I fancy a girl at college.... meh whole story...



She had a dream about me and her having se, she woke up said OMG, then next day she said she resaerched it, and it was about me being sweet, and then she asked this goon out, and in class i winked and she winked back, i blow a kiss she did it back... smiled smiled etc, but then today after she drove me to maccy d's in her car... woot! she said that she liked loud boys and im fairly quiet, should i take this as a hint, then as she left college she blow a kiss to me... after 2 weeks... since the dream...



As lauren seems to be the expert into girls minds can you tell me what this one is doing about me...

Are you asking if you should start to be loud?

I was asking what do you think she is trying to say to me? like does she fancy me? or is she "playing" me along?

[This message has been edited by Jack_and_Jill (edited 10-31-2006).]

I don't even know what you're trying to say. I can't distinguish between you talking/her talking/dream/reality. Clarify with sentences?

Ok, here it goes again...

A really hot girl who i thoguht is out of my league says that she had a dream about me and her having sex, but in the dream she went OMG when she realised... and then she said it was becasue she thought i was sweet.

Then the next day we sat opposite ends of a room, and she would wink, and i would wink back, and i guessed this was becasue of the dream.

A week later its still going on, but we make eye contact

Yesterday she took me and a mate on a 3 mile drive to macdonalds, the whilst in the libabary she told my mates that she always go for the loud/dick head people and i feel fucked as im a sweet guy. And later that day after 3 weeks since the dream she blue a kiss to me.

Casually ask her if she'd like to do something with you on Saturday, or, really, make it more direct with, "Let's do something this Saturday."

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

I she said that she liked loud boys and im fairly quiet

Sometimes there are people we find that we're attracted to who are different than what we're used to. It could take some time for her to explore this interest further.

Try being a bit more aggressive with it and see what happens. If you get shot down then it probably wouldn't have worked anyway. That might be worth a try. What have you got to lose?

she says to your friends,i always go for the loud dickhead kinda guys...dickhead? sounds like she's saying she wishes she went for sweet quiet guys like yourself.i dunno thts what it sounds like to me!

Yeah, but should i be more aggressive and be more... assertive?

I would work it....in degrees. Not full-out.

ok if you change the way you act around her she be freaked,be you just make sure she knows your interested.don't blatently say your interested,like"oh by the way im interested in shagging you" let it out in a flirty conversation if u get the oppertunity.

Be cheesy and obvious.

"Baby, I can make your dreams come true!"