So as you all well know, I went to homecoming with a girl, Claire, and although I was quite worried about it, we ended up making out in excess of seven times.

My problem is this: As a guy, I assumed that because we made out at a school dance, we were in some sort of relationship.

I asked around (to other girls) if Claire was talking about me and stuff, and I asked her friend Vanessa if we were actually in a relationship. Vanessa told me to ask claire if "we were going out."

So I did.

"Hey, Claire, are we going out?"

"You didn't ask me!!!"

"Uh... well, wanna go out?"

"I donno.."

This was all near the buses, so she just left after saying that.

I anticipated a call or something from her to elaborate on what the fuck she meant by "I don't know."

I asked some girls who live near me, and some of her friend through AIM what this means/what I seemed to have screwed up, and they all said some variation of "wait a while" and was wondering what you guys think I should to.

I can't fuck this up.

Well yeah okay take their advice for starters man, wait a while. If you dont you'll seem desperate, clingy and needy.

This isn't a big deal.

Then, get together for a movie or a coffe or whatever the fuck you do (porno?) and have another chat about it.

Yes? ...Yes?

So cutting the shit out... you snogged a girl 7 times at a dance, and you dont know if that makes you her bf...well. if your not knokc on her door, and say theses words...

'I felt something when we kissed, I loved kissing you, i felt on teh top of the moon, will you become my girlfriend to make it last an eternity?'

Love [Insert Name Here]

/Sam

^ Hmm, romantic. You can lurve me anytime, big boy. Wink wink. Boner.

I have a boner too...

Yeah im a fairly deep person... I always thought sweet guy is better then tough guy... becasue its easier to be the sweetest but hurts to be the toughest :P



Lets do me+you= 1 *Blows kiss*

Um... right. I'll just wait for her to come to me.

So I shouldn't count on going out with her on Halloween, huh?

Thats tomorrow...

Well, ehhh, sure... sooner you get it out the sooner you know, and it will be closer to the kissing frnezy... so if she did have feeligns they would still be fresh...ish

*blush*

This is my first time... be gentle...

I find sweet works! A lot better than tough. Tough is just, you know, pointless. Reminds me of wankers. A real man is sensitive to the needs of others, but defiant in his own beliefs.

Man, let's go off topic further!

Okay on topic, halloween? Nah man, you can still ask her to halloween. You won't be official, but seriously who cares. Official is overrated anyway. Call her up man! You got nothing to lose.

Flood control will fuck me hard here...

Flood control was nice! *jumps!*

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I have to go to bed now...lawl are you american becasue our times zones are off... UK lad = Me.

Post a pic fo you, i'll post a pic of me :P

"I don't know" means no.

She was just going for a one night stand, but you still broke the fundimental rule of 'don't ask if you're going out until you're sure you're going out'.

This kind of crap pisses me off. It's like the kind of thing men would do- but in women!

It's a disturbing trend, girls seem to be losing their maturity ace.

^ He's right but still, don't give up hope. On taking her to halloween. You probably shouldn't go for a relationship. And maybe you should bring it up and be a bit sheepish about it. Then she'll know you know you did wrong.

JJ, I'll see you around here sometime and hit you up with my myspace. Not now though! you're going to sleep And freaks will try to add me.

Also, I'm Australian It's 8:50am! I get to play with the yanks. Bwahahaha. They're fucked!

Sweet dreams loverboy *kiss kiss*

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So I just took a walk to clear my head, and Claire called. She said that the real reason why she said "I don't know" was because her friend got jealous yesterday and was giving her a hard time because we were "all over each other,"

And she complimented my kiss and said that I was "really fucking good" even though it was my first one, and that if she gets free on Halloween, she'd call me up. I told her if not, we could get together on Saturday and either get something to eat.

But I acted like a dork and said things like "it's nice hearing from you" and "I've never been in a stable relationship," even though school ended like 3 hours ago.

Oh, well, it's not like one stupid line is going to make her think I'm a total dumbass, huh? Haha, well, I'm really happy. I should be, right?

The dorky things I said don't really matter, right.

I'm just worried because she told me to "loosen up" and act like myself.

I'll just take her advice...

Oh, man, I'm just so damn confused, and paranoid that I'll lose her, hahaha. Oh, man..

Lose what? You don't even have her.

Chill out man. She's just a girl. Think about what you can gain, not what you can lose. It sounds like she really likes you man. And how about this, the dorky things you said, so fucking what I say dorky shit all the time, but this is the bit you should be concentrating on: She told you you're a 'really fucking good' kisser.

Come the fuck on dude! Score??!!!!

Hehe, yeah, haha, man, I'm doin' all right, hehe.

It's funny how shit works out, huh?

Yeah man! As long as you don't worry, shit usually goes pretty well on it's own accord