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Old 2006-10-30, 23:57
Phaint Phaint is offline
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Default Hooking up when drunk?

So I got pretty drunk a couple days ago and this girl/friend got really wasted. Her best friend (who was pretty tipsy too)kept telling me to hook up with my friend and I was like "I don't know" I'm pretty nice when I'm sober but really nice when I'm drunk. People get moody when they're drunk, so I decided not to. I regret it a bit. There was some casual flirting (I'm now on her "bangable" list lol) before we got drunk and I think she has some interest in me.And she kept clinging and hugging me the entire time. My question is: how do you hook up with someone when you're both drunk?
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Old 2006-10-31, 00:06
StealthyRacoons StealthyRacoons is offline
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Talk to her and if she feeling me maybe put an hand on her and start rubbing her stomach. Then kissing. Dude changes everytime just go with the flow. I had girls walk up to me an kiss me. SO that simplified shit. Just go for it.
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Old 2006-10-31, 00:14
stab stab is offline
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I'm pretty sure you lean in and play tonsil hockey, but you know, I could be wrong.

I think what you're trying to ask me, and everybody else (but I'm the most important one, top marks for ego), is what are the ethics of hooking up while drunk?

Well, really, here's the deal. If I don't care about the girl, I'll hook up with her while she's drunk, as long as I'm drunk too or else I probably won't enjoy it. If I like the girl, then I'd want her to be sober, because I'd want her to make a logical decision to hook up with me, not a drunken one.

It's not about the ethics about 'using' or 'taking advantage' of her. She probably wants to be taken advantage of, most girls these days do. It's a question of your own ethics. What a drunken hookup means to you, and is it worth it.
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Old 2006-10-31, 00:41
bringitonhome bringitonhome is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up when drunk?

I find it a hell of a lot easier, but usually a lot less enjoyable. Meet her sober, and try and do it then. A lot more effort, but much more worthwhile.
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Old 2006-10-31, 00:46
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

My question is: how do you hook up with someone when you're both drunk?

What the fuck!? That's usually when it's much more likely to happen

My problem is (or at least was) finding a way to avoid drunken hookups. Luckily though, I've learned to handle my liquor (most of the time) since then.
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Old 2006-10-31, 02:09
second_existence second_existence is offline
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quote:Originally posted by bringitonhome:

I find it a hell of a lot easier, but usually a lot less enjoyable. Meet her sober, and try and do it then. A lot more effort, but much more worthwhile.

I disagree. Do whatever you can while your drunk so when your sober the next day or whenever it wont be at all awkward.
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Old 2006-10-31, 02:43
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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Default Re: Hooking up when drunk?

Well we were talking about where we lived in michigan...and had the hand out and everything...I said we lived here, he said noo we live here...then he called me a jerk, I said noo you are! andd then he kissed me....
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Old 2006-10-31, 02:46
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by ShootingStar:

Well we were talking about where we lived in michigan...and had the hand out and everything...I said we lived here, he said noo we live here...then he called me a jerk, I said noo you are! andd then he kissed me....

Hey, where you at in Michigan? I LOVE 4 wheeling, especially when it involves running someone else's quad into a pond.
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Old 2006-10-31, 03:02
StealthyRacoons StealthyRacoons is offline
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Look a drunk hook up is a mindless fuck. It can be just a one time thing and sometimes it could lead to more.
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Old 2006-10-31, 03:24
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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quote:Originally posted by sidewayz6.6:

Hey, where you at in Michigan? I LOVE 4 wheeling, especially when it involves running someone else's quad into a pond.



Ha I live by detroit..... Yeah I let my cousin drive mine, and she drove herself into the pond.... where do you live?
 
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