to file a complaint against the guy, from what you've said he's been acting totally out of line. He needs to be brought back to earth.

Oh well thats my opinion anyway

Punch that mother fucker in the fucking face!

Just because he's gay doesent mean he has the automatic right to fucking insult you.



I say the next time he starts shit, cry. Cry alot and let your workmates see.

There's a difference between someone pissing you off, and someone actually making you break down at work. It's the difference between a warning and a disciplinary notice, sometimes.

If I cry, I'm a pussy.

Although I have to admit, I did cry when I was talking to my manager. That was more out of frustration that anything, but it worked.

*shrugs*

*sips water*

Ms Kitty? Maybe you're tempting the gayzor with your feminine wiles? Turning him from the bent to the straight path?

Corrupting his bent ways with your eggy estrogeny goodness? He's afraid you'll cause his balls & his voice to drop? Turn him in a strutin' macho-man instead of a prancing girlyman?

How evil is that?!

Over in Australia he would have been fired a while ago for that kind of behaviour. Don't be shy about filing a complaint. I would have hit the fucker or put in a complaint by now if I was in your position.

FK, get him to invite you around for dinner, then find and swap his tube of anal lube for something nasty like 'Super Glue'.

The only issue I'm having with this is that for awhile, I didn't ask him to stop.

If I didn't ask him to stop, it's not harrassment. By their standards.

But then when I did, he got persistant. I would finally back down and say okay, whatever.

But christ, my mom's having issues with her boyfriend and he's taking it out on me, my dad and his wife are accusing me of stealing things, all that real life drama brought onto totse is only half of it, not to mention there's a small chance I could be pregnant. I mean, there are worse things that could happen but this is all very stressful. I don't need criticism when I go into work, and I'm absolutely terrified to talk to the GM about this. I need money to pay for school, and the more ass I kiss, the more hours I get, and the sooner I get a raise. Now I'm afraid he might think I'm bitching and moaning and starting shit.

Not to mention he's FINE. And our conversations have just started going beyond "Hi how are you?" and "Hey, can you go maintain women's sale?"

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

not to mention there's a small chance I could be pregnant.

Why don't you know for sure? All your other problems aside this is the one that needs action. Go find out...TODAY!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Why don't you know for sure? All your other problems aside this is the one that needs action. Go find out...TODAY!



Too soon to find out.

I got the morning after pill but I had to wait a couple of days. There's a good chance it worked, but there's always a small chance it didn't.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:



Too soon to find out.

I got the morning after pill but I had to wait a couple of days. There's a good chance it worked, but there's always a small chance it didn't.



A very very slim chance that it didn't. I seem to remember reading that in reality you have a bit more time than the packet says.

I'm sure I'm not.

But just the thought...

I call group hug around firekitty?

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I'm sure I'm not.

But just the thought...



Yeah...really helps concerntrate on that essay i guess.

Anyway +1000 for going and getting the MAP!

Nobody is going to think you're a whiner for standing up for yourself.

If they have any substance then they'll think more of you for not being a pushover.

[This message has been edited by Euda (edited 11-01-2006).]

Is this a fucking blog or something? What does this have to do with sex and affection?



quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I've kept my mouth shut for two months or so, because I thought it was just him fucking around.

But it's really grating on my self image when I have him telling me *every fucking day* that I look like hell. Nobody else seems to think so.

He's just such a shallow person. Not even in the "oh looks are everything" way. Like, when you tell him something, it doesn't really sink in. I've told him multiple times to stop because he made me uncomfortable, but he never listened.

He's already tried the "I'm being a friend by telling you what's wrong" and "I could have been a dick when I first met you, but I befriended you."

And my favorite "yeah, you really do look like shit. But I didn't want to say it like that."

The only reason I said anything though is because he called me pathetic and insecure. Then strengthened my case when he did it in front of the manager.

Some people...

Lol morning after pill, wow. Glad to see you are being a responsible slut.

quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:

Is this a fucking blog or something? What does this have to do with sex and affection?







STFU!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Lol morning after pill, wow. Glad to see you are being a responsible slut.

Well... I've known the guy for five years or so, and this is the first time I've ever had a condom break.

So I mean... I guess that's pretty slutty.

*slow clap for carbonB's rank shitheadedness*

Your right to complain about him, if not for your own sake then for the sake of the other people he is annoying/will piss off in future.

Failing that, sneak into his house and put ground up chillies in his underware.

Chances are other people who work with you hate that guy too, firekitty, so they'll probably thank you for doing them a favor by removing him from their lives.

FireKitty, I dont see how *YOU* would be the one to be 'causing shit' when some asshole acts like a complete shitbag to you.

And really, unless you're a fucking supermodel, how can your appearance be that bad, and why would it matter?

Basic rules in my workplace are that you A-turn up on time,B-turn up,C-be relatively tidy,D-and relatively sober and E-pay for the stuff you want. That's it.

No where in any company rule book does it say

'F-take shit from the generic bitchy faggot.'

No where.

I know it's bad to back down over this, but if your job is so stressfull and horrible and that superficial, you'd be better off making burgers for families of obese people, or doing manual evacuations on bad tempered old people with a tendency to fingerpaint with things they really shouldnt.



I really fucking loathe gay guys that feel they really have to play that fashion wise hip bitchy shit. It's so will and grace it makes me want to fucking vomit.



/rant

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Well... I've known the guy for five years or so, and this is the first time I've ever had a condom break.

So I mean... I guess that's pretty slutty.

Lol, you really think that is what I am basing my conclusion of you being a slut on?

Come on now, you can't be that dense.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Lol, you really think that is what I am basing my conclusion of you being a slut on?



Of course not, we all know that the real reason is some kind of unpleasant childhood experience involving females that lead to your life long hatred of them.

That, or repressed homosexuality.

One or the other.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Lol, you really think that is what I am basing my conclusion of you being a slut on?

Come on now, you can't be that dense.

Just because you can't get any doesn't mean people who do are sluts.

You are comparing a girl who gets sex to a guy who gets sex.

The reason I do get some is because of girls like firekitty. So in retrospect I should probably be thanking her for opening her legs so easily.

Thank you to all the sluts out there that make it easy for men that have a little courage, and a little money to get laid.

Oh and fullcircle, put the psychology book down son. It isn't going to help.

Or many you can write us another monologue that proves you aren't a nerd.

Ignore the guy, if he says anything to you, just say you don't want to hear a word from him or your filing a complaint.

CarbonB, why don't you want people to like you? You're intelligent, and you'd be respected and welcomed here if you were nice.

I suppose you're getting a lot of attention, that might be it, but... wait, does that make you an attention whore?

And wait... does that make you just as bad or worse than some of the girls you regularly slag off, or the common annoying and highly unintelligent troll?

...

*shrug*

Just a suggestion.

I don't know, I guess you could use that information to come to that conclusion. That I'm an attention whore, and that I am a hypocrite for criticizing the girls/guys on here for attention whoring.

No way that I can call you stupid for assuming that, it's only logical. However attentionisn't really a necessity to me. If I could get my point across without it having to be wrote, then I would probably be an extremely rich man.

Carbon, don't flatter yourself.

I don't sleep with any guy that comes my way.

I make it a point to know people fairly well before I sleep with them. Yeah, I've made mistakes, but you seem to be the one willing to degrade yourself to sleep with "sluts."

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

I don't know, I guess you could use that information to come to that conclusion. That I'm an attention whore, and that I am a hypocrite for criticizing the girls/guys on here for attention whoring.

No way that I can call you stupid for assuming that, it's only logical. However attentionisn't really a necessity to me. If I could get my point across without it having to be wrote, then I would probably be an extremely rich man.

Have I found a hole in his armour? Does the Carbon Bad Boy have a neutral switch after all?

We would all be rich men and women if we were able to express ourselves the best we can. But then who would be the poor? The stupid? Oh no, we can't have that! They need to run our countries!

Welcome to anti-agression, CarbonB, I hope you enjoy your stay my friend.

Oh and another point I must make: If nobody was an attention whore, nothing would get done. To attract attention is to achieve power to enable you to coerce entire situations. Nothing wrong with that. It's how you do it that counts.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 11-02-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by stab:

CarbonB, why don't you want people to like you? You're intelligent, and you'd be respected and welcomed here if you were nice.

I suppose you're getting a lot of attention, that might be it, but... wait, does that make you an attention whore?

And wait... does that make you just as bad or worse than some of the girls you regularly slag off, or the common annoying and highly unintelligent troll?

MOTHERFUCKING BAM!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Or many you can write us another monologue that proves you aren't a nerd.



Admit it, it was funny.

Please can we get back onto the topic of telling firekitty to punch the fucking faggot in the face?

..pretty please?

Being gay does not mean you automatically have awesome dress sense, nor does it give you the right to criticise others clothes in a bitchy manner.

I think today I have to talk to the GM about it.

I'm just going to my myself look super awesome or something. Be like "yeah... so what was that you were saying about my looks?"

The only problem is he sort of has a point. I wear the same two outfits to work, simply because I don't want to spend too much money on abercrombie. I mean... the clothes are so shitty, they're not that attractive, and they fall apart. I am going to get clothes this weekend, because every couple of months we get half off of five things, when the fashion we're supposed to wear changes. But I follow the look policy and whatnot, it's not like I come in with makeup from the night before smeared all over my face.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I think today I have to talk to the GM about it.

I'm just going to my myself look super awesome or something. Be like "yeah... so what was that you were saying about my looks?"

The only problem is he sort of has a point. I wear the same two outfits to work, simply because I don't want to spend too much money on abercrombie. I mean... the clothes are so shitty, they're not that attractive, and they fall apart. I am going to get clothes this weekend, because every couple of months we get half off of five things, when the fashion we're supposed to wear changes. But I follow the look policy and whatnot, it's not like I come in with makeup from the night before smeared all over my face.

You work at abercrombie........that explains this whole thread. Just complain about him harasasing you, and he'll get dealt with. Don't buy their shitty overpriced clothing, and don't bother wearing more than 2 different outfits to work, because it's work. Really, you're there to make money, not blow it all on stupid shit.

Find a new fucking job if you don't like being harassed. What the fuck do you want us to do? Go whoop the guy's ass?

Oh, and no fullcircle that wasn't funny! AHAHHAAHAHAH, that is funny.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Have I found a hole in his armour? Does the Carbon Bad Boy have a neutral switch after all?

We would all be rich men and women if we were able to express ourselves the best we can. But then who would be the poor? The stupid? Oh no, we can't have that! They need to run our countries!

Welcome to anti-agression, CarbonB, I hope you enjoy your stay my friend.

Oh and another point I must make: If nobody was an attention whore, nothing would get done. To attract attention is to achieve power to enable you to coerce entire situations. Nothing wrong with that. It's how you do it that counts.





What are you rambling about? You think attention is what gives you power? Lol, there are behind the scenes people that receive zero attention, but actually possess the power.

And the point wasn't expressing myself, it was the ability to get a point across without saying/writnig anything. If I had that ability I would probably be extremely rich.

Otherwise I don't really see the relevance to your post? Other than you saying welcome to the anti-agression zone.

Well how about I welcome you to the Thunderdome bitch, and the door closes with you and me inside. Two men enter, one man leaves.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:



What are you rambling about? You think attention is what gives you power? Lol, there are behind the scenes people that receive zero attention, but actually possess the power.

And the point wasn't expressing myself, it was the ability to get a point across without saying/writnig anything. If I had that ability I would probably be extremely rich.

Otherwise I don't really see the relevance to your post? Other than you saying welcome to the anti-agression zone.

Well how about I welcome you to the Thunderdome bitch, and the door closes with you and me inside. Two men enter, one man leaves.



Fuck off fatty, he goddamn nailed you, and you're not going to derail YET ANOTHER thread by making YOURSELF the center of attention rather than the OP.

This behaviour is the reason why you should be banned from totse. WHATEVER your motives are (stab's thesis about attention whoring happens to be the prime suspect), your behaviour is qualitatively identical to trolling.

You've been exposed, either fuck off quietly or keep it up until I have enough evidence for an admin to ban you. I'm going to be saving copies of threads like this for the proposal to admins, so you know in advance.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Well how about I welcome you to the Thunderdome bitch, and the door closes with you and me inside. Two men enter, one man leaves.



Holy Christ.

That must be one of the lamest things I've ever read.

Thunderdome is a type of rave music.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Thunderdome is a type of rave music.



It's also an arena in one of the Mad Max films where people fight each other.

God that was so lame I'm at a loss for words. LOL

edit: you've got to watch to film to understand why



[This message has been edited by fullcircle (edited 11-02-2006).]

Carbon B, why are you in such a tizz? Did your bitch-tits get stabbed repeatedly by poor wiring in the push-up? Awww.

Firekitty, general annoying people are the reason my job in retail only lasted a week. I just can't hack whinging customers as well as the employees at some places.

Your situation sounds particularly bad however, and this guy really doesn't seem to get the point. When he tries talking to you, tell him to leave you alone, as you really don't need him in your face/life at this time. Carry on working things out with the GM, they'll probably have delt with "somewhat" similar situations...hopefully they'll either keep this asshole away from you, or fire him maybe even?

You have to stand up for yourself in situations like this, no point in letting other people with issues steam-roller you.

And this guy doesn't sound anything like a "steriotypical" gay guy imo, just a real irritating, shallow cunt, who also happens to be gay. Oh well

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



Fuck off fatty, he goddamn nailed you, and you're not going to derail YET ANOTHER thread by making YOURSELF the center of attention rather than the OP.

This behaviour is the reason why you should be banned from totse. WHATEVER your motives are (stab's thesis about attention whoring happens to be the prime suspect), your behaviour is qualitatively identical to trolling.

You've been exposed, either fuck off quietly or keep it up until I have enough evidence for an admin to ban you. I'm going to be saving copies of threads like this for the proposal to admins, so you know in advance.

First off referencing the Thunderdome is not lame. You making fucking monologues and talking about shit that makes EVERYONE realize you're a fucking nerd is.

Point proven? His thesis on attention whoring was a theory, theory doesn't mean fact. Who gives a shit if you want to ban me.

Just another little whiney cunt who can do nothing but OBSESS and save copies of my threads?

You probably read them while touching yourself at night imagining what it would be like to meet me. Too bad you are too much of a loser to realize that your poor excuse of attempts just makes you look like a little bitch.

Worry less about me and trying to get me banned, and more about not being a complete dork.

Pushup bra? Wow....why would I want to excentuate my tits if I was a guy? Don't you think I would rather want to hide them?

Good attempt though, your logic failed, so you fail. Thunderdome bitch, I'll be waiting and I'll say it from now on just to piss off the fucking nerd.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

You making fucking monologues and talking about shit that makes EVERYONE realize you're a fucking nerd is.



You just flamed someone with a threat to kill them in the Thunderdome from Mad Max 3.

You no longer have the right to call someone a nerd.

Maybe if I would of quoted Star Trek with a Klingon chant of death, THAT would make me look like a nerd.

Me quoting Mad Max and the Thunderome is not nerdy, you knowing that it was the 3rd fucking movie IS nerdy.

So shut the fuck up nerd.

I love how quickly this thread turned into an attack on CarbonB. And his feeble attempt to fight off all who notice his holes in logic in the Thunderdome.

I know this isnt the point of the thread, but seriously, fuck Ambercrombie& Bitch.

I couldnt stand having to work anywhere that forced me to lie not only to customers but also to myself.

quote:Originally posted by emogan:

I love how quickly this thread turned into an attack on CarbonB. And his feeble attempt to fight off all who notice his holes in logic in the Thunderdome.

Logic holes in the Thunderdome? Lol and you are trying to say my attempts are feeble? Go back to Sesame Street bitch.

Argon I definitely have to agree.

Maybe you worry too much.

The job doesn't bother me, it's actually really fun.

There are plenty of assholes that are easy enough to deal with. One guy took me in the back room and yelled at me and tried to intimidate me into saying that I didn't see him cheat on his girlfriend. That was irritating, but he didn't actually touch me, or ever talk to me again.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

You've been exposed, either fuck off quietly or keep it up until I have enough evidence for an admin to ban you. I'm going to be saving copies of threads like this for the proposal to admins, so you know in advance.

Who do you think you are, pal?

I would think that as a moderator you would have familiarized yourself with the FAQ. He's certainly outspoken but well within these bounds.

Don't threaten other users.

I agree.

But, you have to admit, CarbonB is one of the biggest smegheads still on totse.

Guys, arguing with Carbon is only feeding into what he wants. You won't prove anything to him, just be satisfied with your own opinion and allow him to have his. You're getting worked up over something you (hopefully) don't even think about when you're not sitting in front of the computer.

Heh, there was a time when I enjoyed flaming/arguing on totse, but I'm over it. It's a waste of time and energy, and generally both people involved are too ignorant to open their minds to what the other person is trying to say. So please, just drop it.

And on that note, I think after this I'll be taking a break from totse... or at least, S&A. I'm tired of all the immaturity and arguing. I might be in a little bit, but I'm going to try to keep my posting very limited.

quote:Originally posted by Metaphysicist:

I agree.

But, you have to admit, CarbonB is one of the biggest smegheads still on totse.

Still on totse? I think that I actually offer something to totse. It's not like I spam and make completely pointless posts.

firekitty that sounds like a good idea, maybe you should also turn your computer off for a few weeks just to see what you find to occupy your time besides the internet.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:



It's not like I spam and make completely pointless posts.





Ha, pointless posts? Half of your posts are nothing but flaming others and offering unhelpful and rude advice.

Jilly I urge you to go ahead with this complaint. There's nothing worse then being talked down to by a workmate - its degrading and distracts you from your work.

quote:Originally posted by jebuonag:

Who do you think you are, pal?

I would think that as a moderator you would have familiarized yourself with the FAQ. He's certainly outspoken but well within these bounds.

Don't threaten other users.

And it is inappropriate of you to discuss something like this here.

I tried to make friends!

For the sake of luke skywalker I tried to make friends!

quote:Originally posted by jebuonag:

Who do you think you are, pal?

I would think that as a moderator you would have familiarized yourself with the FAQ. He's certainly outspoken but well within these bounds.

Don't threaten other users.



I'm not threatening him any more than a spammer gets threatened with being banned for precisely the same type of posts that CarbonB makes. Do you have any idea what you're talking about here?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Maybe if I would of quoted Star Trek with a Klingon chant of death, THAT would make me look like a nerd.

Me quoting Mad Max and the Thunderome is not nerdy, you knowing that it was the 3rd fucking movie IS nerdy.

So shut the fuck up nerd.



Your logic is absolutely ridiculous.

I've had enough, take your sword and meet me on the Highlands for a battle til the end.

There can only be one.

God dammit I tried to make friends!

quote:Originally posted by stab:

God dammit I tried to make friends!

HAI!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Maybe if I would of quoted Star Trek with a Klingon chant of death, THAT would make me look like a nerd.



No, that would make you hot.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

No, that would make you hot.



Even the sun falling from the heavens and landing on his hate-filled skull wouldn't be capable of that.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

I'm not threatening him any more than a spammer gets threatened with being banned for precisely the same type of posts that CarbonB makes. Do you have any idea what you're talking about here?

I'm done. There is much difference. I don't argue with idiots.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

And it is inappropriate of you to discuss something like this here.

I will discuss such things where I please.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I might be in a little bit, but I'm going to try to keep my posting very limited.

That's an excellent idea.

And CarbonB, keep up the good work.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:



Ha, pointless posts? Half of your posts are nothing but flaming others and offering unhelpful and rude advice.

Jilly I urge you to go ahead with this complaint. There's nothing worse then being talked down to by a workmate - its degrading and distracts you from your work.

Well... at least its not fucking breadfish spam.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

firekitty that sounds like a good idea, maybe you should also turn your computer off for a few weeks just to see what you find to occupy your time besides the internet.

You're one to talk.

GIRLS GO FOR BAD GUYS

so bets are on you fuck him instead of a nice man...

failing that cut his nads off, or threaten too.

It's great to go on totse and see this.

And kAtE-, you're a crappy moderator if you think he's spamming. Fucking look around, just because he gets attention and raises valid points and thus get a lot of reaction does not mean he's spamming.

[This message has been edited by Aseren (edited 11-03-2006).]

1. that guy sounds like a fucking cunt. you have every right to file a complaint against him.

2. i haven't been in S&A as much as i have in the past, so i haven't noticed the mounting emotional issues everyone seems to be posting. but, if its becoming a total overflow, yeah, it should be kept offline. deal with shit on your own once in a while.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

No, that would make you hot.



Hmmmm that almost sounds like an open ended statement trying to get me to ask the question, how hot would that get you?

fullcircle, your nerdy comments cannot be read by me. I'm sorry, but repost in a less faggy manner and I might be able to help you.

And to kAte, as always, ignorant as fuck. My posts aren't pointless, which you just proved by saying I offer advice. Whether it be rude, it is still a lot better than the 100's of crap posts people make.

quote:Originally posted by jebuonag:

I will discuss such things where I please.

That's great, good for you.

It's not how those of us with social skills like to handle this kind of matter though. Since you quite obviously know nothing about the background story here, if you feel you have a genuine point of contention with my behaviour then make use of my email address like a civilised human being. You won't be the first mod I argued with since getting the promotion, but nobody saw that flamefest because I had the decency to email the mod before opening a can of whoopass.

bai

quote: And CarbonB, keep up the good work.



bai to your credibility too, for that matter

[This message has been edited by fullcircle (edited 11-03-2006).]

Lol, drama day in and day out.

fullcircle is mad because he thought everyone was going to huddle in his circle jerk.

Now the only one there is kATe and we know how fullcircle isn't easily persuaded sexually by the opposite sex.

Men on the other hand....

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

he thought everyone was going to huddle in his circle jerk.

That is, essentially, what happpened.

quote:Now the only one there is kATe and we know how fullcircle isn't easily persuaded sexually by the opposite sex.

Kate and I have totally got it going on.

quote:Men on the other hand....

I've been insulting you about your violently repressed homosexuality since day 1.

Are you so low on ammo that you've got to plagiarise MY flames to use against me?

tsk tsk

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Okay, I didn't want to make two separate threads, so here we go.

First one:

There's this guy at work. He's really super gay, and very self absorbed. We've kind of been friends for a couple of months, and usually I brush off his comments concerning my appearance. Nobody else seems to have a problem with it, but he always says things like "Oh honey, you should do your hair," or "wow, did you roll out of bed and come to work?"

He has also grabbed my shirt and pretended like he was going to lift it up, started dancing with me in a REALLY inappropriate fashion, and just says things that make me really uncomfortable... and it's hard to offend me by joking, but he does.

It's hard enough working in a store where appearance is everything, but I do what I need to do to look nice. I don't own many things from the store, because they're expensive and they fall apart, and it's not really my style. But since I decided not to go on a trip I'd planned, I'll have extra money to spend on these clothes and stuff, so I won't wear the same two outfits to work... which isn't his business anyway, as half the people there wear the same thing every time they work.

I finally told him I didn't want his opinion anymore, and he freaked out and started saying I looked like shit and he's a grown ass man, and will speak when he pleases. He kept being extremely rude and calling me pathetic and dumb, so I finally said "alright, that's enough. I'm going to go talk to Bethany" (she's a manager).

I talked to her and said I didn't think it was enough to file a harrassment complaint, but she said that it was definitely harrassment and would talk to the GM about it (which I'd rather her not, I don't want to bitch and moan to him... it might negate all the ass kissing I've done over the past few weeks). When I came out of the office he was there calling me pathetic and saying "Don't take your insecurities out on me."

Whether or not Bethany talks to the GM, I have the option to file a complaint. I don't want to be a complete bitch about it, but it's gotten to the point where I can't get him to stop, and it *really* bothers me. Should I just ignore it and hope that a warning is good enough, or actually do something about it?

And part two.

I want to apologize for all the real life drama that has been brought into S&A. I made the mistake of introducing real life friends to totse, and befriending people from the site. I'm okay with a couple of them, but the combination of all of us on Totse clearly has not worked out, and if there are anymore arguement concerning me or my real life friends, I'm going to take a long break from S&A.

Part one: Now, i agree with the part where you shouldnt file a complaint. Its not worth it unless your manager doesnt do something about it. Just wait. Now your better then the extremly gay man who keeps bothering you, since it seems all he wants is attention. dont worry, everything will be fine.

Part two: Dont worry, we all still love you.

He apologized, and he seemed genuinely sorry. Whether or not he was... eh. He managed to keep his critical comments to a nice tone of voice today, so whatever. I don't want to deal with it anymore.

And Carbon, do I not have a life? I go to class, work at least 30 hours a week, sometimes more, and when I have time I hang out with friends. Is there much more to do than that? I mean, yeah, I spend time on Totse. At night when none of my friends are even awake to hang out. I can't get overnight hours at abercrombie (already tried) so there's not a whole lot else to do.

You know what, Carbon? Disregard my last post. I'm not going to make any excuses.

Yeah, I spend a lot of time here. But guess what? I finally have my life in order and more importantly, I'm happy. So whether I spend 15 minutes or 10 hours a day on totse, as long as I'm satisfied with my life you have no room to criticize.

^Lol I don't give a fuck what you do with your time, you aren't my bitch. You are somebody elses problem and I'm just along for the ride if you know what I mean.

So in case you ever want to make another post about excuses, or something to discourage me from replying, just don't. It's not worth your time or my time.

Oh, and fullcircle when I want a nerds opinion I'll write it into the script of Star Trek: Deep Space 9 and have you quote it back to me. Got it bitch?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^Lol I don't give a fuck what you do with your time, you aren't my bitch. You are somebody elses problem and I'm just along for the ride if you know what I mean.

So in case you ever want to make another post about excuses, or something to discourage me from replying, just don't. It's not worth your time or my time.

Oh, and fullcircle when I want a nerds opinion I'll write it into the script of Star Trek: Deep Space 9 and have you quote it back to me. Got it bitch?

I'm not trying to discourage you. Just letting you know you're wasting your time.

Anyway... you really need to stop trying to play it off like you're "cooler" than him - as if that matters anyway. You did reference the thunderdome, which was just pathetic.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

You did reference the thunderdome.

I seem to think that it's one of his favourite movies.

Nothing wrong with that, different people have different tastes.

If this keeps being about a movie, I'll have to see if someone will move it to Moving Pictures.

quote:Originally posted by PieGirl:

HAI!

I wish I had seen this earlier! Hugs to you, my angry scot

Also, Carbon Bee Succeeds! Woooot!

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

It's great to go on totse and see this.

And kAtE-, you're a crappy moderator if you think he's spamming. Fucking look around, just because he gets attention and raises valid points and thus get a lot of reaction does not mean he's spamming.



I think I used the words pointless, unhepful and rude, so cheers for reading my post properly

And my forums are run very well, I don't see all 3 having any problems (and how do you think I managed to become a mod of 3 forums if I was such a crap mod )

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I'm not trying to discourage you. Just letting you know you're wasting your time.

Anyway... you really need to stop trying to play it off like you're "cooler" than him - as if that matters anyway. You did reference the thunderdome, which was just pathetic.



I loled at the thunderdome joke

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Logic holes in the Thunderdome? Lol and you are trying to say my attempts are feeble? Go back to Sesame Street bitch.

I wasn't saying there were logic holes in the Thunderdome. I was saying you were asking people to fight you in the Thunderdome for finding holes in your logic. I honestly don't know if you had any holes in your arguments, your replies were so angry and defensive, I got bored of them. I just noticed a lot of people said they were pwning you.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Oh, and fullcircle when I want a nerds opinion I'll write it into the script of Star Trek: Deep Space 9 and have you quote it back to me. Got it bitch?



Where did you pull this latest strategy of calling me a nerd from? Your ass? Is it because you can't think of anything else to insult me with?

I'm serious. Tell me exactly why you call me a nerd.



[This message has been edited by fullcircle (edited 11-04-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by emogan:

you were asking people to fight you in the Thunderdome for finding holes in your logic



I still laugh when I read this.

I think this is another of those threads where I



*clutches guinea pigs to chest and dives from thread*

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



Where did you pull this latest strategy of calling me a nerd from? Your ass? Is it because you can't think of anything else to insult me with?

I'm serious. Tell me exactly why you call me a nerd.





CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING TO INSULT YOU WITH!?! BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH!

This coming from the mother fucker who the only thing he could say to me was that I was either fat, or I'm a repressed homosexual.

Funny, you fucking hypocritical bitch. I think you are a nerd, this in no way means that I AM NOT A DORK EITHER! Just to point that out since firekitty is dense as a fucking log.

It means that the things you say, and the comments you make come across as fucking nerdy/dorky.

Thunderdome is not a nerdy movie, you are a dumbass if you think so, and are now suspect. Also MadMax isn't my favorite movie, and if you want to find out my favorite movies just browse my posts in Moving Pictures.

It isn't some new conceived plan, you are a nerd, you come off like a nerd, and I think that if we are going to insult each other, and you are going to make up random bullshit about me, I might as well return the favor.

Now fuck off, and please give me a reply that further emphasizes how much of a geek you are.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

It isn't some new conceived plan, you are a nerd, you come off like a nerd, and I think that if we are going to insult each other, and you are going to make up random bullshit about me, I might as well return the favor.



Yeah, OK.

I really am a nerd.

Like when I post on totse I tend to be listening to my extensive collection of underground hip hop on a hifi system that cost over three thousand dollars.

And I have really nerdy habits that eat up a large chunk of my money, such as amps, booze and weed.

Nerdiest of all is how I get on with girls, I've only got this one girl who I've got a strange semi-going out/semi fuckfriend thing with, who has one of the best asses I've ever seen (that she lets me fuck sometimes too).

I'm such a nerd that it defies belief.

Oh and touche on your post, if you read it again slowly you'll notice that you said you were making up "random bullshit" when you called me a nerd - here's a tip, in future your insults will be more effective if you don't call them "random bullshit" that you made up.

[This message has been edited by fullcircle (edited 11-04-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Thunderdome is not a nerdy movie, you are a dumbass if you think so, and are now suspect.

I don't recall anyone saying the movie itself was nerdy. I think fullcircle just meant you're a nerd for deciding to fight someone in a fictitious battle arena.

quote:Originally posted by emogan:

I don't recall anyone saying the movie itself was nerdy. I think fullcircle just meant you're a nerd for deciding to fight someone in a fictitious battle arena.



Bingo. CarbonB often needs things to be explained to him, it's tiresome.

Ficticious? That shit is in my backyard bitch. Oh, but thanks for the assumption.

I am well aware that I said random bullshit fullcircle, you don't have to tell me what I said. Who gives a shit if you are or aren't a nerd, it isn't if it is true or not, it is whether or not it gets under your skin.

Which evidently it does, because you made an entire post trying to prove otherwise.

Lol, Bill Gates gets model pussy too, Bill Gates probably has a $300,000 sound system in his house that he listens to hip-hop on, and he probably has more amps, booze, and weed than you could muster up in the pea-sized brain of yours.

Is he still a gigantic fucking nerd? Yes...so please before you sit here and try to make it seem like I don't know what I'm saying, or I don't know what I write in my own fucking posts.

Just take a step back, look at it in retrospect and try and decide if I am going to come back and make you look like a complete ass.

And the answer to that out of body experience is yes. I will always make you look like an ass.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Lol, Bill Gates gets model pussy too, Bill Gates probably has a $300,000 sound system in his house that he listens to hip-hop on, and he probably has more amps, booze, and weed than you could muster up in the pea-sized brain of yours.



Reality called, it wants to get in touch with it again some time.

^I know it must be hard for you to make the connection, but pray tell where on earth did you ever make the connection that if you drink, get laid, and own stereo equipment, that you aren't a nerd?

??Don't look like shit anymore??

Then,get his ass into as much trouble as you can because next time it's going to be someone else who puts up with the bullshit and won't say anything at all.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^I know it must be hard for you to make the connection, but pray tell where on earth did you ever make the connection that if you drink, get laid, and own stereo equipment, that you aren't a nerd?



This new attempt at insulting me is just as generic and ineffective as when you used to call me gay, but I'll give you a cookie for at least making some effort.

I look forward to your next offering.

File a complaint and get his fudgepacked ass fired.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Ficticious? That shit is in my backyard bitch. Oh, but thanks for the assumption.

So you actually built the Thunderdome in your backyard? Wow. Anyone who spends that much money on an obsession with something made up in a movie is even nerdier than the guy who just pretends to go there. Then you're a nerd who wastes money.

And yes, I understood you weren't being serious, but it still made you look ridiculous for pretending to have the Thunderdome in your backyard.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

...how do you think I managed to become a mod of 3 forums if I was such a crap mod )



Do you really want an honest answer to this question ?

*looks under the table*

FK, i'm closing this, for the obvious reasons. You want it reopened then let me or one of the other mods know,ok?