I recently discovered, among many other things, that my (ex)gf was cheating on me....last night she left me for this other guy.

She doesnt know that i know all the things she has been doing. She also trusted me enough to leave her computer (which is filled with all sorts of evidence of these deeds) with me for "safe keeping." I have already gone through it (yes, what a horrible person i am for betraying her trust) and have gathered all the information i need in order to procede. I know that she will come back....she has left many times before, but me, being an idiot, always took her back. Im going to give it a month at most; but my question to all of you is, what should i do when she comes back?

Keep in mind that I am a sadist at heart, and, while i would never do anything to cause her physical harm, i am in no way above doing as much emotional harm as i can.

Thsi is where all of you come in, who here thinks that revenge is an appropriate reaction, and who here thinks that i should try to be the better person and walk away?

Revenge is a product of anger and anger is a product of fear. By seeking revenge on her you're taking all the bad things she's done to you and putting them on yourself.

It's your life, do what you want to do, but I think revenge is for children who don't understand the consequences of their actions.

Cheers,

Lost

I disagree with you, LC. I believe that sometimes, people need to be taught a lesson. This bitch has trampled him time and time again, it's time she got some of her own back so she knows what it feels like.

No ideas here man, but if I think of something I'll post it. Firstly, list her hobbies and activites, what type of job she has, things like that. Might be wise to shake the foundations of her life. Well, not wise... but fair.

Hump her, dump her, and confront her with the evidence.

The bitch has it coming. If you have the chance she should experience as much emotional duress as you can inflict.

Revenge is a dish best served cold. If your going to do it go all out. But be prepared for the fallout.

she is insane, thats all i can say. She is bi, more lesbian than not, which makes it hard to understand why she is with me. she doesnt have a job at the moment, she abandoned everythign that she had a little while ago, and now is living off the guy who she is not with. her hobies are drinking blood, thinking she is a cat (i hate furries so fucking much), trying to cinvince other people that if they feel a little off that they might be a reincarnated spirit of an anamal or ficticions creature. She is trying to secretly maintain a longdistance relationship with another woman (who thinks she is an elf) and maintains the illusion that if you burn halucinoganic plands out in the forrest you are instead having visions of your past lives. she lives her life on the internet...in a way far worse than what comes to mind first. She spends hours playing with chat avatars, pretending myspace in inportant, and looking at those little annoying pictures that people use as icons to represent actual feeling. One of the best ways, in my oppinion, to get to her would be sex, she is a nympho if i have ever seen one. i could, and when she comes back, will again be able to get her to do almost anything for sex. another is through her family, she has very, very deep problems with rejection, and believes sometimes that everyone that is in her family is out ot get her. made holidays very akward for me..... the last thing i can thing so is school....she dropped out, and has never even looked inot a GED or anything like that, and she is VERY sensitive about that subject. Ill post more if i think of

as well as suggesting that i do something, does anyone have any ideas how?

You could just forget about acting like a hurt little child and 'man up'?

When she comes back , just put her over your knee and then never mention the incident again.

A few more thoughts as to her personality:

She stayed with me, at least she tells her friends, because she believes i will kill myself if she leaves (it worked for a while, a little bit of a pre-emptive strike) and she has a very violent streak...sone that ive never taken advantage of....but it would be sooooo easy.

Eat her alive.

quote:Originally posted by asthesunsets:

Eat her alive.

I'll think about it....

Rough sex, take pictures, blackmail her for more rough sex, tell her you know she cheated on you, use her tears as lube for more rough sex, then let her go. Keep the pictures in case you get lonely.

You seem to know what you're gonna do already, so go do it.

And by that, I mean destroy her, in every sense of the word.

quote:Originally posted by The American Infidel:

She is bi, more lesbian than not

I stopped reading there. You've changed my mind. You should take her back.

she is bi...but will not let me enjoy that, she wants to be with other women, but doesnt even tell me about it, and will let me have nothing to do with it

If it were me...I'd either dump her completely, or else take her back and use her in whatever way I saw fit. I could never respect her after that, and there wouldnt be anything of an emotional relationship left. I'd take her back and lock her into a relationship, preventing her from moving on, and then have whatever other girls (sexually and or emotionally) on the side.

But I'm not sure how long I could keep that up...chances are i'd probably just dump her and never speak to her again.

quote:Originally posted by The American Infidel:

she is bi...but will not let me enjoy that, she wants to be with other women, but doesnt even tell me about it, and will let me have nothing to do with it

What the fucking fuck? In that case, I stand by my original statement: hump her, dump her, and then confront her with the evidence.

On second thought im not sure you even need to help the bitch along. She's fucked up enough as it is. Just get the hell away from her. And get a restraining order. This sounds like a crazy dyke that could easily kick your ass.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

This sounds like a crazy dyke that could easily kick your ass.

she couldnt kick me ass, she eats very little, therefore has almost no muscle mass, and she has very bad hand eye coordination

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She sounds like a fucking moron, don't even bother.

its not that i need to do anyhting, its that i watn to, she deserves some sort of retaliation for all the pain she has caused me. Do you not agree?

When she comes back to you, tell her that you need her to prove her love.

Make her strip for you. Then suck you off. Then let you fuck her ass. Then tell her to go outside, find a random man, and offer to blow him for five dollars and give you the money.

If she does it, take the money and tell her to get the fuck out because you don't date whores.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

When she comes back to you, tell her that you need her to prove her love.

Make her strip for you. Then suck you off. Then let you fuck her ass. Then tell her to go outside, find a random man, and offer to blow him for five dollars and give you the money.

If she does it, take the money and tell her to get the fuck out because you don't date whores.

NICE!!! i think i will. That is one of the best so far

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

When she comes back to you, tell her that you need her to prove her love.

Make her strip for you. Then suck you off. Then let you fuck her ass. Then tell her to go outside, find a random man, and offer to blow him for five dollars and give you the money.

If she does it, take the money and tell her to get the fuck out because you don't date whores.

i lol'd

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

When she comes back to you, tell her that you need her to prove her love.

Make her strip for you. Then suck you off. Then let you fuck her ass. Then tell her to go outside, find a random man, and offer to blow him for five dollars and give you the money.

If she does it, take the money and tell her to get the fuck out because you don't date whores.

Nice one Gus

To all those people telling him to grow up and that this is childish: Shut up. Revenge can be fun. She deserves it.

May I suggest give her personal information to totse, and letting us help you with the revenge? Of course you can't actually post it on totse, but you could always post a link to a blog or something where you have listed all her details. I'm sure that the combined brain power of totse will be able to do something fun with all that info

what information do you want.

Also, i want this to last for a while, so if you are going to do anything, make sure she doesnt know that I am behind any of this. I want to drag out her suffering as long as possible.



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quote:Originally posted by The American Infidel:

what information do you want.

Also, i want this to last for a while, so if you are going to do anything, make sure she doesnt know that I am behind any of this.



I'm not saying that I can personally do anything- I'm not a haxxor and I live in Australia. But I think we've all seen what the collective power of totse can do. I'm sure that if we have her name, email, phone number, address, etc, someone on totse is bound to do something.

*This is all hypothetical of course, we wouldn't really talk about giving out personal information on totse*

Of course, we wouldnt actually do that. But hypothetically, if someone wanted to help in that way, thy could email me at americaninfidel666@yahoo.com. that, of course, would only be the case if i was going to offer up personal info...which is completely wrong.....

Disregard her feelings at every turn, be a total cunt.

Ask her to prove her love by having rough deviant sex on film.

Dump her.

Next time you see her threaten to show everyone the film unless she fucks you again.

Insist that you only be fuck buddies and try to hurt her whenever possible.

Forgive and forget?

quote:Originally posted by LostCause:

Revenge is a product of anger and anger is a product of fear. By seeking revenge on her you're taking all the bad things she's done to you and putting them on yourself.

It's your life, do what you want to do, but I think revenge is for children who don't understand the consequences of their actions.

Lies.

Go for the revenge man

She sounds like a complete mess.

And your solution?

Mess her up even more? Smart as fuck you are.

Let her go, let it go. And while you're at it, grow up.

Jx

Dude I swear to god that sounds EXACTLY like my friends ex. She jumped out of his car doing 50 and that was kinda the end of her. Um, anal punishment and extreme degredation is all I can think of.

If you choose revenge:

Definitely use blackmail - keep things of hers, keep evidence, keep information, that you can use against her whenever you need to.

By the way, from the way you described her, she does sound a little... fucked.

And you said she has a violent streak. I really think that if you choose revenge/blackmail/humiliation, she will hit back twice as hard. And avoid sexual degradation etc. You don't want her crying rape...

quote:Originally posted by The American Infidel:

she couldnt kick me ass, she eats very little, therefore has almost no muscle mass, and she has very bad hand eye coordination



Sounds like a shitty lay.

quote:Originally posted by Local Hero:

Sounds like a shitty lay.

actually she is pretty damn good.

also, im not going to go for revenge, revenge in this case is unnecessary. though i do like your various suggestions. i will keep them in mind for future refrence.