what is everyones oppinions of BDSM, anything ranging from light bondage to extreme pain and control play?

I find it rather repugnant.

I don't find the giving or receiving of pain arousing and fulfilling; control over a person also does nothing for me.

Its really not my thing. I think a sex session should be nice, soft, and cuddly, not cold metal and hitting... call me crazy...

not really my thing, but i wouldn't say no to a little light bondage. and light biting/hair pulling is intense sometimes. i donno, i just get these weird urges sometimes. depends on my mood.

but the spikes and whips can stay in someone else's bedroom.

My thing.

I'm a mostly dominant female..

I love experimenting, but have hard limits like everyone.

I realize the above sounds really snotty/boring, but I'm in a bad mood.

quote:Originally posted by ottomann:

Its really not my thing. I think a sex session should be nice, soft, and cuddly, not cold metal and hitting... call me crazy...

You're crazy.

I like a bit of control

this thread is lyke SOO useless w/out pics

BDSM is for people who drive SUV's.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

BDSM is for people who drive SUV's.

I drive a huge SUV, its more of a truck though... a Suburban. Anyway I'm into some light bondage and I can be pretty dominant at times.

Delivering some spanking, slapping or choking is common place in my bed along with tying and handcuffs. Tonight I used my belt on her; she loved it and gave me a blowjob as thanks.

I don't consider myself into BDSM or anything; I just have sex and like to do certain things. Those things might include me inflicting pain and/or being in control but I'm not gonna label those tendaecies with some trendy, blanket term.

not into the pain thing. but it would be hot to have a guy really take control at times, like, manhandle me a bit.

I could get into some light bondage, as long as the one bound is not me.

I sure wouldn't take part in anything like that. however on the other hand, I think people have a right to do as they please. If they want to do all this kinky stuff thier free too, just not with me.

I dig it, but the thought of a female-dominant = autofail.

quote:Originally posted by ottomann:

Its really not my thing. I think a sex session should be nice, soft, and cuddly, not cold metal and hitting... call me crazy...

Yeah, same here, although strong, not forceful, when you both want faster/harder action, you know what i mean..

no hitting/slapping/violent things though, and no whips or any of those typical bondage things either lol

[This message has been edited by mek777 (edited 11-01-2006).]

I can enjoy somewhat rough sex, biting (esp. on lip), hair-pulling, that kind of thing, but it's not required to get me off, just brings out my primal nature and makes things more hawtt. I could probably dig tying down to the bed if the girl wanted to do it, but that's not a fetish for me or anything. Other than that, no, I don't like BDSM. Stuff like spanking, hot wax nipple torture, 'Daddy' roleplaying, etc would just make me giggle, I can't get into that stuff, it seems silly to me.

What about Videodrome? Anyone here into televised death sex?

I got turned off it a long time ago, mainly due to a picture of a screaming woman with clamps on her nipples and clit.

Me like nice sex now.

BUMP

ROUGH SEX AND SPANKING FTW