There is a girl I know, I've known her for several years now, as we go to the same school. I went out with her a long time ago, but that isn't really relevant, perhaps it is. Anyway, lately she has said some interesting things. She said a bunch of times that we should "hang out" and she always touches me in some way when I see her in the halls. Most notably, she said she had a dream where she had sex with me. She said I was very good. Whether or not she had said dream or not is up for debate, but she still told me about it.

Now, one would think that the situation is pretty cut and dry. There is however, one catch. She has a boyfriend. She's been with this guy for quite a long while now, upwards of a year. She has said to me that she is "bored" with her life, hinting at her relationship with him.

What should I do? I could easily "hang out" with her as soon as this weekend. I don't quite know how I should deal with this situation, some advice would be appreciated.

Hang out with her, and go from there.

quote:Originally posted by Cpt.Winters:

There is however, one catch. She has a boyfriend..

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Thanks jack,

I guess this is a question of morals above all else.

Don't do it man... I have a similar but worse situation I didn't really want to make a thread about because it's not really a question.. But I'll tell you because it is very similar.

I went out with this girl a couple years ago too, we talked on and off since, more off than on.

Anyways without getting into too much detail she has a boyfriend she lives with and a newborn kid now and says she is bored with her sex life and doesn't want to be with him. After hinting around it for a bit I knew what she was implying and I just said pretty much that "I'm not going to sleep with you, you have a boyfriend and kid" and after that she just outright tryed to convince me to fuck her, this went on for a while.

Anyways moral is I'm not doin it and shes really hot and if you do it you're a huge asshole. Besides the girl in question with you isn't even bound to her boyfriend at all, make them breakup first and take it from there, thats fair game.