This isn't really so much as an "ask for advice pretty please" thread as it is just a way for me to articulate what I've been thinking about for a long time.

See, I'm a nice guy. There are plenty of girls who I'm really good friends with, but I none would really want a romantic relationship with me. In a somewhat biased review of myself, I'm funny, nice, and while I wouldn't be described as dashing, I'm not ugly either.

I've had one girlfriend, if you can even call it that. Last year, me and a girl went out on two dates. We didn't go very well together, so we just decided to be friends, which works much better. She, however, has nothing to do with my problem. I've never even kissed a girl.

I think that my problem is that my standards are way too high; I'm very picky. It's not so much about looks, either. It just seems that every girl I meet is either boring, just plain stupid, or annoys the hell out of me. I know only a few girls who I would consider going out with. For the most part, they're very much out of my league, too.

For a while I actually wondered if I was maybe gay. But I thought about guys, and even watched some gay porn to see if it would do anything for me. I didn't feel aroused at all, so I guess I'm straight.

I'm just sick of all this damn relationship bullshit. It seems as though every time I go to ask a girl out, it turns out she likes me just as a friend.

I don't know, I think I'm just a little cowardly.

quote:Originally posted by muhamutahmatay:

This isn't really so much as an "ask for advice pretty please" thread as it is just a way for me to articulate what I've been thinking about for a long time.



This is what journals/diaries/friends are for...

Sorry, don't mean to be a dick, but if you're not looking for advice, how can you expect this to prompt discussion? Beyond advice, there's nothing to say.

When a guy says "I have high standards," it usually means "I'm afraid to approach women."

Listen to me, I can help you.

A lot of people are in your situation. Very little or no sexual experience, always told by girls you're just going to be their friend. Your rant seemed somewhat misogynistic and unfair to women. Do you expect them to have sex with you if you have the elitist attitude they're "dumb" or "boring?" Its not hard to make someone interesting by provoking shocking responses.

Its ok to be a man. Make sexual advances, and don't give a shit what the woman thinks of you. Shes there to impress you. Imagine that shes all over you and you're just there to laugh at her pitiful attempts to get close to you, but you still throw her a bone and mess around with her now and again.

Be cocky, funny and mysterious and you'll go far. Be humble, charming and "nice" and enjoy paying for dinners, buying women drinks, then having them piss off at the end of the night after exploiting you.

Oh yeah, and if you don't have one, get a life.

Relationships arn't the be all and end all.

Enjoy life and make the most of being at High School.

You WILL find a girl, it's just a matter of time... and if you're going to college/university then it wont be long.

quote:I'm bad at girls

Girls aren't a sport or videogame.

Since you aren't looking for anything out of this thread, that's all I'll put into it.

Dont Listen to these cockfags who say get of S&A...its a public space...I value hearing other peoples lives

I also suffer from finding many girls so fucking boring and lacking the capacity for meaningful conversations.

I was a lot like that at one point, you'll find some one, don't worry.

Good luck friend. I am told that there is someone for everyone, and that if you wait you will find that person. Sound advice? I hope so. Don't rush into a relationship for the sake of a relationship.

If you arn't in one now, or trying to be in one, it's becuase there isn't a girl there that you feel is right for you. Thats perfectly normal and fine. Just be patient and don't force the issue.

[This message has been edited by dontdrinkbleach (edited 10-31-2006).]

this is all nice advise but my opinion nothing is gonna happen if u dont get out there. Also try some of those other girls your not particularly fond it can only help with experience. I got a similar problem weird that totse is full of people like ourselves. i dont know if n e one can help me i am middle class and i go to some preppy ass costs a small fortune to go so it seems to me that im lower class. most of em in the fucking school has a big ass house most of them drive for me im in a middle class area suburb house pig sti i would say parents dont throw shit out i cant do it. Gotta ugly ass jungle theme working in the front yard this sorta gets rid of local ppl to be friendly with. Back to the school i dont really think i beling to an extent not to many friends i got some learning disorder kinda makes me moody sometimes anti social and always tired . There are a lot of hot girls in the school but i really think there all way out of my league anything can be done totse

Do a barrel roll.

I dont get it

*shrug* Girls get easy man. It's best not to think about them.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Girls aren't a sport or videogame.



I think they are bagging one is like a version of hunting one takes skill, carsima and cunning.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Do a barrel roll.

This man...is wise beyond his years.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Girls aren't a sport or videogame.



This may explain why the Konami Code doesn't work for me on dates...