I've met and started dating the sweetest guy recently, the problem is that I'm a shallow little whore and I'm not sexually attracted to him at all.

I love him to death, he's so sweet and treats me right.. but I can't picture myself ever doing ANYTHING sexual with him. The farthest we've gone so far is make out, and I hated it.

:-(

break up, now.

i can't stress enough how wrong it is to lead someone on. it's much much worse than just blatant, honest rejection.

Do the guy a favopur and go all the way with him, be nice to him give hime a break

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Also do soemthing about your name...ffs gangsta...there should never be anyones totse name which includes that word...if you spell it right..its almost acceptable however.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

break up, now.

i can't stress enough how wrong it is to lead someone on. it's much much worse than just blatant, honest rejection.

You're an idiot for even getting with the guy in the first place.

quote:Originally posted by Influx:

You're an idiot for even getting with the guy in the first place.

Yes... agreed...

If you cant imagine doing anything with them wtf is the point in going out with them?

Listen to lauren, she may be deranged but she knows what she's talking about (sometimes).

I'm sorry lauren I'm just teasing.

/hungover

Just be blunt who knows maybe he knows how you feel and is waiting for you to say it. Either way he would prefer it if you were blunt with him and not leading him on.

call him asap and tell him he may have know what you want to tell him and is waiting for it.

[This message has been edited by doom guy (edited 10-30-2006).]

Put him down gently, saw that you think you should have a break.. but you should still talk to him for a bit, becasue if he really likes you he will be shattered... and like thats out of order really, when it was your fucking fault for agreeing

I don't know if she's neccisarily leading him on. May be she's keeping it on because she's hoping she'll develop a sexual affection for him, because it sounds like she really likes him.

But, still, break it off. You're not going to develop a sexual affection for him and if you do, it will be temporary and probably alcohol induced. Niether of you need the pain.

Cheers,

Lost

I'm going to go against the general advice and say i don't think you should necessarily break up with him.

HOWEVER you must be totally, brutally honest with him NOW!

A loving, commited, looong term relationship is possible without you finding sexual fulfillment...with you just doing your 'duty' but it's bloody hard and it can be soul destroying for both.

But if you both really love each other then even non-sexual attraction isn't an insummountable hurdle (although it comes close).

post a pic of both him and urself. we will judge if he is actually up to ur standards.

quote:Originally posted by SpEX Moneymaker:

post a pic of both him and urself. we will judge if he is actually up to ur standards.

What in the fuck was that?? unless you're old, sexual satisfaction makes up 90% of any relationship. especially when it's new. tell ya what gangsta..i'm not usually like this..but if ya need satisfied..i'll smack your ass and pull your hair on the DL.

I'm going to go with Ketch here. Be brutally honest with him straight away.

You may be able to figure something out or save a good friendship.

But you must be totally honest with him if you're to be friends. He can't have any false ideas, you'd destroy him.

it sounds like you have some personal issues to work out befor you date any1 else i suggest you tell him and see what he wants to do let him take the reigns.

Seems like trolling to me. Look at the wording.